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16, Female

Last weekend I went to a party, I didn't drink because it was school the next day. I was walking home with my boyfriend and mum had called me and asked where I was. I told her i was almost home, she said that dad was on his way and he wasn't happy. I knew I would be in trouble, and dad would go off at Kieran for being with me.
Turns out instead of going off a Kieran he just left him, to walk home alone. I felt so bad. When we got home dad was yelling at screaming at me, so i just walked away, didn't talk to him for a week after that, it made mum and dad fight I hate doing that to them.
Why are my parents so much more protective than anyone else's?
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ohmygosh..
how old are you? is kieran a niec person
did youre parents allow it?

just tell them that youre old enough
and that you can take care of yourself
they just care about you



I just started my period and Im scared to use a tampon. Is it ok if i just use a pad for now? (link)
haha of course!
i didnt start using tampons till my second year
and still. i dont use it all the time
its just sometimes more comfortable


Well, my friend is going to give this cute kid my number and I really want him to like me when he texts me but I don't want to act like a dork. So, I came up with the conclusion I am going to try and play hard to get. My best friend is a guy and he said that kinda thing about a girl really turns the guy on, makes them work for what they want. So, when he texts me and asks if it's me or just says hi, I need to act surprised that he's contacting me. If I know he's gonna text me and I portray that in my texting, he's gonna think I'm desperate. I just don't know how to play hard to get without coming off as a jerk. So, when he texts me hey, I'll say hey and who is this (because I'm not supposed to know it's him ;))then I would assume he'll bring up something about me liking him and I'll say "woah, getting ahead of yourself there, buddy, I just said you were cute, that's all". Please help me in trying to be more hard to gettish, I want him to show me that he wants me (if he does) and that he is willing to work for me. If he even texts me to begin with, I'll be happy haha. Thanks! (link)
gosh.. well
trust me different guys like differnt things
i mean i tried to do the hard to get thing.. and he TOTALLY gave up.
and this other guy (my bff guy friend) likes hard to get..
just be yourself and this is gay and cheesy
but its true

if he doesnt like you for who you are.. then screw him


my best friend has been looking weaker and more pale lately. there was a week i spent with her in the ozarks with her parents and everytime she would eat she would go to the batroom like mintues later and she would put the water on really high and she would like come out twenty mins later and when i asked her what she was doing she would say. "oh. ive been having diarriah lately!" so i just always left it at that. i talked to her mom once and she said she has been noticing it too and she talked to her about it but maggie just refused it and said thats not true. i don't know what to do anymore. i can't talk to maggie becuase she gets really offended when people say "you look anerixic" if it's not true that she is throwing up everytime she eats imagine how mad she would be at me!

signed,
confused and scared (link)
uhmm well.
what i would think is bulemia.
ask her if shes bulemic and if she gets pissed
then theres a high chancethat she is
if you tell someone like an authority figure
she'll be like.. SUPER pissed at you
but, honestly if you care about her..just to be on the safe side
tell someone.. i mean this is dangerous
she could die


Okay so im on the end of my period, (the fifth day) and its like basically over. But everytime i put a tampon in (just in case) it hurts sooo bad. It hurts on the way in, and then when its inside of me its sore.

What should i do? (link)
ok.. uhm
i dont think you should put in a tampon at the end
because it has no fluid so its dry when you put it in.
Does it hurt when the flow is heavy?
are you putting it in the wrong hole?
how many times have you tried it


Ok so my ex and i broke up last month because of a rumor that wasn't even true but we both still really like each other alot. we text each other all the time but he got grounded from his phone for about a week and when he got it back i asked him why he was grounded, he told me that his phone was calling his mom while he was getting a blowjob...... and im like what the heck!! I mean he keeps saying he is going to ask me back out but he doesn't if he does this when he is single Im scared to find out what he would do when he is in a relationship. But if he ask be back out idk what i would say. What should I think? What should I say? please help me. Im 14 and Female

and P.S. im to young to worry about anything close to that so if he thinks I will do any of that then I will say NO! (link)
is he 14? and he got a BJ?! oh well. i know many ppl like that..
and truthfully i dont think you should go out with him
even if he does ask you back out. i mean hes obviously kind of
a man whore. and he WILL pressure you into taht kind of stuff.. trust me.


okay so here's the deal all my family and friends are going on a cruise in July and I am in no shape to go. I need advice on how I can go from a size 13 to an 8 in less then 4 months. like diet tips and workout routines all that. Please help me! THANK YOU (link)
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uhm well you have to be VERY commited
i lost 8 pounds in a week once
what you do
is dont jog... do like.. a powerwalk
right after you eat a breakfast of only fruit (better if its a melon)
then for 30 min after you eat dinner PROTIEN (no meat just beans)
and cut down on your carbs. do you eat alot of bread?
NO TRANS FAT! do not eat packaged foods
or fried
EAT IN DONT GO OUT AND EAT! :D
i think youll be alot thinner if you do this


I got accepted to three Cal States and a university. I applied to the university by accident, but I got in. The university is a private, Christian school. I'm Catholic. I heard many good things about the university and I would like to attend there. But, I know that it's more expensive than the Cal States. I'm thinking about going to the university though.

Do you recommend that I go a Christian university even though I'm Catholic? (link)
well are you a strict catholic?
i think its ok. i mean catholics and protestants both believe in god. jesus and all of that
im christian and a really strong one so i believe that
if you accidently applied there that god is telling you to go there


So, I am fifteen, female and in a rut. I was in gym one day playing a game of volleyball and we were playing against my friends team, who was a reeeeally cute boy on it. I was definately attracted to him, my friend (on his team) said he was looking at me a few times and I made a complete fool of myself, but, that's who I am, a clutz and he should realize that (: so my friend is the best and started talking to this boy for me and today she asked him for his number so she could give it to me, unfortunately he doesn't have a phone. She asked him for his number and he said "aww, man, I would but I don't have a phone" so I think he's being completely serious. Now, I am quite shy but so is he.. so this is where my being in a rut comes in. I legitimately never see him, we have gym together but we are in different squads and my squad moved to health class so I NEVER see him ): if he doesn't have a cell phone, how do we talk to each other? he has a facebook, but I have a myspace. I have a cell phone, he doesn't. I have no classes with him. What am I gonna do? Thanks. (link)
lol i have the sammeee problem!
do you have like.. msn aim or any chat thing like that?
first you start with things like that.. and then yeah
do you see him in the halls? say hey
and then get him a phone? like one of those cheap ones.


Well i like this guy who is a year older then me and goes to my school and his locker is across from mine , so he smiles at me sometimes so i poked him him on facebook and then inboxed him after a few pokes and said you know, ill win this poke war ;) and then he said
i think your mistaken i will not give up:) so i fed off that and kept talking about that but now i have NO idea what to talk about

plz help! (link)
uhhh
you should have inculded your age
if you like.. middle or high..
uh do you know alot about him?
talk about school, music
joke around with him
tease him


m / 14

This really isn't about getting advice. It's just some things i've wondered about girls.

1) Why do girls always go to the bathroom in groups? What do you guys do in there besides pee?

2)why are girls embarrassed to be seen in their bra and panties but not in a bikini.

3) Do girls notice when guys get boners?

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LOL.. so now i know what 14 year old males think about
1. cause.. we like to? check hair.. talk..
2. cause.. bikinis are like.. a swimsuit and lol did you just say 'panties??'
3. yes we do.. only if theyre big D: they gross me out


okay so there's this boy in my year who im good friends with. I sit at the front next to him in maths and my friend at the side of me. He's so funny but is a rebel. He's up to my boobs when i hug him but i don't think i mind that much. He has friends what are rebels aswel. I think he likes me and i think he is going to ask me out soon. I don't want to say no because i no deep down he's really sensetive and will be upset. He always flirts with me. He's touched my boob, slapped my bum and always runs his fingers down my back. I don't no if i like him or not. He's intrested in going further than kissing and i don't think i'm up to anything else further. What should i do? (link)
uhm dont go out with him
i mean the same thing happened with my friend
and she ended up giving him a blowjob in like.. 2 months
and then he dumped her..c ause he wasnt getting enough action


16f
I had sex first time, and now i cant stop thinking about it
All the images and the whole things replaying in my head, Its not that im fantasizing about doing it again, I actually want all of these thoughts out of my head, I'm still in shock of what happened, and every time i think about it I just want it to go away. I don't feel like I regret it, I just feel okay with it. But thinking about it snaps me into reality that it really did happen and it hits me all over again. Is this a sign of regret? How can i stop thinking about it? (link)
lol.. it says Your brilliant answer:

well.. idk if this is brilliant or not.. but what happened has happened. and your sixteen? do you love this guy? i mean.. will you stay with him for the rest of you life? Just preted it didnt happen.. pretend it was a draem




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