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i don't no if i should go out with this boy or not
okay so there's this boy in my year who im good friends with. I sit at the front next to him in maths and my friend at the side of me. He's so funny but is a rebel. He's up to my boobs when i hug him but i don't think i mind that much. He has friends what are rebels aswel. I think he likes me and i think he is going to ask me out soon. I don't want to say no because i no deep down he's really sensetive and will be upset. He always flirts with me. He's touched my boob, slapped my bum and always runs his fingers down my back. I don't no if i like him or not. He's intrested in going further than kissing and i don't think i'm up to anything else further. What should i do?
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I'm actualy impresed most girls around here only want sex and sin no one understands even us guys need true love without sex. I think you should'nt go out with this kid and if he asks you out just say sory but my heart is taken he will most likely understand. and if he asks who just say a boy form an othoe shchool and make up a name. If all he wants is to touch you and be sexual and not actualy give you the love you crave from him it's not at all worth it. Me and my girl trueley love eachother. I will admit she has her down sides too but wer working it all out as we speak.
If it's ok with you I would much apreciate your opinion on my question just check out my profile and tell me what you think. But as for the boy let him go and find someone who will treat you with love and respect rather than lust sex and abuse. Sincereley, Mike
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Well, I think you MUST like him or you wouldnt let him touch you, and you would mind that he was shorter than you.
So, if and when you do go out with him, you should tell him up front that you do not intend to go further than kissing. You do have the right to set the rules about what happens to your body, liking someone does not obligate you to let them set the pace.
Dont be afraid to say pretty point blank that this is what you want, and how you want it to go. Its much easier to set those rules up front before things get heated than it is to try and set them when you are in the backseat of a car with the windows fogged up. If he likes you, for more than sex, he will understand that. Most boys would love to have sex, but most boys also know that the girl is the one who makes that decision. Many of them will even respect you for having the backbone to set the rules for yourself.
Lots of boys grow out of being a rebel, and end up very respectable gentlemen with good jobs and lovely families. If you like him, dont let that dissuade you at his age, unless he involved in criminal behavior.
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uhm dont go out with him
i mean the same thing happened with my friend
and she ended up giving him a blowjob in like.. 2 months
and then he dumped her..c ause he wasnt getting enough action
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