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16f
I had sex first time, and now i cant stop thinking about it
All the images and the whole things replaying in my head, Its not that im fantasizing about doing it again, I actually want all of these thoughts out of my head, I'm still in shock of what happened, and every time i think about it I just want it to go away. I don't feel like I regret it, I just feel okay with it. But thinking about it snaps me into reality that it really did happen and it hits me all over again. Is this a sign of regret? How can i stop thinking about it?
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At 16 having sex is a very big deal. It is a major life change. Heck, it is a major relationship changer.
You know, you read a lot of stories on here about teens having such great sex. In reality, its just ok. I'm sure the stories are just that. Stories. I've been sexually active since I was 16, and as
an old lady, believe me, I know. (I was pregnant & married a year later.) :) The problem with all this is that it makes teens who read them, feel that their experience may have been lacking. In reality, your experience was probably normal. So if that may be what has you over thinking it, you don't have to be. Teen boys just do not have the experience to make it an earth shattering event. They will in time.
If that is not it, then it could be regret. Its probably more a sadness that childhood is now over. Sex is supposed to make you feel more grown up, right? You don't have to. Not if you use proper protection anyway. Which is another thing that can cause the old brain to work overtime. The chance of pregnancy is always there.
Not talking to the guy is not going to help.
You need to get with him and tell him how you are feeling. Talk it out. Decide if you want to continue to have a sexual relationship or if you
want to put it on hold until you are more ready.
It really is a lot of responsibility & even using protection the risks of pregnancy is there. It is a scary thing to deal with. It would NOT be wrong
if you decided you were not ready for all this.
But you need to talk about it. It will help a lot
to share those feelings with him.
Right now you just have so much going on in your head about this and you need to get it out of there. Talk to him.
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lol.. it says Your brilliant answer:
well.. idk if this is brilliant or not.. but what happened has happened. and your sixteen? do you love this guy? i mean.. will you stay with him for the rest of you life? Just preted it didnt happen.. pretend it was a draem
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