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This interesting guy..
Hey ill try make this short and simple.
15/f
Theres this guy called blair. Hes really cute and hes SO cool.
This guy he is turning 18 soon.. we talk alot on bebo and stuff and we've hang out a couple of times with a group of people.
we are going to hang out by ourselfs after exams.. and i think i may start to like him. but im pretty sure hes just in it for the sex. im sexually active.. and we have plans to have sex.. :L sounds weird but hes soo hot :P
but what if my mum doesnt like him
he does smoke weed and drink most weekends so im guessing she wont like him :L
but she will wont to meet him first before we go out or whatever.
cause shes just like that.
and i feel bad if i argue to her about guys cos they are just guys and i want to make her happy as well as my self...
soo
idk
theres a couple of problems here.
my mother. and blair.
idk if he will like me or just want sex all the time.. which i guess i dont mind ..
and how do i get my mother to understand that i want to go out with the guys i like even though she dissagrees.
sorry that its long!
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At 15 years old, your mother probably understands that you might want to go out with people she dislikes, but she also understands that she is your mom, and can say no to you.
If you mother doesn't let you go out with an 18 year old guy who you are already planning on sleeping with and who pretty clearly just wants you for sex... that doesn't make her a bad person! That makes her a good mom who rather not have her daughter hanging out with an older guy who only wants her for her body!
Even if you are okay with sleeping with this guy knowing that's all he wants from you, doesn't mean your mom has to be okay and supportive of that choice! She can still say "Nope. I'm not going to be supportive of you hanging out with him 'cause I don't think I like how you are deciding to run this relationship.”
When you move on out your own you can go find hundreds of hot guys to have sex with if you want too. Your mother will no longer have any say when you are an adult. But while you are still a teen living in her home, she does have a say, and it sounds like she'd be wise to discourage you from hanging out with this particular guy.
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well in your case it seems that your mom doesint want you to make the wrong decision she wants whats best for you and she wants to see you do good and make right desisions if your sure hes just in it for the sex then dont go by yourself go with a group of friends or if you are comfortable with you and him having sex then thatts your decisonand if your mom disagrees try telling her tht you are old enough to make your own decisions and tell her tht you have raised a smart gurl and tht you will choose to make the right decisions ... thts my advice to you !!!! hope you like it..
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Basically, your mom is just worried that you will go the wrong direction. That's how parents are to their children. The guy you're going to introduce to her has a reputation of doing drugs. Even if you find him very attractive, you think you will be able to live up to his reputation? Make a wise decision on this!!! That's my honest answer. To get your mom to understand, just generously tell her how you feel. As long as you express your feelings, she should understand where your coming from.
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Well, you're mum only cares about you but she's not always going to like the same people as you. So talk to her calmly.
And with him i'm not sure you should be hanging around him aswell. Drugs? Really? That's not a good influence at all. And i'd think about if he's really worth it and if he is using you.
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