Member Since: November 21, 2009 Answers: 1 Last Update: November 29, 2009 Visitors: 288
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Hey ill try make this short and simple.
15/f
Theres this guy called blair. Hes really cute and hes SO cool.
This guy he is turning 18 soon.. we talk alot on bebo and stuff and we've hang out a couple of times with a group of people.
we are going to hang out by ourselfs after exams.. and i think i may start to like him. but im pretty sure hes just in it for the sex. im sexually active.. and we have plans to have sex.. :L sounds weird but hes soo hot :P
but what if my mum doesnt like him
he does smoke weed and drink most weekends so im guessing she wont like him :L
but she will wont to meet him first before we go out or whatever.
cause shes just like that.
and i feel bad if i argue to her about guys cos they are just guys and i want to make her happy as well as my self...
soo
idk
theres a couple of problems here.
my mother. and blair.
idk if he will like me or just want sex all the time.. which i guess i dont mind ..
and how do i get my mother to understand that i want to go out with the guys i like even though she dissagrees.
sorry that its long!
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well in your case it seems that your mom doesint want you to make the wrong decision she wants whats best for you and she wants to see you do good and make right desisions if your sure hes just in it for the sex then dont go by yourself go with a group of friends or if you are comfortable with you and him having sex then thatts your decisonand if your mom disagrees try telling her tht you are old enough to make your own decisions and tell her tht you have raised a smart gurl and tht you will choose to make the right decisions ... thts my advice to you !!!! hope you like it..
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