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i have no hope
i have a crush on this guy. lets call him CG. now i am a very shy person so one day i had my friend find out things about him in a mock interview. CG found out about this and said he only liked me as a friend. some friend he just ignores me now. so one day CG was extremely upset at school. he wasnt his normal self. he didnt joke around with people he was really quiet. when one of the funniest guys at school tried to make him laugh he wouldnt even crack a smile. he just walked around with this sad little puppy face and it was pretty heartbreaking. so later on i asked him on facebook if he was ok, hoping that he would come talk to me about his problem and that i could make him feel better and maybe he would want to talk to me more. but he never answered he just signed off and the next day never said a word to me. as i wrote this it almost didnt seem like a big deal to other people but idk i feel kind of hurt by this. everytime i try to talk to him, its like he doesnt want to talk to me and that he wishes i would just go away. i apologized for the whole mock interview thing and he said it was ok but he still didnt talk to me. i was going to ask him to a dance next year but im starting to see no point of it if hes just going to ignore me forever :( is there any hope for me with this guy? do i just forget about him or keep trying
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NO I don't think he is embarrassed by you. I do believe he likes you as a friend and maybe doesn't know how to act as a friend since he knows you like him more than a friend. Maybe he just need some time. give time and if you want to ask him to the dance, then go ahead, the worst he could do is say know to you. That wouldn't end the world, it will just show where you and him stand. Anyway maybe you do have someone else or maybe he is just afraid of starting something
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Hey,
To be completely honest and so as not to give you hope or lie to you, no you don't have a chance with him. And thats not something bad, cause maybe you have a chance with someone better than him, someone who would really love you, and who would run after you instead of you trying to get his attention, and someone who would care for you and ask you to the dance himself.
And i know you probably feel hurt, ofcourse you do, i know how it feels, been there and done that before, and it feels sad and humiliating and its like your running after someone and losing your dignity and respect, when this person is just completely ignoring you, and to be honest, he's not a bad person and he didn't hurt you, but neither are you a bad person, but the thing is, that he proved his point a long time ago that he doesn't like you that way, and he said you could be friends, and maybe he's right, maybe if you yourself get closer to him, as a friend i mean, you'd learn that he isn't really what you thought he is, cause sometimes when you get closer to someone you find that they are not the same as what you thought from a distance.
Stop following him and running after him, for several reasons, so you wouldn't lose him as a friend not only as something more, and so he wouldn't think your stalking him or something and he'd get freaked out and tell people about you or something, and so you wouldn't hurt yourself, between you and yourself you wouldn't feel to happy, that your running after someone and that someone doesn't care at all, its not a good feeling, and i know that cause i've tried that before, it doesn't make you feel good.
So seriously, you've been liking someone since last year now, i mean, if anything was meant to happen, it would've happened already, but nothing happened, and nothing to make you upset, its just not working out, i'm sure there are other guys, better ones who deserve you, and who you can be with without running after them. He's not the one, so stop hurting yourself emotionally, he's not worth it baby.
Hope i helped, if you need to talk more or if you need anything else, please be free to contact me.Best of luck!
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You do have hope, never say that :)
Almost every girl goes through this and i know how you feel about the whole popular, skinny thing.
Something you need to remember is that boys are very hard to figure out. They are so confusing. Don't beat yourself up about him not talking to you when he was upset, boys will rarely talk to girls about their problems they will almost always only tell their friends who are boys, if they tell anyone. I'm sure he liked you as a friend but maybe not one of his best friends, you still have a chance but maybe you seem a bit clingy. Just be a bit subtle and flirty but don't worry if he doesn't like you, there are plenty of fish in the sea :) Email me back if u need help x
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