Question Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 2:51 pm
So there's this guy, he's been my friend since like 7th grade, I'm a freshman in high school now soo. Anyway, I'm not quite sure if I like him yet, cause I'm sort of getting over another guy that I've dated before. I've been hanging out with this certain group of guys a lot and so it's not like I can avoid him or anything. But the thing is, my best friend liked him for about 2 months and is just now trying to get over him. Sometimes I think she's mad at me cause he flirts with me a lot. But I can't tell if it's friendly flirting or like real flirting. One of my other best friends had this same problem and it didn't end well. Her and the other girl that was involved aren't friends anymore, and they're two of my best friends so it's awkward when we hang out. Of course I don't want this to happen to me and my friend. I told her nothing was going on between us cause honestly right now there IS NOTHING going on between me and him, I'm just kind of talking to him. If something does start between us, I will tell her cause I don't want her to lose trust in me. But is it a bad idea to get involved with him? He's one of my good guy friends so it'll be hard not being interested or flirty. But what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nbbrucey answered Wednesday December 23 2009, 10:31 pm: see, i had an issue like this. alltough im a guy, not a girl, i ended up having a fistfight with one of my best friends durring sopgmore year, and we dont talk anymore. the best thing for you to do in my opinion would be to let your friend get over this guy b4 you do anything. if she getts suspicious, or whatever tell her that you dont have strong feeling for this boy, and that your just friends. i have this issue with a guy who likes some1 ive known since 2nd grade. i would try to wait, but if you end up likking this guy, then you like him. your friend needs to understand that. just explane it to her, and if shes a good friend, she will listen. good luck :) [ nbbrucey's advice column | Ask nbbrucey A Question ]
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