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he's keeps me coming back..
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 7:35 pm
18f.
how can i be happy for someone who i can't stop loving? he's one of my good friends (joe) - ive known him for 5yrs now. i've always had the biggest crush on him because we have so much fun together and he's always been there for me to talk to when i need it. the problem is .. he's been on and off dating this girl for 3 and a half yrs. she absolutely gorgeous, shes the nicest girl, shes smart, shes everything any guy could want. she makes me so jealous, because i could never be who she is. she plays 3 sports, has a 4.1 GPA, volunteers, is getting a scholarship for softball and hockey. i'm happy for joe because he deserves a good girl but it's hard being so close with him as a friend and looking at them two together. they'...
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does my coach know about me and do u think she was the same wayy.
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 5:23 pm
So i am a bisexual and so is my friend. we both do hurdles on the track team and our coach is SUPER sexy. We both relly want to know if she knows we are bi or is she maybe was when she was younger because she like loves both of us and is always talking to us and she ot her hair done and came up to me and was like did you not notice my hair and i told her it looked good and she was liek well you better think sohaha and then later after i ran throu some hurdles she was like you look good :] so how do i find out about her and how odo i know if she knows about me?
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losing what you never had
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 4:33 pm
so this guy and I have liked each other for a long time. It’s mid-may now, and we’ve been talking almost every day since around december. since i’m a freshman and he’s a junior, we barely talk at school. he’s my brothers best friend (one problem to why it’s hard to like him).
i’m the type of person who always wants to show that she’s the better one - so sometimes i act like i don’t care what he’s saying so i don’t look too eager. but i must admit, he’s always the one carrying on with conversation - but sometimes i get really annoyed with him.
anyways... we’ve liked each other for 5 months and he directly admitted that to me, and i kind of did, in a way, but he knew that i liked him.
this weeke...
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Picking between two girls
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 3:14 am
I recently just got a napkin with someone's number on it, and we started talking and we've even hung out... (we'll call this girl allison) but the thing is i'm not really too attracted to her (maybe not yet at least), but at the same time its the only relationship i have going for me right now... and i don't want to sound like i'm desperate for a relationship, but i've really been looking forward to a serious one for years now... allison is 3 years younger than me (i'm 18 and a dude)... i don't know a whole lot about her...
on the hand though there's this other girl (we'll call her maya) i've met through an online forum about half a year ago, that i've befriended and hung out with her for the first time just two days ago... i...
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Pregnancy
Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 12:46 am
I'm trying to get pregnant, I skipped my last period but all pregnancy tests i've taken (3) have been negative...if I'm not pregnant, could I still be fertile this month even though I didn't have a period? Basically I'm wanting to know if I should keep "trying" this month even though I didn't get my period last month (and I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant)
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i think im a lesbian?
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 9:13 pm
Alright well a about a year ago i expieremented with a girl and ended up dating her then we broke up and i hooked up with a few other girls and i actually love it haha but im not super open about it like i try to hide it as much as possible cause im in highschool and you know how people like to judge. And then there is the whole my mom thing. My sister is a striaght up lesbo and my mom knows and is cool about it but if im gay too she is gonna shit herself and feel like a bad mom. she even told me like jokingly that i wasnt aloud to be gay or she would kick me out. So know i have to date boys and not let my mom know. But im pretty sure ill im intrested in is girls. what do i do?
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Girlfriend?
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 8:28 pm
So I've been with this girl for 9 months and
we have fights every now and then. Today I called her to come see me during my lunch period. Well I called her about 30 minutes early to get ready which shouldn't be long because i told her to just dont worry about her make up and just put clothes on, but she told me she couldn't make it after my lunch break was over.It should take her about 5-10 minutes to get to me. I waited 45 minutes outside for her, when i could've just spent my time with my friends during lunch. She said she had to get gas, her dad had to change the light in the car and whatever. And I'm just so mad I waited 45 minutes when I was looking forward to seeing her. I really wanted to see her. And then when school was ove...
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PTSD? I use the term loosely, but that's what it feels like...
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 8:13 pm
This may be a weird question, but bear with me. I'm having trouble, here.
I'm 22, and I have a boyfriend around my age. He's wonderful to me (except when we bicker, which we do because we're both scorpios, stubborn, and opinionated). I got out of an addictive/emotionally abusive relationship with much difficulty and struggle, and I thought I was okay.
The other day, I drove past my ex's subdivision and I felt really panicked, and my throat kinda closed and every time I tried to breathe, I squeaked. I was on my way to meet my current boyfriend at his mall job so we could go shopping after his shift, and I felt so exhausted when I got out of the car, it was all I could do not to just collapse.
I...
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What if he likes her?
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 5:32 pm
So I've been dating this guy for like two months now. I really really like him we've been friends since I was in eigth and he was in ninth we're now a jr and a senior. Well friday night he went to a concert. His ex was there too and they dated for a year and a half. Well she got punched in the face and like any gentlemen would he helped her out. But maybe too much? He told me he picked her up and carried her out of the crowd. He said he held her until she felt better then they talked all night. It really bugged me because it feels like he left some things out. Well all weekend I just worried. I talked to him about it and he said that nothing happened. But at school today he came late and showed up at lunch. He came up and gave me a hug. And...
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Marine core...and Marrage
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 2:30 pm
15/female
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, and he ia joining the marine core in three years, he is 16 years old. He told me that he loves me and cant live without me and I feel the same way about him and he said in a year or two he would marry me and I said that then if he still wanted to join the marine core i would marry him and wait for him untill he gets out. But I am scared that he might get killed and maybe he will get really hurt. I am not sure what I should do. Are militay relationsionships really hard?
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Do I have a crush on this girl?
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 3:49 am
I met this girl last year, we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, I was attracted to her and she has a nice personality, and right when i found out she experimented with girls back then and she's bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it.I feel nervous and butterfly in my stomach when she's near me.Everytime she compliments other people about their looks, I get jealous but I don't know if I like her that way or I want her.Do I have a crush on this girl? I'm a straight girl and never felt like this to any girl and it's weird.
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How to be with somebody when...
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 1:55 am
...being with them hurts you deep inside, because in the relationship you never get what you want or need... but you know that the pain of letting them go or them breaking up with you would outnumber the pain of not getting what you want a millionfold?
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were not good together???
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 1:55 am
okay heres the deal.
im currently dating this guy named matt. Hes sweet but we dont talk much.. its kinda awkward. the WHOLE school is against us dating.. (there making beats. the lot.) He talks him self up alot says he does drugs and stuff but deep down hes had it ruff and is a big softy. i dont do drugs or want anything to do with them.
idk if i like him i mean we dont got much in common and we barley talk.what should i do....
and at the same time i think my feelings for my ex are still there even though he likes another girl. should i stay with matt or dump him??? tell my ex or stick with matt and give him a chance
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Kissing
Posted Monday May 10 2010, 12:52 am
So, I have never dated anyone, for majority of the guys I've known are jerks and I have never met anyone I've actually been interested in. Now, I met this guy who actually has potential and who I know likes me. He is real sweet, we have hung out a few times, and we text often. My questions are: when is a good time to kiss? What do I do if he goes to kiss me and I am nervous? What does a kiss on the cheek mean? and Does kissing come naturally?
Details would be appreciated :)
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Sex,is it acceptional for a 15 year old?
Posted Sunday May 9 2010, 7:03 pm
My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now,and she wants me to take her virginity.I want to do it but i keep telling myself to wait till im about 17.....but on the other hand i don't want to get drunk at a party sometime and lose my virginity the wrong way.What should i do?
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i have a shy boyfriend
Posted Sunday May 9 2010, 4:42 pm
My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 weeks now. We are both almost 14. He is shy alot of the time. How can i help him not to be shy? Also sometimes we run out of things to talk about. Well kinda but you girls know how it is. :) Can you help me with things to talk about? also how can i make him laugh? He told my friends and his he realy likes me and i really like him but i want him to really like me more if you know what im saying. Help please!! ASAP!!! :)))
Thanks
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STD or mole?
Posted Sunday May 9 2010, 3:48 pm
I hooked up with this guy a couple days ago and I was giving him oral sex when I noticed that he had one dark brownish mole type thing near the shaft but not literally on the penis. I didn't think anything of it at the time, being that we were both sober and I would imagine that he would tell me if it was anything I needed to worry about.
But now I can't stop thinking about it. He gets around and I'm nervous that it may have been an STD. I feel awkward asking him about it, especially if it's not that at all and it really is just a mole or something. Can anyone please help calm me down or give me some insight as to what it may be? My research has led me to believe that it has the chance of being genital warts. Please help. Thanks.
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selfish boyfriend?
Posted Sunday May 9 2010, 12:04 pm
19/f
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 7 months now. I've given him oral sex many times, but he's never done it for me. So when I asked him last night, he said he thought it was gross. I asked what part was gross, and he said the er..fluids that come out i guess. Then he went on to say that he wasn't ready, "just not yet". Which made no sense to me. How is this fair? What should I do about it?
I was really offended like I gross him out. Or that he doesn't want to make me happy. Because I do it for him, and it's not like my favorite thing in the world, but I enjoy making him happy.
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Should i drop it ?
Posted Saturday May 8 2010, 7:34 pm
So theres this guy i like. Its more like a crush. Usually, when i have a crush, i dont do anything about it but i've been single for a looooong time and idk but i feel like i kinda wanna do something . But this guy, is interested in my friend . My friend doesnt like him and thinks i should make a move on the guy. I have TERRIBLE fear of rejection, and im 14/f but i've never done anything like this before. The only guy i ever dated approached me first. I also have low self esteem issues and I'm not someone that people find attractive. So what should i do? I was thining its best i just let him go and go back to admiring from a far since his got his sights set on my friend, tho she doesnt want him .
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Posted Saturday May 8 2010, 10:04 am
my boyfriend was always way into me more then i was him, we broke up at a party because he wouldnt give me space like two months ago.. i know dumb. anyways we've been trying to work it out, and now i'm the one whose more in love with him, and now he only sees us as friends.. like he says all the feelings he use to have for me just arent as strong anymore. but we went to the beach on wednesday and he said we'll probabbly get back together.. and now friday night he was getting so annoyed at me for no reason. what made me want to be with him more and relize how much i loved him was not seeing him as much.. should i do that back? LOVEEEEEEEEE , SoOOOo confused & lost.
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