how can i be happy for someone who i can't stop loving? he's one of my good friends (joe) - ive known him for 5yrs now. i've always had the biggest crush on him because we have so much fun together and he's always been there for me to talk to when i need it. the problem is .. he's been on and off dating this girl for 3 and a half yrs. she absolutely gorgeous, shes the nicest girl, shes smart, shes everything any guy could want. she makes me so jealous, because i could never be who she is. she plays 3 sports, has a 4.1 GPA, volunteers, is getting a scholarship for softball and hockey. i'm happy for joe because he deserves a good girl but it's hard being so close with him as a friend and looking at them two together. they're perfect for each other and i go out and meet new guys but it always brings me back to him. i can never be as comfortable with any other guy as i am with him. i have to move on from him, i can't try and be with him when he's always on and off with this girl. how can i find a guy i know i deserve that will give me his full attention when joes always in the back of my mind..
sunshine1232 answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 10:11 pm: You shouldn't compare yourself to other girls seeing as your different then she is everyone has
good qualities about themselves & you've got to focus on those & not think about the negative one's
things weren't meant to be between you two everything happens for a reason you can't change what's happened or the fact that they are together
you'll find a boy who loves you...for you & who you
are talk to some boys your interested in then see where everything goes from there you can either wait
till he comes or you can go looking for him your choice(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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