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Picking between two girls
I recently just got a napkin with someone's number on it, and we started talking and we've even hung out... (we'll call this girl allison) but the thing is i'm not really too attracted to her (maybe not yet at least), but at the same time its the only relationship i have going for me right now... and i don't want to sound like i'm desperate for a relationship, but i've really been looking forward to a serious one for years now... allison is 3 years younger than me (i'm 18 and a dude)... i don't know a whole lot about her...
on the hand though there's this other girl (we'll call her maya) i've met through an online forum about half a year ago, that i've befriended and hung out with her for the first time just two days ago... i've had a long running crush on her since we first started talking... i really didn't know if she felt the same way... and i've never been the kind of person that would make a move on anyone or say anything... recently though through another website named formspring (as some of you might know it) i got an anonymous message about someone having the biggest online crush on me, but they're to shy to come up to me... there was a few other hints as to who it may be... long story short, i believe maya is the anonymous girl... we really click in personality and she is just super amazing
so... what do i do?
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Seems like your all choked up about Maya. If she lives closeby, why not try it? I mean, if you go with the girl you're not really attracted to physically versus the girl who has an amazing personality, obviously your attracted to her physcially, she can hold a conversation, the whole package...
Wouldn't you always be wondering "what if?" I did the same thing before... so go with your gut feeling.
Maya's got my vote... :) Go for it without looking back and no regrets!
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I think you should choose Maya seeing as with Allison your not attracted to her & you probably
won't be if you aren't already you seem unsure and you aren't confident about her plus you don't know much about her on the other hand with Maya you both hungout and you've had a crush on her and if the anonymous message is her then she feels the same way
about you which is a advantage for you..you two really click in personality & you think she's super
amazing so i say choose Maya you've got to think of
who you'd be happiest with & you who you would see yourself getting along with better i think it would be Maya you seem to say better things about Maya then Allison so she'd be the one to choose(:
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