So I've been dating this guy for like two months now. I really really like him we've been friends since I was in eigth and he was in ninth we're now a jr and a senior. Well friday night he went to a concert. His ex was there too and they dated for a year and a half. Well she got punched in the face and like any gentlemen would he helped her out. But maybe too much? He told me he picked her up and carried her out of the crowd. He said he held her until she felt better then they talked all night. It really bugged me because it feels like he left some things out. Well all weekend I just worried. I talked to him about it and he said that nothing happened. But at school today he came late and showed up at lunch. He came up and gave me a hug. And then his ex walked up and started talking to him. He completely shut me out and they walked away from our friends. They talked half of lunch. Naturally I was already bugged by what happened over the weekend. Well, I was really upset because she always tells him she still loves him, and he unblocked her number. Well so I decided I was gonna go get something to eat with my friend because I was tired of standing there being ignored by my boyfriend while he talked to his ex. So I went and got food and he texted me asking where I went about ten minutes later. He didn't even noticed I left he was so busy talking to her. Well I think he knew it bugged me. My eyes were watering. I know that I need to talk to him or something. What should I do? How should I approach this, I don't wanna sound like a paranoid girlfriend.
Katlyn answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 3:58 am: You have a right to be worried and sound like a paranoid girlfriend this is your bf and in a case like this any girlfriend would be worried or paranoid its just natural i think you should call him over sit him down and just talk about it tell him how you feel and tell him to just truthfully tell you if he still likes her or is starting to develop feelings for her again. I know it will be hard to talk about this but you need to know where your relationship stands and if it has a future you cant spend your time worrying about him and his ex if he still likes her then let him go hes not worth it and there will be plenty of other guys who will love you. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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