Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


What if he likes her?


Question Posted Monday May 10 2010, 5:32 pm

So I've been dating this guy for like two months now. I really really like him we've been friends since I was in eigth and he was in ninth we're now a jr and a senior. Well friday night he went to a concert. His ex was there too and they dated for a year and a half. Well she got punched in the face and like any gentlemen would he helped her out. But maybe too much? He told me he picked her up and carried her out of the crowd. He said he held her until she felt better then they talked all night. It really bugged me because it feels like he left some things out. Well all weekend I just worried. I talked to him about it and he said that nothing happened. But at school today he came late and showed up at lunch. He came up and gave me a hug. And then his ex walked up and started talking to him. He completely shut me out and they walked away from our friends. They talked half of lunch. Naturally I was already bugged by what happened over the weekend. Well, I was really upset because she always tells him she still loves him, and he unblocked her number. Well so I decided I was gonna go get something to eat with my friend because I was tired of standing there being ignored by my boyfriend while he talked to his ex. So I went and got food and he texted me asking where I went about ten minutes later. He didn't even noticed I left he was so busy talking to her. Well I think he knew it bugged me. My eyes were watering. I know that I need to talk to him or something. What should I do? How should I approach this, I don't wanna sound like a paranoid girlfriend.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


justletmebe answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 2:14 pm:
i would talk to him and tell him if he still has feelings for her let you know. if he comes clean get over him if he tells you no try to work it out but dont waste ur time on some one if they are playing games. u r much to young and there are millions of fish in the sea

[ justletmebe's advice column | Ask justletmebe A Question
]




Katlyn answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 3:58 am:
You have a right to be worried and sound like a paranoid girlfriend this is your bf and in a case like this any girlfriend would be worried or paranoid its just natural i think you should call him over sit him down and just talk about it tell him how you feel and tell him to just truthfully tell you if he still likes her or is starting to develop feelings for her again. I know it will be hard to talk about this but you need to know where your relationship stands and if it has a future you cant spend your time worrying about him and his ex if he still likes her then let him go hes not worth it and there will be plenty of other guys who will love you.

[ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Marine core...and Marrage
Next Question >>> My cousin likes me!... help please

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker