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My cousin likes me!... help please
19/f and my 17 yr old cousin likes me
Ok so I used to visit my cousins every xmas because my family and i live in a differnet state than my cousins, aunts ,grandparents.
For some reasons my family wasnt able to visit them since i was 8. so i hadnt seen any of my cousins since we were little kids so when my mom told me we were gonna go visit them this year i was sooo excited!
i just never expected what happened during that visit... i saw my 17 yr old cousin who i had only seen as kids and yes i immediately found him very attractive but no way was i gonna like him i know better than that
the thing was he liked me liked me and actually asked me out... i was like frozen i never saw it comin...
i dont kno what got into me because when he kissed me i kissed him back and we actually kissed a few more times durind my visit there. Dont tell me it was wrong because i already know that and i regret it soo soo much
the thing is i dont know why i kissed him i dont have any feelings for him like that i know hes my cousin and i only see him like that but hes gotten the idea that we can be together sometime in the future I tell him it will never happen that kissing was a bad bad idea and that he should only see me as her older cousin almost sister but he doesnt get it he says he will stop until i marry.
I dont know what to do I cant undo what i did but i want a way to fix it...how can i do that? im glad we leave in different states but he even said he would come lookin for me if he had to...im scared i dont wanna hurt him but i also dont like him that way
i tell him to get a gf that maybe hell forget the whole thing that way but he doesnt want to
please help
thanks :D
sorry its long
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I think that you should tell him straight out. This is incest and its wrong any way you look at it. Sometimes we get caught up in moments and end up doing things we regret. I kissed a friend of mine one time that I didn't have feelings for simply because I was so surprised it was happening and I didn't want to hurt him. You should tell him exactly how you feel, about not wanting to hurt him and all. If he continues to "not stop until you're married" then you should tell other family members, someone will step in and protect you.
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