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Should i drop it ?
So theres this guy i like. Its more like a crush. Usually, when i have a crush, i dont do anything about it but i've been single for a looooong time and idk but i feel like i kinda wanna do something . But this guy, is interested in my friend . My friend doesnt like him and thinks i should make a move on the guy. I have TERRIBLE fear of rejection, and im 14/f but i've never done anything like this before. The only guy i ever dated approached me first. I also have low self esteem issues and I'm not someone that people find attractive. So what should i do? I was thining its best i just let him go and go back to admiring from a far since his got his sights set on my friend, tho she doesnt want him .
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You won't know until you try you can't let your fear
stop you getting rejected isn't the worst thing that
can happen to a person if you do get rejected then at least you'll know you tried instead of not doing
anything all a person can ever do is try if you face
your fear you'll feel good about yourself & you'll gain confidence if you feel like you want to do something then go for it..it's worth a shot listen to yourself & your friend even though he's interested she's not interested in him that gives you a chance which doesn't happen very often so take
it while you can because it might not come around again yes i think you should go for it & face your fears you'll feel better once you do your fear is
nothing to be ashamed of it happens to everyone(:
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Well, you will never know if you do go for it.
I understand the fear of rejection, but thats part of life. There are things you will be rejected from. Nothing to do but brush it off and move on. I'd approach him, who knows he might really like you too. Ask him to hang out, just as friends. Hang out a few times, see how things are between you too. If things are going good, and he seems interested, then take the next step. Going on a date, being boyfriend/girlfriend. Trust me, you'll regret never going for anything in your life when your older. Like I said rejection is part of life, it's gonna happen. This whole thing might turn out good. :)
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