well i think i know whats missing.love.i used to love someone and i do feel a little stupid saying that considering im thirteen (but im deeper than most).im not saying my heart was broken or anything like that.i just stopped caring about them.but i was happy then.my life dosnt suck but i miss loving her.now i just dont care about her.i still feel like an emotionless monster with a hole in my heart.people really dont know me.istay home most of the time.im really shy and quiet.i can barely control my face its just always blank and expressionless and everyone thinks im mad but i could be in the best mood all day.so what's missing?
I feel your emptiness. That pit eating at the bottom of your stomach screams for relief.
My husband has similar issues with facial expressions and others reading him wrong.
What's missing? Information. You are lacking the proper information. I have recommended this to others and I will do the same for you.
It is the advice of this Doktor that you learn more about yourself. Learn why your face is expressionless even when you are in a great mood. Learn why you are shy and quiet. Research your peculiar habits and see if there are any known symptoms that match your own.
It was not until we learned that my husband is a High Functioning Autistic that I started understanding how to deal with his lack of 'facial expressions'.
sarline answered Sunday May 9 2010, 8:02 am: well you are right when you say you are to young to love someone considering that you Are 13. but i don't think it's love that is missing. Also i think that's just the way you are. i will tell you what i think you should do. Be open to people even if they see that blank expression on your face, talk to them warm up to them and get to know them while they get to know you. people are made different. you are not a monster with a hole in your heart. everybody has emotions yours is just afraid to come out because perhaps you don't ever want to find someone that you might stop caring about, but thats okay.
P.S-i am shy and quiet to but i try to talk to others and with that they warm up to me. [ sarline's advice column | Ask sarline A Question ]
PaperHeartsX3 answered Sunday May 9 2010, 3:11 am: Get friend's, hang out with them. Laugh, have fun.
You are YOUNG. You will find someone to love someday, don't worry about that. Go out and have fun. If you think this is a huge problem, go to the doctors. They might put you on depression pills or something. It'll help.
Good luck! [ PaperHeartsX3's advice column | Ask PaperHeartsX3 A Question ]
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