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how do i get him to like me again?
Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 12:16 am
basically i dated this guy briefly. he acted like he liked me so much and we were so good together. but he was still in love with his ex. so he ended it with me. i still like him. so much. hes over his ex now and trying to find a new girl. and asking ME to help him! how do i get him to like me again? and how do i show that i like him wihtout being incredibly obvious (like, if needed i could pass it off as not really hitting on him) i just like him so much. and i want it to be the way it used to. im 14/f in case you need to know that
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he said he needs more
Posted Friday May 21 2010, 11:12 pm
tonight me and my bf where talking. i am 22 he is 30, i asked if he was happy he said yeah. then we started talking about karma, got onto the topic of how bad this year has been and i say "as long as we have each othere we are ok" he tells me thats not enough. should i take the personily he said he ment love wont keep our heads above water, it really hurt me should i let it go or talk to him about it?
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sexual terms defined?
Posted Friday May 21 2010, 4:54 pm
What is the differents between cock worship and blow job?
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Should I continue pursuing him?
Posted Friday May 21 2010, 4:10 am
19/F
I just got out of my first year of college. I became friends with an RA in the building and we eventually turned into best friends. I immediately developed feelings. During the first few months I knew him (Oct-Dec), everyone was sure that he had a crush on me, or at least was interested. For example: we would fall asleep and cuddle with each other, he would kiss my hand (he doesn't do that with ANYONE), he would call me beautiful and compliment me all the time(again not normal, he's not very open about things like that), would want to stand by ME during football games, and over Winter Break we talked every night online from 1am-5am (literally).
He was really cute with me, but in January or so he became we...
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"came out of the closet" now things....
Posted Friday May 21 2010, 1:30 am
Cmae out to my mom....now shes cracking jokes and saying she would have to deal with it but cant stand to see it....now my girlfriend is upset because she has a son and wanted the whole big family thing but now feels like she will be on the backburner when it comes to family functions. what can i do?
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im so confused
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 8:35 pm
6/f
okay so i have been talking/texting this boy for two weeks straight. and i thought he was really into me. like he would text me first basically everyday and say hi to me in school all the time. so i thought everything was going great.
then on the bus one morning i get these swarm of texts and they were all from him, they said:
well i did want to say something, ive been thinking recently and im not sure if i want to get into a relationship again...well atleast not yet...i dated jess for so long and trust me im over her cause she is crazy but i just dont think i wanna start up something right now...like i think your a really nice girl and i think its so cool that you like a lot of the same thin...
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Staying together in college.
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 7:05 pm
I am leaving for college in the fall and planning on staying together with my boyfriend. There is a handful of people I know who have actually made it through their freshman year with out breaking up. Has anyone gone through something like this... How did you make it work? Do alot of these people end up cheating? Everyone keeps telling me to break up with my boyfriend before college... And I know it make sense, but I can't break up with someone I love without a legit reason.
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does he like me?
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 4:36 pm
16/f
okay so i have been talking/texting this boy for two weeks straight. and i thought he was really into me. like he would text me first basically everyday and say hi to me in school all the time. so i thought everything was going great.
then on the bus one morning i get these swarm of texts and they were all from him, they said:
well i did want to say something, ive been thinking recently and im not sure if i want to get into a relationship again...well atleast not yet...i dated jess for so long and trust me im over her cause she is crazy but i just dont think i wanna start up something right now...like i think your a really nice girl and i think its so cool that you like a lot of the same thi...
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I am confused i love my boyfriend but..?
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 6:28 am
ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and a half but lately ive been liking this guy friend and i think im slowly liking him more and i really dont know what i should do and feel about this, im happy with my boyfriend but we just argue a lot and there is a lot of problems i have to deal with but with the new guy i feel happy when im with him and he makes me smile.The other guy told me he likes me and he'll wait for me and now its really complicated. I dont wanna leave my boyfriend beause he has been putting up with me and taking care of me, so it would be really messed up. Maybe i just want to be close friends with the guy friend, and i just wanna cuddle with him as a friend. What should i do?
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Boyfriend won't talk to me about his past
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 2:45 am
20/f, dating a 20/m.
My bf and I have been together for almost three months, and we're getting ready to start having intercourse. Niether of us are virgins, and we've done basically everything else with each other except have sex. In the past month I've begun birth control and he and I have both gotten tested for STDs, and we're planning on using condoms. So safe sex is a sure thing.
But I also believe that having a dialogue about sex before starting it is crucial, involving discussing our sexual history. I've told him about my sexual past, including funny embarassing stories and things that I do and don't like in bed. He didn't seem at all uncomfortable with hearing it and it really got us to a new level of t...
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Break up..hard to handle.
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 12:17 am
I broke up with my long distance ex-boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I've decided no contact with him is best for me to get over him, so we haven't spoken in 2 weeks so far.
The 1st week was a little hard, 2nd week easier, and this 3rd week's been going good. Until today.
I found out today he is now in a new relationship. It's been 3 weeks!! Well, 2 since we talked.
I was doing soo well, not crying over him/thinking about him as much..and then this shocker happens. It's like I'm right back at square one. But I left him because he treated me like crap, and I KNOW I deserve better. But we dated for 10 months, and knew each other for 1 year. And he's with another girl in 3 weeks?! He told me his ex-girl befor...
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boyfriend mad for hanging out with sister
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 12:13 am
Me: F19 boyfriend:M19
So my boyfriend that I have been dating for a year and 4 months is being a jerk. Here's the story... two weeks ago he throw a party at his older sisters house when she out of town. When the sister came back a neighbor told her he was throwing partys. She asked him if that was true, he lied and said that he threw no partys while she was gone. Well she believed the neighbor over her brother (my boyfriend). Will my boyfriend is so mad that she did not belive him. Me and his sister are good friends. We hungout all day together (two weeks after the party issue). When he realised I spend the whole day with her. This is what he sent me via text message...
Boyfriend: Im so mad at her u dont even know. And uve sp...
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ex boyfriend and being friends
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 9:27 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me two months ago because he stopped liking me as much and just started seeing me as a friend..probably because i was so into him and my whole world revolved around him so quickly and that probably turned him off. Now we are still friends because he likes me a lot as a friend but we are TOO good of friends. We chill every single weekend and sometimes in the week. Sometimes alone but rarely. Sometimes he calls me to hangout and other times his brother will either call me or my best friend and our groups of friends will just all do something together ,so we always are around eachother. During school,i have a class with him and we pretty much only talk to eachother. I'm still crazy for him,but im still there for him ...
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Taking Risks for love
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 9:14 pm
I am an 18 year old female, very mature for my age, and I know what I want out of life. I went on exchange to Brasil last year for 11 months and basically was on my own, I have seen a whole other side of life that most people never get to see. I always used to think, "I am young, I have time to mess up, to be with the wrong people." Until I met this guy. He is an exchange student currently here in the US on exchange. We texted for awhile before we finally met, and the moment I saw him I knew he was the one. (And I was always the time to not believe in love at first sight and I never thought I had met the one) We instantly hit it off and ever since then we are very happy together. He lives an hour away from me, But we see each othe...
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juvenile emptyness.. :/
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 9:10 pm
Im 16. female. my friends have bfs. its killing me because i have been practically begging for one. im not desperate though, i mean i have standards and stuff. my friend calls me picky and i know i wont be able to find a perfect guy...but i dont want a perfect guy, just somone who is perfect for me. i just want one so bad. it seems like a juvenile problem i know, and i know i have plenty of years ahead of me for that but this yearning wont freaking stop! i want someone to love me and make me feel special. but there is no one around me that i want. so...i guess what im trying to ask is either how to get rid of this empty feeling i have and depression, or something. i dont really know. (ps. ive been asked out before. ha i kinda made it sound ...
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Age difference.
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 7:37 pm
17/f. There is this boy I know who is friends with my younger brother whoim extremely attracted too. Like I don't like him per se, but whenever I'm around him I have to restrain myself to not flirt. And it's very hard not too. I know he likes me. Which makes things harder. Also, I'm seeing him Friday and I'll be seeing him a lot this month. After that, I probably won't really see him much. So I kind of have to make up my mind, and decide if it's worth it. I think it might just be some weird chemical reaction, but I've never felt the way i feel when I'm around him. I would like him.. It's just the stupid agE difference! Help me. I can't even ask my friends because I'm embarrassed.
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friend with my crush :(
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 4:12 pm
okay my mate, lets call her K is dating my crush. :( im a little angry although i dont show it and dont want to ruin there relationship. shes not a virgin hes never had a girlfriend she drinks hes not that type of guy. and they have only known each other for a week. Every one in my group baggs my out for the people i date and all of a sudden there happy when K gets a bf... i find it unfair and if they were happy with my last bf we would still be together :'(.
What do i do?????
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Age Difference
Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 3:04 am
I'm 15/f
So this guy barely turned 18. He's a senior, I'm a sophomore. I'll turn 16 in a couple months. But is that a big age difference. About 2 1/2 years?
And dating isn't against the law even if he's 18? Not doing anything sexual. Thanks!
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this guy stopped talking to me..what happened?!?!
Posted Tuesday May 18 2010, 11:30 pm
13/f
I met this guy during summer and used to text him 24/7..and then my friends stole his # off my phone and started texting him..and ever since then hes been texting me less and less..and now when i text him he wont reply...i see him a few times a month and he stares at me and i stare at him..but i dont say hi to him because he doesnt say hi to me..im a little confused on whats happening....any ideas??
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boyfriend flirting with other girls
Posted Tuesday May 18 2010, 10:52 pm
My boyfriend of 3 years and I have been having some problems before but it has gone way too far. I don't know what to do anymore because I love him but I found out that our whole relationship has been based on a lie. I was suspicious of him one day and checked him one email and found pictures of girls in their bra and panties and bathing suits that he had been talking to. He had a wouldyouhitthis.com account when we first started dating and promised to close it. All this time I thought it was closed and I tried to get over the whole email thing. But today I just found that he has had his account open since at least July 24,2008 and has been flirting, looking at, and talking to these girls on the sex site. I don't know what to do anymore. He...
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