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im so confused
6/f
okay so i have been talking/texting this boy for two weeks straight. and i thought he was really into me. like he would text me first basically everyday and say hi to me in school all the time. so i thought everything was going great.
then on the bus one morning i get these swarm of texts and they were all from him, they said:
well i did want to say something, ive been thinking recently and im not sure if i want to get into a relationship again...well atleast not yet...i dated jess for so long and trust me im over her cause she is crazy but i just dont think i wanna start up something right now...like i think your a really nice girl and i think its so cool that you like a lot of the same things as me...im sorry if i sound like an ass im really not trying to be. i just wann stay single for now, and as i said its not you id say the same thing to anyone. im really sorry i dont want to sound like a jerk cause trust me it isnt you, who knows maybe in the future.
it was a complete shocker to me! i didnt expect it at all. now im so confused on what i should do. if he ever liked me/likes me? idk. his old girlfriend and him went out for almost 2 years, and hes right she is crazy. but idk im so confused. HELP ME! what do i do? what did all this really mean?
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I have bee in his situation and im promising you that he wasnt trying to be rude. but after being in a realtionship for 2 years he might want to date around and see what other girls are like. And he said maybe sometime in the future. you know he has some feelings for you becuase he said that. Talk to him and tell him that you know he isnt looking for anything serious, and you get that but how would he feel if you guys hung out and went on a few dates? let him know that your cool with him dating other girls, this lets him know that you really do understand that he wants to be single right now. and who knows maybe if you guys go on a few dates that he will want to be with you. Just give him space.
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ok honestly if he just got out of a relationship that lasted 2 years than he isnt gonna be the same no body would be no matter what he says he is trying to recover after being in a relationship that long he may feel free he may feel like he can do anything without a girl trying to over run him because no matter what any one says coming from a girl all women tell there guys what to do trust im 18 & married to the point he feels free it is not you ok so dont freak out it is a guy we r talking about there way different from us girls ok so just be friends with him maybe yall will wide up close & be best friends & maybe love will start to grow between yall mean while let him be free give it time ok
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Hello :)
I say you should respect his decision. He sounds like he's telling the truth, and he was being as respectful as he could :)
If they went out for two years, he's probably afraid to get close to someone considering he just came out of a long relationship with someone he wasn't meant to be with. He needs time to reevaluate what he wants/needs, and I think it's great that he's not diving into another relationship so quickly.
Remain his friend. Support him in everything he does. And who knows, he might just ask you out sometime in the future!
Good luck
Uniq :)
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