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so we just lost in soccer to our rival in the states game. im the goalie. and i played terrible. i had the worst game of my entire season, if not career. i couldnt get a save for the life of me. the game ended up going into overtime and we lost by one. there were so many people at the game, literally like 200, and they all pretty much know me well. I not only feel like a failure, but i let myself, my coaches and my team down. its been about 3 days since the game and i still have this terrible pit feeling in my stomach. to make it worst, the school that was scouting me for college was there. i feel so ashamed. idk. i had been having such an amazing season so far! i had stepped up so strong in so many games. it sucks that this was the last. idk...if anyone has any advice to give that will make me feel better i could really use it. i love soccer, but right now i cant even bear the thought to play right now. my heart sinks everytime i think about it. just please....i need some advice.
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Wow. That really sucks. I feel your pain. I play soccer too and,last season, for the first time, my coach put me in as the back defender. We lost the game and I felt like I was the reason we lost and I ended up sobbing in the car, on the ride home. I felt like I let everyone down. But, anyways, it sometimes is rlly hard not to beat yourself up when you feel like you didn't do well and when you feel like you let everyone down. But, everyone has those days when they just can't play as well as they usually do. But you have to realize and accept that life goes on. You can either dwell in the past and let it hold you back, or you can move on and you can try to leave the past behind. Being the goalkeeper is a position that can be stressful at times. But, it's time to forget about the past. It's time to live in the moment!
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well i am a soccer player been for about five years and whenever im in that situation im bad when im goalie and i kno tht situation but sweety wat u need to remeber is that u try your best and stuff
im not the best at goalie im more of a left defender or defense but hope mah advice helps honey
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You aren't a failure everything happens for a reason everyone makes mistakes including yourself you aren't perfect you've got to hold your head up high because there's people who would hate to see you be hard on yourself your a good soccer player you had one bad game but you did well your whole season that's impressive you win some & you lose some you can't win them all as long as you play your best & have fun while doing it that's all that counts you don't have to prove yourself to anyone especially your old rival you shouldn't let what has happened stop you from playing soccer seeing as you love it you never know you could do better in your next game anything's possible & anything can happen be confident & don't let what has happened discourage you or make you back down(:
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