ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and a half but lately ive been liking this guy friend and i think im slowly liking him more and i really dont know what i should do and feel about this, im happy with my boyfriend but we just argue a lot and there is a lot of problems i have to deal with but with the new guy i feel happy when im with him and he makes me smile.The other guy told me he likes me and he'll wait for me and now its really complicated. I dont wanna leave my boyfriend beause he has been putting up with me and taking care of me, so it would be really messed up. Maybe i just want to be close friends with the guy friend, and i just wanna cuddle with him as a friend. What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justletmebe answered Friday May 21 2010, 8:45 pm: well cuddling leads to more so dont try to go with that cause you may end up cheating. if you think you like the othere guy maybe go for him, but do you like him becasue you think life will be better with him. every realtionship has its up and downs so if you only like him becuase the grass looks greener on the othere side maybe you should stick with you current boyfriend and soon you will see things are better. but if you really think you like the othere guy go for him but dont just end the othere realtionship becuase things are rough becasue if you stick it out it could be the best thing you have ever done and make your life wonderful good luck :) [ justletmebe's advice column | Ask justletmebe A Question ]
returntolove7 answered Thursday May 20 2010, 5:38 pm: It really isn't any of my business how old you are, but I do want to tell you that first you need to be happy. No guy or anything is going to make you happy or who you are. And you need to try to put yourself in a position that NO man has to take care of you. That way if things are not going good like they sound like they are not you can get out. You have been with your Bf for 1 year now and you guys are always arguing, that is not good. But also look the grass isn't always greener. And you 2 maybe need to work on yourselves together to make the relationship better. I am in a hurry but just wanted to give you a little insight I will come back later. And by the way if ny all means IF the guy is being abusive?, GET OUT! It will never get better. Take care ttyl returntolove7 [ returntolove7's advice column | Ask returntolove7 A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Thursday May 20 2010, 12:23 pm: Stop playing mind games
If your "Cuddle" with your guy friend you are only asking for affection which can lead to one thing to another. If you like this guy more than your boyfriend then you owe it too your boyfriend to tell him the truth and move on. You pretty much said what you want in your question. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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