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boyfriend flirting with other girls
My boyfriend of 3 years and I have been having some problems before but it has gone way too far. I don't know what to do anymore because I love him but I found out that our whole relationship has been based on a lie. I was suspicious of him one day and checked him one email and found pictures of girls in their bra and panties and bathing suits that he had been talking to. He had a wouldyouhitthis.com account when we first started dating and promised to close it. All this time I thought it was closed and I tried to get over the whole email thing. But today I just found that he has had his account open since at least July 24,2008 and has been flirting, looking at, and talking to these girls on the sex site. I don't know what to do anymore. He lied to me this whole time and told me his account was closed except he randomly opened it before christmas but then closed it. He lied, he didn't open it around christmas, he had it open since at least July 24,2008. Two days before my birthday... what a great present and I didn't even know it. He has been talking to girls still too. He said he was done after that sex site thing but then started talking to a 14 year old girl. He's 25 years old. Am I wrong for thinking that's disgusting and wrong? He was calling her hot and asking her if she would date him regardless of his age and asked her what panties she was wearing. What should I do? Nothing will change will it? Should I just move on?
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move on you sound like a very smart girl.. get some time to have fun and do waht you want. he sounds like he has major problems and you dont need any part of him hitting on girls that young. just know that you deserve better and dont leave the relationship depressed leave it as starting a new life a better one. good luck
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that is so gross a 14 year old girl i would call the cops but im a bitch so thats me. he lied and is talking to young GIRLS wow hes gross get rid of him but as always easier said then done i hope your really strong girl. i would ask him why hes talking to 14 year old girls and why he thinks its ok and why he thinks that its okay to lie to you throughout your relationship.
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Dump him.
Tell him what you found. Tell him you think it's revolting and completely wrong, and walk away.
You would be perfectly well within your rights to dump him based on everything else he has done, but the chatting up a fourteen year old is going to kill any of the affection and respect you have left for him. Even if he changed tomorrow (which he almost definitely won’t) how could you even get past that kind of betrayal and horrific behaviour? Some things are just deal breakers. Trolling for sex with minors should be one of them. Now is the time to move on.
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Your 25 year old boyfriend is talking to 14 year old girls and telling them that they're hot.
Run. Run now. Run far. Run fast. And bitch about the situation to every mutual friend you have who might consider dating him.
Save e-mails as evidence. If he gives you even the slightest shit during the breakup, forward these e-mails to the police. If you hear about him and some 14 year old girl or something similar, forward the e-mails to the police.
I'm a 25 year old guy, and that's disgusting.
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If your boyfriend had been unfaithful for 2 1/2 years then he isn't going to shape up now or 2 months from now not even a year from now... He isn't even going to acknowledge your conversations, Fights as he seemly doesn't acknowledge your existence.
Your boyfriend is going to do whatever he pleases so, As I speak you are too good for him. Are you over reacting? NO. You need to dump him, It is disrespectful and most of all it can fall right in the category of cheating. It is unfortunate that your boyfriend played your feelings for so long, but now that you've spotted an account on a website with a bunch of sluts, You have your red flag waving in front of you. At 25 years old, Talking to a 14 year old girl is very disgusting and very very wrong of him. This is highly immature of your boyfriend and if he were having a inappropriate conversation with a 14 year old girl then as I hate to use this word but that would be a pedophile. You need to move on, You are way too good for this piece of crap and you have a life ahead of you.
EDIT: I know it's hard, I'm sorry you have to go through this but if there is no trust in a relationship then the relationship itself is doomed and after 3 years of treating you like this he doesn't deserve you. There is always someone out there for everyone and as my personal opinion (I'd rather be single then date this asshole) You deserve a man who is going to love you for you and respect you in every way.
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Good grief! He's a jerk!! (No offense) If I were you I'd dump him. I mean that is wrong. I know breaking up with him will be hard but it'd be worth it in the long run. That is not a healthy relationship. You deserve someone that will treat you better and not do things like that. If you choose to stay with him, no things wont change. If it was going to change it would have already but instead he lied to you about that. You should do your best to move on. But make sure, if you decide to move on, your best friend is ready to do her best to cheer you up. You'll for sure need it. Ending a 3 year relationship would be the most toughest thing you'll do. I'm sorry and hope things get better for you. :(
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But i mean do you really want to be with a guy like this i mean sure you think he will change now but wat if he doesnt i dont think you would want to live with a guy like him he will most likely continue with his ways i still stand by what i said i think you should move on your just going to go through more heart ache the more you wait.
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