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Problems not letting things go
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 11:10 pm
Hello there. I'm 18, and a female. I've been dating my boyfriend for over three months, but we've been friends even longer than that. Anyways, I was friends with him when he was with his past two exes. The one was really outgoing, nice(to a point), and was his longest relationship. He used to talk about shit he used to do with her and stuff. I know I shouldn't really hold that against him, seeing he did that before he knew I liked him. But the thing his, I can't stand thinking about it. And I do it sometimes by accident. Like looking through Facebook pictures of people and finding pictures of them together. It really kills me inside. In fact, his mom even accidently called me by her name today. Not the best thing in the world. The thing is,...
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I need a boyfriend because not having one is giving me low self esteem!
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 10:26 pm
I haven't had a boyfriend since the 6th grade and i want one now, i feel like its my turn especially since im a freshman in high school.it sucks to see other girls with guys and i feel like im the only one without a boyfriend i feel lonely my self esteem is low because i dont have a boyfriend im not as confident about myself what do i do
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How do I even speak to him let alone find the courage to say "hi!"?
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 10:17 pm
so im in highschool and im a freshman and i like a guy who is a sophmore but im scared to say hi to him because i dont want his friends or even him to look at me strange or reject me how do i say hi or even speak?
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So, there's this guy....
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 9:26 pm
I'm 16/f, he's 17/m (obviously...). He's from a town about 20 mins away in a different state. Let's call him Jake. One of my good friends Carrie has known Jake since they were in diapers, and she brought him to one of our dances last year (just as friends). He had a gf at the time, and I didn't really think much of him then. Four months ago, she had him and his friend Eric go to her birthday party, which I also attended. He acted much more like himself this time around, and I thought he just seemed like a really fun guy. (I believe he was single by this time, and Carrie ended up going out with Eric.) About a month later, she had another party, which I went to, and so did Jake and Eric. After the party, I developed a bit of a thing for him. ...
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Confused if he likes me
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 10:57 am
Ok so a year or so ago, I met a guy through one of my best friends. He had only split up from his girlfriend less than a month (he was with her for 2 years) I didn't find this out until after I started dating him. Do you think I was the rebound? I think I was. Anyway I broke up with him over some differences we had. We remained sorta friends in the meantime. He started dating another girl and he has only broken up with her for just over a month. He broke up with her, but I know he still loves her and thinks about her all the time (he told someone I know this) He has started talking to me again and flirting with me, is he just using me to get over her? I know he kissed her last week and she kissed him back but then she told him she doesn't want anything to do with him
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Why is he discussing getting back together?
Posted Friday October 15 2010, 4:59 am
My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. We were together for just over a year. He broke up with me (Long story) I didn't want to break up with him but I couldn't control what he wanted, he wanted to stay friends but I said no. He has still tried contacting me quite often and tried kissing me one night in a bar. I asked what he was doing, and whether that meant he wanted to be with me again and he said he doesn't know what he wants really.
I made it perfectly clear I did not want to speak to him anymore...I don't want to be his friend as it's too hard to deal with and he started going mad at me for it. He told me he loves me but he is just unsure what he wants.
I said we won't be friends etc and he said well you never kno...
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am i weird?
Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 10:57 pm
ok so this is gonna seem weird but sometimes i picture a guy who i would think would make the perfect boyfriend like i imagine scenerios where me and this guy are together and what it would be like its not like hes an imaginary because i know he doesnt exist i just kind of picture what it would be like to have a perfect boyfriend and i picture those movie scenes and want them to be my life i feel like im super weird though so is that weird?!
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Don't know what to do about him anymore ..
Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 8:47 pm
20F. Nick - Just turned 19
This will be long, but I will return the favor I'm just so lost right now.
Me and Nick have been close friends for probably 5 years now. I've always had a crush on him, I know he's always had an attraction to me but he's had a girlfriend for 3 years. Finally they broke up their senior year but that wasn't the end of her. She was Nick's only girlfriend he's ever had, they lost their virginity's to each other, they have something special. She is a bit obsessive and won't let go of him but I get mad at him for not being able to let go of her too. Before he left for South Dakota in September for hockey, we talked. I said Nick, I have a serious question for you. Whats going on with you and Maria (...
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He doesn't get it
Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 7:48 pm
This guy just asked me to homecoming and I said yes because I don't get asked out often. But, I don't like him as more than a friend, let alone a date.
I told him I can't stay for all of homecoming, so he asked me out and luckily I had an excuse.
I still onsider him a friend, but he seems determined.
He's really shy and I know it must have taken a lot to ask me out, but I don't want to go out with him.
Help?
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I am throwing my life away and I don't know why!
Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 12:02 am
Everything I have ever learned in life as I was growing up I threw out the window the moment I moved out. This included going out, drinking, and having sex. I had promised myself to keep my virginity until I was married but I couldn't accomplish that, I ended up losing my virginity to a guy who is in a committed relationship with another girl... and I can't (don't want to) stay away from him. You can tell me what I'm doing is wrong, and karma is going to bite me I KNOW THIS. but there is something else about him that keeps pulling me back for more. My question is how reliable are condoms really? and which birth control method do you use/recommend?
thank you..
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ask out
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 11:10 am
what is the best way to ask someone out and or tell them how you fell?
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how to tell if your not just another hook up!!
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 2:07 am
i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time?
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My wife wants to have sex with another man?
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 2:04 am
I've been married to my beautiful wife for 3 years now. I told her I'd do anything in the world to make her happy and to please her. About a week ago she confessed to me that she wants to experiment with other men. She wants to actually have sex with another man to see what it's like since she has only been with one other man before our marriage. I can't really overcome this and it makes me feel like a bad husband. I told her I'd have to think about a lot of things first. She said that it's the only way she'll be completely happy in this marriage. What do I do? I feel like if I say yes then I am degrading myself and this marriage, but if I say no then I'm holding her back from what will truly make her happiest in this world.
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What is the percentage of high school couples that get married?
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 2:01 am
How many high school couples actually end up getting married? My boyfriend and I were talking about getting married in a couple of years when we both graduate and he said we'd probably be one of the few that make it out together. I was curious what the percentage of that actually is for high school couples. Everybody seems so in love and I think it's sad is like nobody ever gets married out of high school. Anybody knows the numbers on that?
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sending picture of pussy to boyfriend ... is it SAFE?
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 1:56 am
My boyfriend wants to see my vag and I told him OK and planned to take a few pics of it. I kinda told my bff who was like I shouldn't do that cos somebody can hack his phone && get my nude shots later. How safe do u think it is to take pictures of my vagina && send them to his cell phone?
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Should I ignore my boyfriend for awhile to keep him wanting me?
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 1:52 am
I read in Cosmo awhile back that guys like to "chase" after girls and that if you let them think you're easy and will always be around then they're more likely to cheat or not care as much about you. My boyfriend is a pretty good guy and I don't think he'd cheat on me but I don't want to risk it. We talk like every 2 days and I see him at least 3 times a week at school. We don't really go on dates too often but like once every 2 weeks maybe we'll go to a movie or get pizza together. Should I ignore him for awhile to keep him after me? HOw long is a good time range so he still desires me?
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IM ADDICTED AND NEED HELP
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 12:26 am
Ok so i was googling some random stuff an found out about masterbation so i tryed it and after one or two times it didnt work then i tryed harder and finally got an organism that was mabye 2-3 months ago. Now i just can't stop my life is basic im a nerd (dont really care about that tho) and I just can't stop i mean i tell my self no and i end up doing it then noticing at the last second that it is wrong so please help me oh an im 12 years old.
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I hope he says yes!
Posted Tuesday October 12 2010, 11:37 pm
I really like this guy we are going to the mall tomorrow as a GRoup I really wanna ask him out but idk how or what to say.I know this seems pathetic but i have never aqsked a guy help.Any advice?
THNX IN ADVANCE
TINK2359
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What do I say?
Posted Tuesday October 12 2010, 10:37 pm
19/f : I got talking to some girl in collage for a couple weeks now and i was beging to fall for her i have never been with a girl i have these dreams about her she is the first person i think of when i wake up and the last person i think of at night we text all the time when we went out the other night we was sitting at a table and we found our selfs kissing and she stayed in myne that night it was the first girl i hade ever been with so i no i want to stay with her and she whants to stay with me.
but how and what do i tell my family?
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What do I choose? Boyfriend I Like or Ex I Still Love?
Posted Tuesday October 12 2010, 10:16 pm
F/16 I have this amazing boyfriend who I've been dating for 2 weeks. I like him, but only when I'm with him. I partially think it's because I'm still hung up on my ex. All I can think about is my ex, and how I want to be with him. Just a few months ago I was with my ex, until some things happened that screwed us up. Now I'm dating this other kid, and he's my first boyfriend since my ex 2 years ago.
I do like my current boyfriend, but when I'm with him and we're alone things are sexual and I don't like that. Whenever I see him in school all I can think about is wanting to be with my ex instead of him. He's such a nice guy, and I do like him, it's just I know I would rather be with my ex and that's all that would make me happy...
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