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am i weird?


Question Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 10:57 pm

ok so this is gonna seem weird but sometimes i picture a guy who i would think would make the perfect boyfriend like i imagine scenerios where me and this guy are together and what it would be like its not like hes an imaginary because i know he doesnt exist i just kind of picture what it would be like to have a perfect boyfriend and i picture those movie scenes and want them to be my life i feel like im super weird though so is that weird?!

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AdviceMistress answered Friday October 15 2010, 9:27 pm:
Not at all! I do the same thing and sometimes for me they've happened in the past. I dated this guy for a year and a half and he actually had a pinic with me in a park. It reminded me of the movie Cruel Intentions (MY FAVORITE MOVIE) and it was so cute and thoughtful. Another example was on New Years Eve of this year the guy I liked ended up getting a town car to pick me up and we ended up kissing at midnight. It was like a scene from the movie and was so romantic. There's nothing wrong with daydreaming or even picturing what you want form a boyfriend. My advice though is don't have huge expectations or high expectations from those thoughts. Sometimes my thoughts and ideas create me to have high expectations and thats never good!

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iwantthetruth answered Friday October 15 2010, 12:20 am:
Hello.

No no no! Not weird at all. Unless of course I am also a werido :). Honestly, tons of girls and guys do this as well.

You probably have an active imagination. I'm also guessing that you don't have a crush on anyone at the moment, otherwise you might be pining over him instead. Love makes people all giddy inside, be it fantasy, infatuation, or the real deal. As long as your fantasies are just fun and aren't actually making you upset in real life, then I don't see a problem here. Also, it's good to have high expectations for a guy. That way when you do eventually find a boyfriend you'll ensure that he'll be an amazing guy. Yay! Everyone's happy!

Take care :).

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