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accidental crush
Posted Friday December 3 2010, 5:01 pm
I'll try and make a long story short...
Basically a co worker of mine started acting interested in me but i knew he had a girlfriend so I kind of backed off and assumed he'd back off eventually too. We got more serious and i started to really like him. We hangout all the time, he tells me he cares about me , he buys me flowers, takes me out to eat,and is just a guy I really want to be with. He kept breaking up with his girlfriend for me ,but getting back together with her because he's been with her for 4 years... and doesn't want to let her go to waste because he thinks that I may let him down. At first,that was true but now I'm really falling for him and he says he's starting to really have feelings for me too. He tried breaking th...
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How long should you wait before you buy gifts for each other?
Posted Friday December 3 2010, 4:27 pm
Is if reasonable for a guy to give a gift to his girlfriend at christmas if they started dating in Novmeber?
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Is he lying?
Posted Friday December 3 2010, 4:02 pm
so , i'll tell you part of the story , he told me from the start he is not getting back into the army , and so I believed him. But after a while , 4 days ago or 6 he started to act weird , he didn't text me as much and nothing. So , I was like okay , i'll let it go, as the day's went by he never really texted me , he use to text me in the morning , and now he doesn't , and at all nothing , and he's like i feel sick and everything sorry I was working and tired , so I let it go , and now he said oh you should call me and he never got back to it and today he was like oh i'll call you I miss you and he never does , and like when I asked him what his job was , he said paperwork at the military place..... isn't it weird how he said that? and he d...
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Boy/Friend Issues
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 11:49 pm
Hi, My name is Marissa, I'm 16 and I need a little advice..
So, I have this friend named Ian, him and I have been friends for a period of 4 years and we were super close. While we were friends I completly fell inlove with him, although I wouldn't admit it to anybody. He liked me too. He once told me so too. But I was stupid and told him that I didn't like him that way.
Now, at the beginning of the month, he asked one of my bestfriend out, her name is Kelsey. It was completly out of the blue, nobody would have expected it since everyone thought we both really liked eachother.
They're really happy together,they've only been going out for about a month now but they have both decided they wanted it to last, so their trying ...
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should i be worried?
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 10:42 pm
17/f
So my boyfriend asked me today if it was okay if he went out to eat with one of his "girl" friends, just them two. I said okay. The thing is, after i said that i found out they used to talk and thats why him and his ex girlfriend used to fight, because of her. I've been dating him for about a month now and im still finding things out about him. He treats me really good though. The only thing is, i got a little mad at the fact that he used to like her because i seen what hes said about her pictures on facebook and he was giving her plenty of compliments. I've also seen them text while we have been hanging out before. He's so nice and i know he would never do anything to hurt me intentionally. But i just don't know what to do, because it makes me upset.
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How to tell a guy
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 5:52 pm
How would I tell a guy that I really like that I like him?Im pretty sure that he likes me too,he acts like he does but I just dont know how to tell him
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I'll be his first
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 5:15 pm
I've been seeing this guy for a while now and he's a virgin. I'm not. We talked about having sex and he's pretty sure he's ready. If we do end up having sex, I want to make his first time really good. Are there any positions that will make it very pleasuring for him?
Thank you.
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ex girlfriend troubles (pretty long)
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 2:55 pm
Hey guys. I need some wisdom right now, and I would prefer people with experience in long term relationships/marriage to answer this, though other opinions are welcome. I have been dating my boyfriend for about three years now. We love eachother, and I'm certain he cares a great deal for me. Back when we started dating, he had a best girl friend. She was basically his ex from way back when, and the relationship lasted a couple months. He says they weren't intimate but did small things like kissing. She was madly in love with him, and tried to break us up. We then took a break because he was confused after she tried to convince him desperately that she was the one for him. He ended up picking me, and cut her off.... after a while they stared...
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Having sex while pregnant?
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 2:37 pm
so if Im pregnant and having sex is that bad?
is something going to happen to my baby
please help!
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Having sex while pregnant?
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 2:05 pm
so if Im pregnant and having sex is that bad?
is something going to happen to my baby
please help!
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18yr old girl with a 27yr old guy?
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 9:04 am
There's this guy that I'm seeing [not exclusively in a relationship though] that goes to my college. He took a long break between high school and college and he's not a third year (I'm a first year). We've never talked about our ages or age in general. I want to say that I don't care about age, but a 9 year difference (almost 10 in January) is pretty substantial...
What are your views on this?
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Friends with benefits
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 4:16 am
18(9months) male
I have this girl I have had sex with and we were both clear, actually she was, that it was only that and nothing more would ever be yet now she wants to act as if we are dating though she rejects me and won't have sex either. What is the deal because I am lost entirely.
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I am Indian and my parents won't let me date because of what I did
Posted Thursday December 2 2010, 1:41 am
19/f there's this guy i met, who works at the library near where i live. well anyways he was helping me with my paper, and he would come upstairs and then he stayed and we started talking. well anyways he added me on facebook. and i wasn't sure if i should add him because my nosy older brother loves to go on my facebook and ask me who is that and all this non sense. well i finally to just accept his friend request, and he started talking he goes to college and he's getting his masters i think. and he's 27. well anyways he messaged me and was like mhmm i knew you would accept me and he asked me what i like to do for fun and he told me what he does for fun. and then on facebook chat like a day later we talked again. and i asked him why he ad...
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When should I talk to him?
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 8:56 pm
I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 months ago. I still wanted to be friends with him, but he was angry that I broke up with him at a really bad time in his life. And I now understand that I shouldn't have broken up with him from the start. Anyways one time me and two friends that are girls went to a party. I just went to take care of them. Then a drive by happened and I told my ex where I was and he got so angry and we got into this fight with him ended saying "Just to let you know I wouldn't want to go back out with you". And he knew I still loved him and I wanted him back.
So we didn't talk for like 3 weeks. And in those three weeks were the most horrible weeks of my life. I was crying so much because I missed him...
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What do you think? Am I Gay?
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 3:34 pm
I am completely against being gasy I am an all christian gal. G to church bible studies youth groups, the whole deal. I even like a guy. But, when ever a girl walks by I look at her butt or boobs , lesbian kissin, and two men kissin even turn me on. Or if they bend over I feel all tingley. AM I gay? Btw I am a girl.
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is he interested or not ??????
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 8:29 am
so theres this guy that i chat to on mxit, we met trough a mutual friend about three years ago... recently we started chatting alot but just in general.. not so long ago ,i wasnt well so i asked him would he cry if i died and he said he will and that i cant die now so i asked why and he said coz we still getting to know each other... i dont know what to make of that but i think i like him........
how do i get him to like me?????????????
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Moaning + Other tips
Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 12:33 am
20 female.
So before I started having sex I thought, "I'm not going to be one of those girls that moans ..I just can't see myself doing that."
But then the first time I had sex, I moaned like crazy. It just came naturally like it basically just came out. I wasn't embarrassed at the time because I was so in the moment but now that I think about it, do guys like when you moan? Does it turn them on or do they think it's weird?
Also, what else can you do to a guy while having sex that will really get him going? I know all guys are usually different, but any advice would be appreciated!
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Ex-Boyfriend... again?
Posted Tuesday November 30 2010, 6:24 pm
Okay,
19/F. I asked a question a few weeks ago about my ex-boyfriend on here and got one answer. It was kind of rude, kind of funny. If you would like to read, feel free to.
Anyways, so I have a facebook... just like many other people do. And I guess I always had my profile to where everyone could see my whole profile.
Last night, I changed it to where only my friends could see my profile... no one else.
So my ex-boyfriend and I had a fight awhile ago and he ended up deleting me. No big deal, I figured he would anyways, he does it everytime we have a fight.
This morning, I logged on and he added me. Is it weird that he added me the night I changed my privacy settings? I me...
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Expectations too unrealistic for my age?
Posted Tuesday November 30 2010, 3:01 am
16/f
I'm single, and recently out of a longterm relationship. I'm not very interested in being in any relationships for the time being, but I want to date. It's something I miss most to being single. You know, the getting-to-know-you type of thing where you don't already know the person enough to not have anything to talk about. This seems perfectly reasonable to me, but I can't help but wonder if dating just for the sake of dating is wrong or unfair? I just don't want to be looking for anything serious right now, not that I would be against happening to find something serious. It all depends.
The problem with all this is that I feel as if my expectations for my age is too high. My last boyfriend was a l...
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Average of 4 sexual partners per lifetime for women? Really?
Posted Tuesday November 30 2010, 2:12 am
f/16
So, I read somewhere recently that the average amount of sexual partners for a woman in her lifetime will be four sexual partners, and when I read this, I was a little....well...disgusted with myself, to be honest. I've already slept with two; although, one was a rape, and the other, a long term relationship 1+ years with my boyfriend. He was three years older, so sex, I suppose, was just natural at that age. Regardless, that's still two, and I feel, well, a little promiscuous, a little slutty, a little dirty, and a little like if that's really the average, that I shouldn't have been so foolish and quick to make decisions. My question is, I guess, is that REALLY and accurate average? And, if it is, is there any advic...
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