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When should I talk to him?
I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 months ago. I still wanted to be friends with him, but he was angry that I broke up with him at a really bad time in his life. And I now understand that I shouldn't have broken up with him from the start. Anyways one time me and two friends that are girls went to a party. I just went to take care of them. Then a drive by happened and I told my ex where I was and he got so angry and we got into this fight with him ended saying "Just to let you know I wouldn't want to go back out with you". And he knew I still loved him and I wanted him back.
So we didn't talk for like 3 weeks. And in those three weeks were the most horrible weeks of my life. I was crying so much because I missed him and still loved him. I was also crying because I felt so guilty breaking up with him. So I couldn't take it anymore and I texted him and we started talking again. I thought we could of just been friends and talk to each other civil, but then one day a bunch of my close friends said he had a new girlfriend. My phone was disconnected so I couldn't have texted my ex to tell him "congratulations". I was so unbelievably angry. I never was that mad in my life. I went on a trip to Arizona with my family so when my phone was back on I texted him saying good luck with the new girl. And he got mad because it was a lie and he hadn't had a new girlfriend. That girl was just a friend.
So took his word for it because I was tired of all the drama and lies. When i came back I admitted I still loved him and would wait for him. Then one day we talked on the phone for 8 hours and we were like how we were before. We were happy, enjoying each others conversations, just enjoy talking again and finally moving on from the drama. He told me he still loved me. And we were on the verge to getting back together. Then a friend said that she saw him and that girl talking again and that mad me extremely upset. So we talked about it later on that night and he said that she was just a friend. And I asked him if we should move on from each other and he cried and said he doesn't know. And i cried also.. The next day I told him we shouldn't talk anymore because we had so much resentment towards one another.
I was hurt because of what I thought he did and I didn't trust him as much. And he was still angry at me for breaking up with him.. I wrote him 6 long text messages. He said he didn't read all of it, but he said he was pretty sure we were over. Since then we haven't talked and that was a month ago. Since then I've been improving myself. I was thinking if we ever got back together what we would have to do to work it out. I still have feelings for him.
We were together 8 months. I would want to try again with him. The thing is I don't know when I should talk to him. I can only text him. It's almost new years and I'm thinking about just waiting till New Years Eve. Should I try again? I know we would have to start from the very start. Just as friends and see if our feelings would start to grow. And we'll try to reconcile, but if not I would still want to be friends with him. He's a special person in my life. When do you think I should text him? and also do you think we'll ever have a chance getting back together?
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I definitely think he still has feelings for you. And for sure, you guys have a chance, if and only if, you let him know how you feel AND that the two of you need to be very honest and work things out along the way.
Maybe you should text him letting him know first if you can call him, and then make the call?
I do believe you have a chance though. But don't wait too long.
Much luck! Xoxo.
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