Question Posted Wednesday December 1 2010, 5:33 am
So before I started having sex I thought, "I'm not going to be one of those girls that moans ..I just can't see myself doing that."
But then the first time I had sex, I moaned like crazy. It just came naturally like it basically just came out. I wasn't embarrassed at the time because I was so in the moment but now that I think about it, do guys like when you moan? Does it turn them on or do they think it's weird?
Also, what else can you do to a guy while having sex that will really get him going? I know all guys are usually different, but any advice would be appreciated!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rii_Luv answered Friday December 3 2010, 2:45 am: GUYS LOVE IT. I can't speak for a lot of men but I can definantly speak for this topic. They love it, it shows them that their doing their job. If you don't moan, their gonna think that you're not liking the sex. Moaning is sexy, and it sometimes even keeps a guy going. Other things is dirty talk, guys like a girl that can talk dirty. It doesn't have to be all difficult, it could be as simple as "you like that?" or "how do you want it?" or "Oo baby harder" "spank me baby" lol it sounds weird on here but when youre in the mood and in the moment, it will sound good to you and him. Rub his hair and nibble on his ear & neck. And another thing guys love is eye contact. Gaze into his eyes while youre riding him, and bite your lips & rub yourself. It shows confidence and sexiness. I hope i helped :) [ Rii_Luv's advice column | Ask Rii_Luv A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Thursday December 2 2010, 3:30 am: Hi,
Yes, most guys like it if you moan and they will find it a turn on. I know that some guys actually will want a girl to moan louder. Ask your guy what he likes.
Things you can do to get a guy going: nibble on his earlobe, kiss his neck, massage his thigh, whisper sexy things in his ear, rub the side of your foot against his, kiss/massage all the way from his neck to his crotch, rub his butt, wear some sexy lingerie (gives a sexier view), tell him he's all in control (guys love dominance), pull him in closer, or let him know "you turn me on". If you tell a guy he is doing a good job (compliment him in any way) he will be proud and want to please you even more. Of course as you know, every guy is different. Find what works for yours and make it happen [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
Hitoast answered Wednesday December 1 2010, 10:27 pm: Well I can't speak for all guys, but my boyfriend tells me he loves it. He also says that guys like it when a girl gets really into it. Like if you're on bottom maybe pulling him closer and kissing him all over...stuff like that :b [ Hitoast's advice column | Ask Hitoast A Question ]
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