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Boy/Friend Issues
Hi, My name is Marissa, I'm 16 and I need a little advice..
So, I have this friend named Ian, him and I have been friends for a period of 4 years and we were super close. While we were friends I completly fell inlove with him, although I wouldn't admit it to anybody. He liked me too. He once told me so too. But I was stupid and told him that I didn't like him that way.
Now, at the beginning of the month, he asked one of my bestfriend out, her name is Kelsey. It was completly out of the blue, nobody would have expected it since everyone thought we both really liked eachother.
They're really happy together,they've only been going out for about a month now but they have both decided they wanted it to last, so their trying their best to make it work.
Neither Kelsey or Ian know how I actually feel, not a lot of people do. But I like him so much. And I find it hard to go to school everyday seeing them together.
Now recently a guy named Connor told me he liked me. I kinda like him too and he's supposed to ask me out. Although I kinda don't want him to cause I told him I liked him back but now I don't know anymore because I still have strong feelings for Ian.
I don't expect you to understand fully, but if you can offer any kinda of advice let me know, its really appreciated.
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well the fact that you said you''kinda'' like him shows that your not fully into him , I think if you want to get over this Ian guy , you should try with this Connor guy , but if you ''kinda'' like him don't do it , wait for the right guy , or just try to find another guy , go out with friends or what not and try to find a guy that you will like , it will just happen , and also , if it is bugging you that much that you see them together that much , you should tell him , away and say it briefly so that she won't get mad at you , at least he liekd you , maybe he is doing it because he wants you to be jealous or like her? or maybe he likes her? I think you guys should talk it out , just not out of the blew just show that you still care about him , and still be in his life.
ps , im sure you can get him back , if you really wanted to ,
dk
or let go if you love
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Well Marissa i want to tell you how i feel about it honest and i don't want you to feel as i am talking in a bad way because i'm not. I feel that you ruined you're chances but don't give up because you know you're only 16 and i'm guessing that he and you're friend are around that age, so maybe they might not last as long as they feel they are. but sorry to say but don't hold on too strong either because they could last, you never know. All you can do now is wait and hope for the better or the worse depending on what is what to you. i hope everything works out and i'm sorry if or that i couldn't answer you're question as well as you wanted. i hope that i didn't make it harder but instead gave you less confusion. now with that guy, let me ask you this: do you feel what you felt with Ian when your with Connor or Do you think you could anytime in the future? Think about it and maybe your answer could help you.
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