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Helping with his guilt


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 5:00 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and as we get closer and closer I find more and more things to love about him. He has been telling me he had something he had to tell me but every time he would try it would be really hard for him and he would just say he would tell me another time. Well last night we finally talked. The story is way too complex to share all the details, so in a nutshell, his ex-girlfriend he was with for 3 years had an abortion. She is bipolar and he had reason to believe she wasn't even telling the truth. He went along with it until the day she actually took care of it.... I could tell by the way he was telling me and by him crying that he feels so guilty. This girl was cheating with him on anot...

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Is Rebounding Normal?


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 4:21 pm

Well anyways my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and we had been together about a month. And I really liked him yet I didnt cry when we broke up. But now I just feel like I need rebound or something to makeout with or something. Ive found a good guy clean and has no strings. Is this normal for someone to do?

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Torn Between Ex & New Boy..


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 3:54 pm

So, my boyfriend & I broke up in August. We'd been dating for 11 months. Hes a junior, Im a freshman. We were in love, but i guess i got too clingy or something and he just didnt feel the same love as before. Its now February, and for about a month I've been talking to this senior. He's super nice, but I think he still likes this chick he had a thing with a few months ago. I dunno how she feels about him but whatever. So yeah I kinda like this senior. DONT tell me Im too young, because at my school this happens all the time. My ex and I still talk, but he's such a flirt sometimes I dont know if its genuine. Recently he seems to like talking to me again. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I always will. But I kinda do wanna give th...

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my boyfriend si going to USA.


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 1:44 pm

my boyfriend is going to US. We've been together for 1 year and 6 months. And I really don't know what to do If he left me. What will I do?

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afriad of kissing?????????


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 10:23 am

so my bf and i have been gng out for awhile and everytime he comes to kiss me like french kiss i get all nervous and pull away and its starting to worry him. i know its stupid but its also starting to worry me..... any ideas????????

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There's this boy...


Posted Tuesday February 1 2011, 2:44 am

Hi. I'm Penny, 17 years old, college freshman.

So, last week I think I realized that I liked my classmate. We've been classmates since the school year started and I've been sort of liking him on and off. So, anyways, now that I've established the fact that I liked him, I decided to try my best to engage in conversation.

So the other day, we were together in school because we were both headed to the same building. So it was just us two. Alone. I'd ask him a question and then he'd just answer and then it'd be quiet again. I kept going at it but it still ended the same way. We decided to eat a little before getting to class and well, whenever I said something, he'd just answer, and then it'd be quiet and then it'd...

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Sex Too Soon


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 9:54 pm

There's a guy that I really like, but there's a problem. I had sex with him way too soon, as in the first date. We knew each other from high school and it was the night before he left for 5 months (He's in the military). I stayed in contact with him for the entire time he's been gone so far (1 month). Things aren't where I want them to be. He tells me he thinks about me and he likes me, but other than that he's not really affectionate. He doesn't call me "baby" or anything and I always text/call him first. He's coming back home for the weekend. We've planned on spending the night he gets back together...but I want to take that back. I want to be more than his friend, and right now I feel like I'm just a sex buddy. Should I try to ...

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My crush is moving away.! :(


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 9:04 pm

I've been friends with this boy for 2 1/2 years && i've liked him for 2.! He says im like his sister && sometimes he acts like he likes me.! He told me the only reason he is moving is because his girlfriend just broke up with him && he loves her.! At his birthday party, he picked me up && spun me around.! I don't if he likes me or not.! I want to tell him now incase he feels the same && don't move.! But im scared if I do now && he don't like me like that, then i'll feel stupid.! But I am gonna tell him, I just don't know when.! Will someone help.?

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What to get him for valentines day?


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 9:00 pm

Me boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We have gotten so so close and we have that type of relationship where we can be i guess you can say goofy with each other. I need help on what to get him for valentimes day... something that's not expensive like under $30.
any ideas?

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He won't talk to me!!


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 8:10 pm

Ok so hey everyone 13/f so I like this guy and he is one year older than me 14 and he don't know me or anything and I tried texting him and I said my name and that we were friends on facebook. Well then he never answered back. The other day I tried texting him and he wouldn't answer me either, I'm not even sure he knows what I look like but the wierd thing is that at school he looks at my table, and our eyes have met a couple of times, and one day like every two seconds he would look over were I was. So he does stuff like that but he don't know me, so I just need help I don'r get it. Thanks(:

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His family and I: They disapprove of me


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 7:50 pm

17/f

So my boyfriend's parents disapprove of me. Why? They thought I didn't want to interact or become a part of their family. They kept telling my boyfriend that, and he kept trying to make me visit them. Yes, I do believe it's my fault. Before we started dating, I worked at a restaurant as a hostess. His family would always go there to eat, his mom was always happy, but whenever I saw his dad he always frowned. The owner of the restaurant knew the family personally, and they found out that I liked the oldest brother (boyfriend), and the owner told me the dad was scary. So that got me quite nervous. When we started dating, I wanted to make a good impression, I really liked him. I wanted to get my hair cut (my bangs was cover...

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Howcan I tell him??


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 6:46 pm

I like this guy, we know each other from middle school and we talk now secretly kinda till my baby s father and I officially split up.

But sometimes when I talk to him he seems un interested, but then others he's flirty and cute, I want him to know how I feel about that, as in like I feel like I try to see him more than he does me, or I try to make conversation with him more than he does.. I dont want to seem needy, but I would like things to work out , what should I do our say??

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I love my bestfriend


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 5:30 pm

Im gay and 19 now and I met him at 12 , I didnt realize that I love him he just came onto my life first time we talked and never separated,Hes a straight guy , his porno is straght , what he says is straight lol but the ways he acts with me makes me think thas hes not, sometimes he touches me a little to much and once he tried to kiss me but now things appear to be different , he thinks that im gay and he still touches me...closer to me legs on me (weird I know) now hes lost in hes video games and Im tired that he doesnt show much importance to me( other subject)We got many projects. IM always after him but now it hursts to much and I dont know if I should forget him even if there no one I love more

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beating around the bush? :)


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 5:11 pm

lets see here... there is this guy lets call him rhys. there is this girl lets call her megan. well megan had a crush on rhys like last year in 2010. they dont really talk to each other. she wrote him a note and asked me to give it to him so i did since i have classes with him and he talks to me sometimes. well thats all over nothing happened between him he never wrote her back or talked about her. she doesnt like him anymore and she likes this other guy which she is happy about. well i like rhys now and me and megan was sitting by each other in the library with this other guy. rhys walked in to the library late so he say by himself. i went to talk to him for like a minute. well later on that day i asked him some questions. i asked him if h...

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Valentines Present for my Boyfriend


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 3:35 pm

Love of my life and all I have is a cd ... help.

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How to move on if i should


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 3:02 pm

This boy I have been dating for a year and a half just dumped me. He has done this several times since november. He always ends up coming back. He thinks hes not good enough for me because he isnt doing well in college and is basically doing nothing right now. The problem is, I cant get him out of my head. It happened friday, he called me that night but i ended the conversation early. Then he called me twice on saturday but I ignored them because I dont know what he could possibly want to say to a girl he dumped? I guess I just dont know what to do. I know I SHOULD move on. but I kind of want to talk to him, but I will probably end up getting sucked back in. I love him a lot and Im scared if i move on until maybe hes made himself happy more...

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Shynesss suckks, any ideas?


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 10:08 am

Okay so there's this guy I went to school with in middle school and I never saw him after 8th grade ever, in August on 2010 I SAW HIM and I was all goo-goo gagga over him , haha ! Butt.. I was pregnant, now I'm not and we are always texting and flirting .. But I'm still with my daughters father, and I plan on leaving him . (Thats besides the point) I've seen this guy twice and it seems as if we really like each other but when we see each other we don't have much to talk about, What can I do to fix this ? I get shy and I don't know what too sayyy . I really like him and I want to see if this will work out. Any Ideass?

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Leave him or stick around and wait for things to get better?


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 10:04 am

Okay so the situation is, Me and my boyfriend have been together ON and OFF since 9th grade .. we are no longer in highschool. and We are parents now.. Let's just say since 9th grade we've been thru ALOTT, but we still managed to work things out and stay together .. Now the situation is a little bit harder we have a daughter that we both love very much ..

His attitude tho is atrocious, he has the grossest personality ever, I feel like he is only nice to me when he wants to have sex. and then if we do have sex , a couple minutes later he's back to being a jerk . Mind you we have discussed how he makes me feel and sometimes he gets mad , others he says sorry and then we're right back at it the next day. And I get it cause havin...

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what does 143 means


Posted Monday January 31 2011, 3:33 am

what does 143 means


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Scared to tell him... dont know if he feels this way....


Posted Sunday January 30 2011, 11:56 pm

Ok. I'm gonna try to make an insanely long story as short as possible. We'll call my ex J and my guy friend M. J and I broke up eight months ago. J was VERY BAD to me. Let that just be enough information. M helped me get over him and get over all the harm he caused. He basically became my best friend. He has always helped me through problems. I love him. I have basically always had feelings for him since last summer when J and I broke up. But he had a girlfriend and I was still broken and damaged from J so I knew it wouldn't work. Ever since winter break we've been texting everysingle day. He is the ONLY guy I have found that when I talk to him I don't think about J or want to be with J. Because even though he hurt me so bad, I still want t...

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