Leave him or stick around and wait for things to get better?
Question Posted Monday January 31 2011, 10:04 am
Okay so the situation is, Me and my boyfriend have been together ON and OFF since 9th grade .. we are no longer in highschool. and We are parents now.. Let's just say since 9th grade we've been thru ALOTT, but we still managed to work things out and stay together .. Now the situation is a little bit harder we have a daughter that we both love very much ..
His attitude tho is atrocious, he has the grossest personality ever, I feel like he is only nice to me when he wants to have sex. and then if we do have sex , a couple minutes later he's back to being a jerk . Mind you we have discussed how he makes me feel and sometimes he gets mad , others he says sorry and then we're right back at it the next day. And I get it cause having a baby is stressful at first, but seriously he barely does anything ! he comes home from work tired alwayyys it never fails , and grouchy ass hell. He's always inappropriate around my friends , and to my bestfriend he is the biggest jerk to her. There's no respect for me or my mom from him , and it hurts cause I want things to work out for my daughter but a person can only take so much. And sometimes I look at him and I know he cares but then I think does he? Cause someone that cares wouldn't treat someone they love with no respect.. I don't know what to do , am I wrong for wanting to leave him ? Help me out please...
Xui answered Monday January 31 2011, 5:41 pm: You need to leave the relationship, At this point he seems to only be using you for sex. You need to do what is best both for you and your daughter, Your boyfriend's behavior is totally unacceptable.
We can give you all the advice in the world but right here "am I wrong for wanting to leave him ?" you have already made up your mind, You know what you have to do. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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