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Hi I'm Nikita, 17, F, college sophomore, and I'm finding it difficult to find time to work out when I'm always busy with homework and stuff. (We have school right now, where I'm from)

On Mondays, I have class from 8am-4pm.
On Tuesdays, 2pm-6pm.
No school on Wednesdays.
On Thursdays, 8-11am.
On Fridays, 9am-6pm.

I know what you're thinking. Some of my classes are short and I don't even have class on Wednesdays, but still. I'm usually tired by the time I get home from school, regardless of long my classes were because sometimes I have to commute home (and it's a long commute). And when I get home, I usually start doing my homework or whatever.

I have a treadmill at home and probably some of you would suggest I work out on the Tuesday mornings since my classes are in the afternoon, but I think I'll definitely be too tired by the end of the day.

I do pilates for an hour on Saturdays though (and sometimes Wednesdays) so I'm partly covered.

So, tips? Should I just deal with the fact that I'm going to get tired no matter what, or do you have any suggestions for what time is appropriate for me to work out on the weekdays and weekends and still balance my schoolwork?, etc.

I'd really appreciate your responses!

Thank you in advanced! (link)
just work out a little on wensdays and then do other stuff that you need to do.i am sure you will do great!


are cigars addictive like cigerattes? are they AS addictive? will one have me hooked? thanks (link)
sometimes,no,possablly,your welcome.


what should I get my mom for mom's day when she is allergic to practically everything that has perfume scent in it? (link)
give something hand made mom's love that kind of stuff... hope u have a happpy mothers day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


what are things i should write on my babysitting fyler?
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just the normal stuff like your prise your location just stuff like that


I'm dating this guy. He's very sweet, smart, funny, and he notices all the little things about me. I feel like he really cares about me. I can be myself around him and we seem to have a good connection.

However, he's a little too sexual for me. We were laying in the grass for a bit and he put is hand up my shorts. I said no and pushed him away. He kept trying and I kept pushing him and threatened to get up and leave if he did so. So he kept his hand on my leg and calmed down a bit, but later he did it again. I kept saying no. And I got up and we talked about it and he said he'd stop and go as far as I wanted. But really, I want to wait. I know he likes doing dirty things, but I want to wait and see where we go in our relationship. I get the feeling he wants me for sex. I mean, we barely talk about sex, but still. He's very perverted and can't keep his hands off of me. I don't want our relationship to revolve around sex.

And something else: we've only been dating for a week or so, and he's already saying he loves me.

I still really like him but I don't know what else to do if he keeps being all over me like this. I want to stay with him. So how do I firmly tell him I don't want sex right now? (link)
oh i had the same problem i told him to stop he didn't he kept doing it for weeks and months and so i left him and he learned his leason and now he goes to jail too because he sexualy abuses people even kids i would convront him and if he doesn't just walk away and tell him it is over


Okay so the situation is, Me and my boyfriend have been together ON and OFF since 9th grade .. we are no longer in highschool. and We are parents now.. Let's just say since 9th grade we've been thru ALOTT, but we still managed to work things out and stay together .. Now the situation is a little bit harder we have a daughter that we both love very much ..

His attitude tho is atrocious, he has the grossest personality ever, I feel like he is only nice to me when he wants to have sex. and then if we do have sex , a couple minutes later he's back to being a jerk . Mind you we have discussed how he makes me feel and sometimes he gets mad , others he says sorry and then we're right back at it the next day. And I get it cause having a baby is stressful at first, but seriously he barely does anything ! he comes home from work tired alwayyys it never fails , and grouchy ass hell. He's always inappropriate around my friends , and to my bestfriend he is the biggest jerk to her. There's no respect for me or my mom from him , and it hurts cause I want things to work out for my daughter but a person can only take so much. And sometimes I look at him and I know he cares but then I think does he? Cause someone that cares wouldn't treat someone they love with no respect.. I don't know what to do , am I wrong for wanting to leave him ? Help me out please... (link)
leave him and take your kid with you will both have a better life i hope everything will go ok
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months. We haven't done too much together because I'm really scared to. I always hold back whenever I'm with him because sometimes I feel like I'll get too attached to him and we'll never last. My parents feel that having a boyfriend now isn't right for me. I know it's not what they think but I've always had their approval for almost anything and having a boyfriend is pretty serious for me. I wish they knew, but they obviously can't and I feel really bad. Also, my parents are moving four hours away, and eventually, I'll have to as well, just not right now. Also, he's cheated on me before and I seriously can't stand that girl or any other girl around him. I've also caught him telling a few white lies but I don't wanna ask about it because it'll make me seem like a stalker. He has freedom to go where he pleases, whereas I don't because my parents are strict. I get very envious about that and I don't know how to help myself. I trust him, I guess, but I don't trust his friends, especially girls around him. I feel like if we move any further, I'm going to become too attached. He knows I get pissed easily when it comes to him and I'm afraid that one day he'll just say he's done and he's tired of me. I can't help the way I feel because this is me being honest. I don't know what to do! (link)
girl i would dump his cheating sorry ass and give it to him girl i think your life will be better without him in the picture and talk to the bitch he was cheating on you with. this is just what i would do. i have had the same problem my bff's had cheated on my boyfriend when we weree dating and i droped them all like flyes and so far my life has been fantastic i am with somebody new and he is so sweet and caring so if you do this life will be good trust me.


18/f

my mother and father fight a lot. This doesn't really bother me. It's the fact that she always takes her anger out on me. If idobt agree with her, I basically am discommunicated from the family for a few days, till I apologize. It's not fair. My brother will get in trouble for something, but then I end up getting grounded. My brothers are afraid of her, so yet always agree but I don't anymre, because she is usually wrong. She overreacts and always will start crying and will sy mean things to me. Like how I'm stupid or she hates me. I don't know what to do, or what to say anymore.

I really need some advice.. (link)
me and my sister had the same thing happen to us and just talk to her when she is calm and just talk to one another and just try to work it out and everything should be fine. good luck and i hope you both can work things out. :-)


18/f and hes 19/m

ok so i really like this guy, usually he calls me bub, bubba, gorgeous, hun etc etc like cute nicknames...then today i say
"hello lovely :)"
and i get back "Hey kid"
kid? like seriously? im only a year younger then him and i dont see how that is cute at all =/ in fact its actually making me think he doesnt like me in that way...or as much as he did, because everyone keeps telling me its not a good thing if a guy calls you kid.

advice? x (link)
it is not bad just ask him why he called you kid and if he still likes you in that way i have had the same problem and i did this and he said that he said that beause i was the cutest little thing that he has ever seen but if this doesn't reply ask people that have been on the same level with him and ask if they ever called them kid and what they did about so if you do this everything will be ok trust me. good luck!!!!




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