Member Since: January 22, 2011
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Last Update: June 13, 2011
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what does eating out a girl taste like? Ive always heard that it smells weird and tastes bad. Is this true? (link)
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I know this isn't helpful at all, but I'm a girl who randomly found this page... Awesome. XD
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Help me... I want to kiss my boyfriend so bad, but I barely see him outside of school and I dont want to rush it cuz weve only been together for a few weeks... But I'm anxious to have my first kiss and I really really like him a lot and hes my BF but I don't know how to kiss him at school cuz all my friends would laugh at me and rumors would spread... and I dont know if he's ready... my friend was teasing us and asked him when we were gonna kiss and he didnt answer.. what does that meannn????? any advice???? (link)
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Do whatever, whenever. It'll happen. And, why are you so anxious about your first kiss? What does it really matter to you?
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i am looking for a pet name for my husband. his name is Parfait like Perfect (link)
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Don't you think that it should have more meaning to it than "I found it on the web"? I don't think you understand why we give people pet names. Pet names are personal, usually cute names we give loved ones, such as friends, or family, to show closeness and affection. For instance, my name is Elizabeth, and my elder sisters call me "Biff". My dad calls me "Squirrel". Lol, I don't know why... He just does, ok? :D Anyway, these names are meaningful, because they just made their own way into our lives and speech, you see? If you just pop out with some random cutesy name you found on the web, like "Bubblefish", for example (I know it's stupid :D), he'll be like, "Where the hell did that come from"? However, if you find a name that represents some fond memory, such as the time he knocked over the jelly-bean jar or something, and slipped on them and landed in the pool (dumb example, I know), you could call him jellbean. You see? Pet names are empty without a reason for being.
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hi , i've been trying to find a good soong to sing in the talent show for my school with my bestfriend & we just can't because almost all the songs that are duets are for a couple & we are most definetly not a couple , as a matter a fact we are both femals .. so i was wondering if you could please give me some ideas on what song to sing thats a good duet about friendship or a good song about life , something that people wont fall asleep to (perferably ab upbeat song or if not something that will give people goosbumps , but noyhing boring .. pleaaase ) while listening to it . thaaanks (: (link)
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Maybe you could take a regular, fun song for one, and have both of you sing it.
One could sing one verse, then the next verse is sung by the other one, then you both sing the chorus.
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First of all there is NO ONE in my area that knows how to play the violin, so for lessons i would have to travel at least an hour everyday. I was wondering if anyone knows of a good online course or something that I could take, great books that have good explanations and pics, or if anyone themselves could explain how to or teach me a bit. I know how hard it can be learning independantly, but im determined and as I said, it is hard to find people who know how to play around here. It is mainly the fingering part that gets me. I can play instruments by ear usually it just takes a little start. Once i learn the scale well and a song or two, then I think it will come easy from there. Please help me find a good resource :) Thanks (link)
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Keep looking every day for some new class or teacher, or even for people who are performing someplace near your area, ecause they might help too. There must be plenty of people online who can help you learn, though I don't know of any paarticular site at the moment. Maybe youtube? There are a couple of channels on there for people who want to learn violin, and a ton of demonstrations for different songs. Also, if you don't know this bit yet, here's a picture of the notes on a violin:
http://lh6.ggpht.com/_2gNRk60ZWJM/SXAIVADxIsI/AAAAAAAAAlg/c-s6pyJB-zw/525px-Violin_first_position_fingering_chart.svg.png
I used this to help me because I keep forgetting my lessons at school (I'm hopeless with time T_T), and because of it I also learned how to play different songs by ear (on my own *does the "proud of myself" dance*). You do need to know they notes on a keyboard, though, so here's a picture, just in case:
http://www.fionadaniels.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/piano-keys.gif
This way, you could use tutorials on youtube for either piano or violin when you want to learn a particular song without all the fuss of doing it by ear. *high five* :D Though, maybe it's more fun by ear... :\
I think you should go to the violin lessons once a week, and in between, you practice exercises and songs you're either learning at lessons or at home.
I teach myself violin, most of the time, because I've not been doing it for very long at all, and I have a shameful deficiency in timekeeping skills. I do have a violin teacher who comes in once a week, but due to my embarrassing failure with clocks and dates and other such things, I've not been to a lesson in a good 6 months. (yes - 6 months) D:
However, I've practised every single song I could on violin, at any moment I can. Because of this, and my self-teaching, I've actually gotten pretty good.
Also, I practice piano and singing, so I get lots of advice with sheet music and tone. This is really good, because I can apply it to my violin...ing.
Maybe you could also do other instruments too, it's really a good idea.
Hope this helps!
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So I'm a junior in high school and I play the violin. I live in Georgia and every year there is a statewide all state conference for the best music students. So, this whole year it was my dream to make it and I practiced so so much. My friend, Sarah hates the violin and doesn't practice nearly as much as I do. Well guess what? She made it and I didn't. I'm so upset and feel decieved by life. Any personal experiences to share or things in general to cheer me up? (link)
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You could always make her violin have a little... accident... ;P
And her arms. :D
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There are 3 types of vibrato, for violin or viola. They are arm, wrist, and finger vibrato. I was wonder what people's opinions were on which type of vibrato is better? I currently use arm vibrato, but I've recently been trying wrist vibrato. I think wrist vibrato sounds really pretty, since several people in my orchestra use it. (They are the more advanced players I guess you could say...) So I asked my assistant teacher if he could help me with wrist vibrato..... but he said why don't I just use arm? I thought he would like me using wrist vibrato o.o, but I'm not so sure. My teacher did also tell me that I need to relax and try not to tense up... Maybe that's why I don't quite think my arm vibrato sounds pretty? So what do you guys think? Is there a type that you think is better, or you would prefer? Or maybe whatever vibrato is easiest and comfortable for the musician would be the best choice? Thanks! Btw, I'm a freshman in high school, if that helps anything xD) (link)
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I don't even use vibrato yet. T_T I think it's best to listen to your teacher, though, and maybe practice wrist loosening exercises.
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I LOVE the song I just had sex... HOWEVER I wish it wasn't about sex. Is there a song like it??? (without all the sex ) lol thanks :) (link)
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Um, anything by Flight of the Choncords, or The Lonely Island.
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ive been playing guitar and piano for awhile now. i love to write songs hat are actually good. i absolutley love taylor swift, dixie chicks, tim mcgraw ya know anything country. ive sent letters and havent gotten any replies. what should i do now? (link)
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Maybe try out at a school for music,
Do some busking, though I think you need a license...
Maybe ask to perform at any public community productions you can, or help out at schools or something with music.
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Do you know any songs about waiting for someone? The only ones I know is Lucky by Jason Mraz and If It Means A Lot To You by A Day To Remember.
Thanks! (link)
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Ever, by Emilie Autumn.
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So basically my 15 year old brother seems to be going through what looks like depression. And no, he hasn't been diagnosed, but I know the signs because I've been through the exact same thing and everyone else I've known to go through it. He's been depressed for a while but now it's become worse because now he's showing it.
He's isolating himself, playing a lot of violent video games, writing certain things that a 15 year old shouldn't be writing about him wanting to drink his misery away and how much he hates his life because he has nothing to live for. I get that kids his age play games like Halo and shooting games but in the state of mind he's in, it's not healthy.
My mother has severe bipolar and she's been that way for years now and for a long time, she has taken it out on everyone around her, but mostly my brother, who is now suffering for it. She's in and out of hospital alot for different reasons therefore my brother stays home by himself a lot.
He's not talking to me about it or anyone else. My sister refuses to do anything because the way she see's it, she offered him to stay with her and he said no so she can't do anything. She could at least go see him for a night or two since she only lives 2 hours away..
My boyfriend says not to push..that he'll come around eventually but until then, all we can do is let him know we're here for him when he's ready. And that's what professionals say on forums and whatnot.
I feel like history is repeating itself. I had a friend when I was in school, whom I hadn't known for long but for the time I did know him, we became friends. He was only 17 years old when he killed himself in 2009. Everyone let him be until he was ready to ask for help, they let him "come around" and so no one pushed but when he did ask for help, it was too late because so much damage had been done from waiting months to ask for that help. He saw no way out because he had waited too long and felt there was nothing anyone could do anymore...
My brother is my best friend, and I've tried to be there the best I can over the years given what's happened within our family and all the pain our mother has caused from blaming us for her bad life and verbally abusing us every day when we did nothing wrong. I miss my friend, and I think about him every day, and I can't bear to lose my brother. I've lost so many people in my life to death and other things and now for some reason, life is punishing my brother when he's such a good kid.
I know that whatever happens to mum, he will blame himself. And I keep expecting to hear that she's died, either from suicide or from a physical illness and I don't want her to die, i really dont but what she has done to my brother is so unforgivable. I feel so helpless to help him and I feel like If I do wait for him to come around, that it will be too late and I can't lose another person, especially him. I don't know what to do anymore...I'm so tired from crying every night worrying about getting a phone call from someone saying that something bad has happened to him. How can I help him? How can I make him see that he needs it because he does have reasons to live and people who love him? He won't listen anymore. I don't even know who he is anymore.. (link)
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D: I don't know at all.. I really don't. Maybe you should just do what you've been doing all along, loving him, playing games with him, etc... I have an older sister who was bullied by my mum for 26 years - since she was born, and she went through severe post-natal depression when everyone in the family (and that's a lot of people) told her that she was a bad person and that she was wrong and that the baby would die. She couldn't even get out of bed for days and days on end. I know it's not the same as bipolar disorder, but it's a start. Maybe you should just support him. I know my sister only got through because her boyfriend looked after her. Also, don't scold your brother if he tries to hurt himself, with blades, for example. Sometimes, cutting is actually good for you. It's a form of release of all of your pain in a tiny pinprick, washing out of you in a clean cut. Just make sure that if he only tries this (which he may not), that he only uses sterilised blades and only cuts in places, such as the thighs, where it is very fleshy, with not a lot of major veins - and not to cut too deep!!!! Mind you, if he tries another form of self-abusive activity to stop being upset, try to help him treat himself to get better, rather than end himself.
And remind him that a life lived in waiting for what never comes is far better than a life content in the knowledge of what is certain never to be. He may believe that there's not hope for himself or his mum (and family for that matter), and so you have to remind him that something good will come out of it.
Also, be ready for a lot of sarcasm, tears, and yells. Everyone's going to be a little twitchy for a few years.
I have another reccomendation - show him and your mum Emilie Autumn's music. She has bipolar disorder, too, and has some amazing music, which really does show what it feels like. Partucularly "Manic Depression", "A Cure", and "On a Day". They really are very good at making someone FEEL something, especially if they've been empty for a while.Also, she'll be a good example of someone who cas come out of bipolar disorder and turned all her pain into something glorious.
Help him do that.
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Ok so a few hours ago me and my friend were in her haunted room and I decided to do the old wigi (ouiji) board thing to contact with the ghost. So I asked it all the normal questions like where it was from (it ended up saying "here") and then we got to the weird answers like for the question "are you good or evil" we got the answer "euhrd good" and my friend asked it how long it was living there and it said "huniq 3" ... what does these things mean... and by the way.. I don't ant to hear the whole lecture about not doing the wigi board cuz I heard it already. When me and my friend went downstairs we put a notebook on a table and left the room.. when we went back to get the notebook it ias on the floor with all the pages rippes out.. so we went up to her room and there. In plain sight. Was "help me" scratched into the wall right above her bed. It looked like it was scratched in by a dog. (Cuz you could just barely read it) so can anyone tell me the answers to my questions please?? (link)
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I can't quite tell if this is real, or if you're trolling. :D If it's not, you're a very descriptive and realistic liar. :P
However, if it's true, I don't have any sort of experience at all with ouji boards, but I've heard things from people who did:
Maybe it needs help getting back to... wherever spirits go to once they die. Did you send it back? Did you say goodbye to it and NOT take your hands off of the pointer-thing? If you did take your hands off, or if you didn't say goodbye, it may still be stuck in limbo, between this space and that.
Also, you said it said it was living here for "huniq 3", and I read that as 3 years. You also said the writing was probably written by a dog. I think it could have either been that or perhaps a small 3-year-old child. D': Personally, I think that whatever it is, it sounds scared, and only being 3 can't help either. Maybe try being friendly and hospitable in some way, like offering a seat on the couch beside you when you sit down, and maybe talking to it during the day, and setting a spare place at the table, so it doesn't get angry with you. (Sounds silly, but I suppose being nice to a potential friend who is not there is better than ignoring a potential threat who IS there). And maybe you should try to be hospitable to a person, not a dog, because the dog would be happy at the table, and the baby would be pissed off in a kennel, you see?
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ok so lol i am a college student. i go to community college and well there;s this boy, lets call him B. B and i met when he worked at this smoothie shop. i saw him at school a few weeks later, and i said oh hey i didn't know you go here and he was with his friend and he just looked at me and said haha obviously i go here hat's why i am standing here and he started calling me names like stupid and his friend was laughing and making fun of me too. well i saw him at the smoothie shop and i was like for your information i didn't know you go to hcc, and i said something else and he just smiled. well apparently the manager toldm e he fired him. so the other day i walk in class and then C walks in and i was like oh my god. and he kept staring at me. and smiling like he thought something was funny. i turned around and said what? stop looking at me. i don;t like him at all. i know i shouldn't have said anything because i embarrassed myself, since the girl that sits next to me was like what? and i apologized and told her i was talking to C. so yeah now im stuck with him and he's such a jerkhead. ugh i can't stand him. what should i do? (link)
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Try to talk with him more often, because then he might stop teasing you like this. :)
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I am really worried right now. I'm talking to a friend of my sister's and he seemed like a happy go lucky guy, making jokes. He's a little overweight, really funny, he stutters, but he's still awesome to be around. Well, I've been talking to him privately on facebook and he's talking about killing himself, saying he can't get the girl of his dream, he can't talk right, he's hated, he's reached everything he's capable of and whatnot. He's about 14 or 15. I'm getting worried because he keeps saying he's gonna do it and he's trying to decide which way to do it. I want to tell his mother, someone, ANYONE, but I think I'm the only one he's told and I don't want him to hate me for trying to help. I'm trying to contact his mother. Is this the best thing to do? (link)
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Talk him out of it, and be sure to remind him how licky he really is to have so many people who love him so much that they would try to save his life.
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I cant it anymore. Im 14 an i have had an oversized labia my entire life. realy no one gets it. Mine is huge. Not joking its the size of a golf ball. I cant swim because it looks wierd and i have to hide it between my legs in the dressing room.Not to mention it hurts when i go to sit down and accidently pinch it. I dont feal normal, I dont even feal like a girl because of it. Does anyone have this problem as bad as i do? or is it just me? (link)
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Ugh, same here - I'm 15. It drives me nuts. >.< I have it just as bad as you do. It makes me really, realy scared of sex, too, because I feel sort of deformed.
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I am an 18 year old male and I have been a pretty emotionally dead person for...well since my early childhood. And when I say dead I don't mean depressed or really down or anything of that nature. It's nearly impossible for me to feel anything genuine and I can only put a mask of fakeness on so I don't seem so far out. When I was in a psychology class I read about something called anti-social personality disorder and it almost disturbed me how similar the symptoms were to my own character. I've done enough to put myself away for the better half of my life and I haven't felt a shred of remorse or conscience. Anyways, I'm wondering if my lack of emotion is a cause of concern. Nothing brings me joy, pain, or sorrow and I can't even feel love for my own family anymore. NOTHING will make me feel anything and it bothers me. All I feel like is a body and a brain without a soul. Something is wrong with me but I don't know what. I'm a very intelligent person and all it seems I can do is succeed with material things like work while my relationships are built on false pretenses and emotions I never even felt but acted like I did. My question is: If there is anybody somewhat educated about this...what could be wrong with me? Do I have anti-social personality disorder?...and am I stuck with this? (link)
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I am 15 years old, I'm female, and I behave like this.
I also have behaved like this pretty much from birth.
I feel emotions sort of hazily, like they're not really there. I don't mean that I ACT like a sloth, moping around all day - I act normal enough, but I can sort of feel a sort of touch of emotion, but they never really "grip" me.
I don't care much about my family or friends. I can pay attention to them while they're with me, and I can laugh and joke, and play around with them, but once I'm alone, I find myself really and truly alone. I realise that I don't really love people the way I should. Fuck, even at my own grandfather's funeral, I cried because everyone else was - not as an outlet for emotion.
I spend a lot of time by myself, reading, playing/listening to music, drawing, etc.... I don't spend a lot of time with others. I find I don't really want to spend time with real people. I like making up characters, or borrowing them from books or poems, etc... so that I can spend my life with them instead. I always thought that this was just selfishness because I'm shutting myself away from everyone else, so I can play around with my "real" friends, where I am happy (for the moment, anyway). I spend a lot of my time daydreaming, too. I perform mindless tasks, like playing single-player card games over and over or lying in bed at night until very late, as I think about all the wonderful adventures I really should be having. I suppose it's never hard to get me to go to bed early - I'm always so eager. I have such lucky parents. ;P
Anyway, about this "issue", I think this could be a big problem in my life, because I am very intelligent, on a variety of levels, and I have been told by family, friends, and teachers that I have great potential when I leave school, but this never really hits me. I KNOW I can do well, but I just don't believe it. (Knowing and believing are two different things entirely). The same goes for my artwork and musical achievements. I have no Idea what to do with myself once I'm out of the shelter of school, because I love music and art more than anything or anyone else (no great feat, mind you), and I'd like to share my own music for a living. Unfortunately, I know that music is purely the language of the soul, cheesy as it sounds, and that it is meant to carry ideas, thoughts, and emotions. If this is the case (and I believe it is), how can I create music? Because of this major insecurity in my future, I'd like to know, do you think the same way at all? Do you ever have your doubts about your future?
*raises hand* I've got a silly question, albeit, it's a genuine question:
I was wondering, do you do this? I think it may be related to our circumstances: Do you just KNOW at a certain event that you're going to remember that moment for the rest of your life? I don't mean like a wedding or a birthday, exactly, but when you suddenly realise something, for example, and you feel a real jolt of emotion for a minute. I do this, and it worries me sometimes, because something truly unimportant makes it's way into my long-term memory. Really, what have I been doing all my life if unimportant matters become my only real memories?
I think I realised I couldn't feel emotions fully when I first started primary school. I was always teased for reasons I still don't understand, but I never felt the pain of being a bullied child. I don't ever remember thinking about the bullying anywhere at home, but I remember being bullied at school. I remember spending hours wishing I was one of the popular girls at school, because I thought they lived blessed lives. Now I'm still wishing to be someone else, just on a greater scale. I suppose the great thing about being a robot is that I can make sound judgement and form my own ideas, beliefs, and opinions, and not be afraid to fight to the death for them.
Oh, by the way, I think our problem needs a name. I'll be sure to christen it at some point with a wonderfully amazing name. :D
Let's make crazy FUN!
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