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i dont feal normal anymore and i need advice or reasurance about my huge labia
I cant it anymore. Im 14 an i have had an oversized labia my entire life. realy no one gets it. Mine is huge. Not joking its the size of a golf ball. I cant swim because it looks wierd and i have to hide it between my legs in the dressing room.Not to mention it hurts when i go to sit down and accidently pinch it. I dont feal normal, I dont even feal like a girl because of it. Does anyone have this problem as bad as i do? or is it just me?
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There has been a lot of girls writing of late about the size of their labia. I was about to tell you not to be concerned until I read the part of your labia causing you pain when you sit. This is not normal and requires medical attention.
You start by making an appointment with a gynecologist. As a 14 year old you can visit a doctor in complete privacy and confidentiality. This is the law. No doctor can tell your parents or anyone else what they have seen you for or treated you for without your permission. But, and there is always a but, should your doctor recommended surgical correction for this problem you will need parental permission as you are not old enough to consent to surgery. Sort of a hitch in the law.
My suggestion: You tell your mother what problem you are experiencing. While you may find it embarrassing to tell her about this your mother is also a women and has the same body parts as you do. She will understand your embarrassment and may find it a relief as she might not understand why you have not been doing some of the activities like swimming.
Ask your mother to make an appointment for you with her gynecologist and let her accompany you to the doctor. You can ask to see the doctor alone, although by law his nurse will be with you. Then you can have your mother join you for the consultation as to how and when to correct the problem.
I realize the problem is you have is painful to you. The corrective action, small out patient surgery itself will be painful for a few days as well. Once done and after a few days of rest the problem will have been corrected and you will in time forget it ever happened.
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Ugh, same here - I'm 15. It drives me nuts. >.< I have it just as bad as you do. It makes me really, realy scared of sex, too, because I feel sort of deformed.
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