Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 5:51 pm
ok so lol i am a college student. i go to community college and well there;s this boy, lets call him B. B and i met when he worked at this smoothie shop. i saw him at school a few weeks later, and i said oh hey i didn't know you go here and he was with his friend and he just looked at me and said haha obviously i go here hat's why i am standing here and he started calling me names like stupid and his friend was laughing and making fun of me too. well i saw him at the smoothie shop and i was like for your information i didn't know you go to hcc, and i said something else and he just smiled. well apparently the manager toldm e he fired him. so the other day i walk in class and then C walks in and i was like oh my god. and he kept staring at me. and smiling like he thought something was funny. i turned around and said what? stop looking at me. i don;t like him at all. i know i shouldn't have said anything because i embarrassed myself, since the girl that sits next to me was like what? and i apologized and told her i was talking to C. so yeah now im stuck with him and he's such a jerkhead. ugh i can't stand him. what should i do?
DearAbby92 answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 11:33 pm: To me it just sounds like he's another one of those cocky guys who might tease or mess with other people for enjoyment.
I would simply ignore him. Don't let him know he's getting to you. Mind your own business and if he tries to interact with you verbally, just keep the conversation short and act like you don't care. Don't have an attitude or anything, just act like you are chill and go with the flow.
If he smiles at you in the hallway just smile back and keep on your way.
I'm sure this will blow over soon and he'll find someone else to talk to.
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