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I love my bestfriend
Im gay and 19 now and I met him at 12 , I didnt realize that I love him he just came onto my life first time we talked and never separated,Hes a straight guy , his porno is straght , what he says is straight lol but the ways he acts with me makes me think thas hes not, sometimes he touches me a little to much and once he tried to kiss me but now things appear to be different , he thinks that im gay and he still touches me...closer to me legs on me (weird I know) now hes lost in hes video games and Im tired that he doesnt show much importance to me( other subject)We got many projects. IM always after him but now it hursts to much and I dont know if I should forget him even if there no one I love more
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Hello ... I read your question, I happen to have a lil back ground experience .. I'm a lesbian who did have the same problems ... I was madly in love with some girl in my high school , she was just Like this guy is with you.. I was so confused about this girl .. One day I finally asked her out to a club in West Hollywood , she said yes and she made out with me that night ...
Take him to a please you know is a gay cafe or gay restaurant something of that sort .. See how he acts around that inveorment ..
I your in LA I'll give you a couple of good ideas of where to go ..
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To start off, does he know that your gay? If he does than he shouldn't touch you in those ways, if he doesn't feel that way. Some guys are real close to there friends, but not usually that close. My boy friend and his friends call each other babe, but that's it. No touchy feely stuff or anything, so I think perhaps he does have feelings like that towards you but he doesn't want to act on them, because he's scared of what people will think, or you think?
Which I think he shouldn't be scared, if he does feel that way towards you. No one should judge anyones sexual orientation. :3 I don't think you should forget someone that you love and care about so much, tell him hoenestly what your feelings are, if he doesn't feel the same way its alright, there are others that you can be with. Tell him in a way thats suttle, so he won't freak out. Tell him you don't want anything to change between you guys, you don't want to lose his friendship. I wish you good luck >.<
Love,
Emily <3
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