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fighting for love
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 3:08 pm
when do you stop fighting for love? not fighting like yelling, but trying to make things work out. we're still very much in love, but were in a difficult situation. this has been going on for months. things have been really bad, but i'm not sure i want to give up on us. when do you give up on love? is it when you forget what youre fighting for? thanks
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my boyfriend is away at basic and i messed up before he left
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 2:04 pm
Ok so I've been with this guy for about 6 months we met online and we believe we were meant to be together he lived 3 hours away before going to basic I was kinda talking to a frirnd of mine but NOTHING happened my friend was just trying then he did something horrible to me my boyfriend found out he said he still loves me I'm just scared we wont make it and its all.my fault
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He's so sweet to me and I love him but I just don't feel the way I felt about my ex.
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 1:24 pm
I dated a guy when I was 16. We dated for 2 years breaking up once and then getting back together. He was my first for everything (bf, kiss, make-out, sex) and no doubt I was absolutely in love with him. I had a rebound boyfriend a few months after (which only lasted like 3 months) and then was single for about a year because I knew I had to be. I'm now almost 20 and in a relationship and its been about 6 months and I love this guy but in a different way than I did my ex. He's so sweet to me and I love him but I just don't feel the way I felt about my ex. I wanted to know is there a different feeling you get from your first then the rest of your boyfriends? I love the relationship I'm in now but I don't want to be unfair if something import...
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My crush: How will I ask him out? Will he laugh at me if I do?
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 12:02 pm
I fell in love with my best friend (who is a boy) 2 weeks ago. How will I ask him out? Will he laugh at me if I do?
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Will our relationship work?
Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 11:16 am
Hi(male and gay,26),well I'm a self-confident 26 year old gay boy,I'm very happy with who I am and the way I am as well,I have a boyfriend,even though he says to love me with all his heart,he hasn't presented me to any of his relations yet and we've been dating for over two years now,I'm like his secret relationship,nobody who knows him knows anything about me,not even a cousin of his,what can I do?Because I know for a fact that he really loves me and so do I,but I would like a true relationship,I mean I'm not a criminal,I'd like to adopt children in the future,to live in our very own house and even to get married one day,but he keeps saying that those are privileges that are meant to be for straight relationships,I know I should dump him,b...
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Akaward around him
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 10:22 pm
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years and we both really love eachother. But i just got a cast and im on my period so i feel really akaward around him. I am going to the movies with him tomorrow with him and my other friend but im scared im going to feel very akaward around him. Also my mom dosent know we are "boyfriend and girlfriend". Please help!
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Playful sex life
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 7:26 pm
My boyfriend and I have been in a three year old relationship, and we have been sexually active for two years.
Our sex life is very good and often playful.
However, every now and then my boyfriend is in the mood of me being in control of him and being more "bossy". I'm up for it, but I always feel like I'm not sure how to be on top and in control.
What are some moves I could use besides pinning his arms up, and not letting him touch me the way he would like to?
Any suggestions would be appreciated :)
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Partner refuses to be romantic. He stopped 'Fighting'
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 5:36 pm
I have been with my boyfriend since a year and 3 months. Why our relationship tends to be difficult at times, is the distance between us, seeing as we skype everyday, with 10, 000 km between us (and a 3 and a half hour difference).
I love the boy very dearly and am very vocal about it. Unfortunately, he isn't. Often times, I feel like I need to hear compliments or sweet words to feel loved and to be able to go to sleep happily. I know relationships don't revolve only around that, but fact is, that IS all we have. Well, except for jokes, understanding and all the basic stuff (that don't get me wrong, I treasure dearly). But as a girl with past relationships (and a broken heart), I know what I want from a man. And HE DOESN'T UN...
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what if he lied to me??
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 4:43 pm
this guy i met is really sweet and started telling me sweet stuff and it made me fall in love wit him he said he loved me and i was his only one but the problem is that in facebook hes in a relationship how do i react or do(should i tell him face to face why he lied to me)...
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list of tips on how to play hard to get
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 4:31 pm
Please could someone right me a list of tips on how to play hard to get because i seem to fail at theses simple games, i want him to want me and noboady eles on the day im around him with a group of friends, thanks :)xxxx
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Boyfriend issues: How do I ask my ex if there is a possibility of us getting back together in the future?
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 11:38 am
I really want to ask this guy if there is any chance of us getting back togther in the future if its a possability but i dont know how to say it?
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He said I should come back on a day he was working, then told me what days he works... What does it mean?
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 2:10 am
So there's this guy from my geography class who works at the UPS store, and I went there because I had to send a package to my brother and send some other mail. Well I had to go back there because I wasn't sure if they had sent the letters. So anyways I was talking to him, and I told him I needed to send another package (my brother's birthday present) and he told me to come on Monday, Wednesday, or Friday because those are the days that he works. Does that mean he likes me? Or am I just delusional, because I feel like I am being a delusional, and I don't want to get my hopes up too high. But whenever he said to come when he's working he just stared at me and smiled. It was really sweet. So what do you think? Thanks.
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Is there a fast way to get over someone...?
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 10:42 pm
Hi, my name's Sarah. After my freshman year in high school, my family and I had to move to a new school. I'm in band, and near the end of August, there's always band camp, where you spend all day for a week at the school to learn a half-time show. WELL, when I arrived, a boy caught my eye... (Let's call him Jack). I play trumpet, and he was in my section. He only interested me at first because he was so quiet and mysterious, and reaaally good looking. Incredibly thick, curly hair and mature eyes... ANYWAY, I was going to be a sophomore, and I could have SWORN he was at least a year older than me. Come to find out a few days later that he's actually a freshman, and he's 11 months younger than me. After a while, school started and I made frie...
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I should be happy? But I'm not?
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 10:39 pm
21/F
Recently my ex of 4 years and I started talking again, although we had a lot of problems (cheating (him not me), jealousy, fighting (verbally), trust issues on/off breaking up to date previous exes (again him not me)) in the past we both have discussed in order for us to try again we both have to accept the past and keep moving forward and take it one day at a time. sounds good right? Wrong. The day we started really talking through it I couldn't be happier, I never wanted that moment to end because I felt like he actually cared. We broke up a year ago and I've dated other people but I never felt as happy as I do when I'm with him, he's honest to god the love of my life. Well the day after (today) we discussed all that he text ...
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Have mixed feeling about many different boys. most are my bestfriends.
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 7:45 pm
Im 14 and i dont know whats going on with me. My 8th grade dance is coming up and i have mixed feeling for so many boys.Two of them are my bestfriends and i completely dont wanna lose them. Usually i just get over them i think since im foreign theres no way guys will like me and that im ugly but i know thats not true. Plus im not allowed to have a boyfriend anyways. What should i do? Need some advice.
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Ex & best friend
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 7:42 pm
18/f
Basically speaking me and my ex had not so great a relationship for the past two years. no, he is not my first boyfriend. weve been broken up for technically a year, but we still texted and talked everyday. he was fooling around with girls while i was crying over him every night. i basically just got fed up with everything and i had sex with one of my best guy friends. (first person ive done anything with since my ex) i told my ex what happend and he freaked out on me, even though he was messing around with other girls it was okay.. cough hypocrite. anyways hes like i can see you as my future wife blablabla. but i just dont feel the effort from him. my best friend is in love with me, we have the same interests and hang out all t...
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When you catch a guy looking at you?
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 5:11 pm
Ok so theres this guy in my class that i think likes me. There's this one incidence were i was talking to friends and i saw him look at me. When he comes into class theres a garbage not to far away from me but its not infront of me its on the other side of the room and he walks infront of me to the garbage and when i was talking to my friend he was looking at me and then walked away but he doesnt do this all the time. It's rarely.
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Having a friend in benefit
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 4:18 pm
I met this guy 2 years ago, take him as a friend and my boss so one day he was suppose to go to the funeral at Mefikeng so he asked me to go with him then I told him that it was a short notice next time if he wants me to go with him he must tell me on time he agreed,when I say this I did know that he had a thing for me until the other day I was about to knock off then he ask for a hug then I gave it to him, the next thing he asked me to come and see him in his office more than once the third time we ended up having sex in his desk. After all this we agreed to keep it a secret after a few weeks we did it again and also agreed to keep it as a secret but inside us the was a thing growing between us now we love each other and not at the same co...
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Try going out, carry on or move on?
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 2:43 pm
I'm female and 16.
I'm sort of seeing this guy at the moment. It's been going on for a month or so (though we've been pretty close since around last Summer, more over facebook and text than in person, but since about a month and a half ago we've been seeing eachother a lot in person.) we've had sex and that, we were thinking of doing the whole 'friends with benefits', but - considering we've both admitted we like eachother - there's no point.
But yeah, the problem is, there's barely any point us going out as -
1. He's in 6th year and will be leaving school soon.
2. He's going to Magaluf with the lads and both of us would rather he was single for it - it's a holiday in Maga, I'd wanna be single for it aswe...
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I am so confused plz help !!!
Posted Thursday March 29 2012, 12:38 pm
Hi I am 16 years old.
It so happens that in my math tutions there was this guy who I really liked so I became friends with him quickly and when school reopened after summer holidays I came to know that my enemy no. 1 is his childhood friend. So since she hates me she spreads rumours that I am dating him and all. So because in my dream land I wanted tht to happen, when ppl asked me if its true I said YES. and I lied alot. Then after many problems I finally told him the truth but he replied by saying he understood it and doesnt want to discuss the issu. so now he isnt my friend at all. I see him everyday as we r in the same college, my friends say that he looks at me whenevr I am looking away. Why does he do that if he doesnt want to ...
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