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How long to wait before asking a girl to be your girlfriend?
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 3:28 pm
So when is the right time to ask a girl to be your girlfriend? I'v been friends with this girl for a couple of months now - we went out to the movies about 4 times, we text occasionally, chat on Facebook etc. She obviously likes to hang out with me but I'm not sure if her intentions are purely friendly or I might have a shot. Anyway... On one hand, I hear people say you must NEVER get into the "friend zone" because you're never getting out of it; on the other hand, a friend of mine told me it takes TIME for a woman to grow attached to a man, meaning that being friends first is somewhat necessary. So should I wait for a couple of months more or go for it? I don't wanna blow it by asking her to soon, and I don't wanna wait too long ...
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Getting dumped by first love
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 12:44 pm
I'm a 17 year old senior in high school. I have been with this girl for a year, about 4 months younger than me. First when I met her I wasn't really intersted but after talking to her a little I found out that she was the girl I had always dreamed about. Funny , charming, caring and pretty. I asked her out and everything went well until she broke up with me because of loosing her feeling for me. On her first break up attempt I couldn't control myself and ended up begging her to stay with me. That made us last one more week but I finally accepted it on her second attempt.
After that for a few days I started ignoring her, havin a terrible time getting over her. And that ended by her calling me and telling me how she regretted it and mi...
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what would you do if this was you?
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 4:49 am
i will start right from the beging.:/
i know this girl who i went to primary school, danielle got in contact with me and we decided to meet up as i havnt seen her in ages. well i meet all her friends and that when i meet carlton. he is an amazing wonderful kind boy. well anyone we had such a good time we all meet again. we went to the beach this time tho and we kicking sand at each other just playing around just me and him. but my mum rang and wanted me home blah blah... so i went on facebook and we were talking all the time this went on for about 4-5 weeks we used to stay up till 3 in the morning just talking but then i would fall asleep at 3:L but anyway. i was going to scotland for 3 weeks my dad lives up there and he was getting ...
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does he still want me?
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 4:06 am
Sorry for the length in advance. I'm 16/f and over the past few months I keep catching my ex boyfriend looking at me. when we walk past eachother we always have awkward eye contact and when I walk into a class he always looks up really quickly, realises its me then and realises I'm looking at him, then looks down again. We did have a 'thing' going on some months before but he stopped talking to me. He always used to text me first and when he stopped I didn't text him because I thought he'd gone off me. Then a few months later he tweeted that he hates texting girls first because it makes him feel unwanted and I wondered if that's what he felt with me or whether he did actually want to stop talking to me? If he doesnt want to talk to me anymo...
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A boy: i dont know how to get his interest back at me.
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 1:41 am
So i met this boy and he was really into me and talking to me and everything was good. We lasted like a week texting each other and personally i didn't feel like we really connected he was always the one to text me first but he didn't asked me any questions or anything it was really confusing. But that just let me know that he was into me but shy when we talked i dont knoww. Suddenly he stopped talking to me with no reason. After a week its like he got over it. And i know he finds me pretty im sure about that but i dont know how to get his interest back at me.
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he said I was below his standards?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 8:31 pm
should I ignore this man going forward? he sent me a text which stated " Too bad that I don't meetup to his standards Now I feel terribly hurt & used
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Is it normal to want a boyfriend with dreadlocks and tattoos, etc?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 6:16 pm
Is it normal to want a boyfriend with dreadlocks and tattoos that goes surfing and what not?! My sister said she'd be embarrassed if I brought back a boy who looked like that :/ I thought it might be something to do with the fact that all the boys at my school are so flippin mainstream -.-
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My boyfriends best friend tries to flirt with me...?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 4:00 pm
my boyfriends best friend tries to come close to me..he said he likes me, but he behaves very innocent in front of my boyfriend....... my boyfriend trusts him a lot. If I tell my boyfriend I think it would start drama between them & maybe me. Should I tell him?
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how can i ask him an awkward question?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 3:37 pm
A few months ago I had a 'thing' going on with my ex boyfriend, he text me first every single night and we always used to exchange looks when we saw each other, after weeks of persuasion off him I sent him a picture of myself because I knew I could trust him (if you know what I mean) and shortly after that I became really paranoid. We stopped talking and he was still trustworthy but I don't know if he still has the photo and I don't know how to ask him because it will be really awkward.. any advice? Just so people know I'd never do anything like this normally, I'm not that type of girl.
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Hard for us to have sex, due to my "size"?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 2:22 pm
Hey there. 17-year-old female, who is currently dating the most amazing guy she has ever met. After a few months of dating, we had finally decided to have sex for the first time. He had already lost his virginity a while ago, but I was brand-spanking new to pretty much everything. He eased me comfortably through foreplay and some fingering, which hurt a bit at first, but I eventually adjusted to. Then he finally decided to push inside for the first time.
The pain was unbelievably excruciating, and it completely caught me off guard. I knew the first time was going to hurt, so I told myself I would power through it, but after a few more thrusts, I had to quit. He understood and backed off, and we spent the rest of the night doi...
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Preferred : Adults answer only
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 10:04 am
I'm a rather shy girl when it comes to stating how I feel or what I want. For a while now, I have been interested in bondage... Checking hentai sites and the like about it. There have been several occasions that I have attempted to tell my boyfriend that I would like to try it, as I have never before. I would very much like to, it's just, any time I try to bring it up to him, I get horribly shy or embarrassed and cannot bring it up.What should I do to either get over it, or are there ways of hinting to him that would be very clear that I'd like to try this?
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I can't deal with it anymore...
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 12:04 am
Everyday I go to the mall.
I see couples walk by, holding hands or kissing.
I don't like to see people happy like that
I want to be happy like that...:(
I love this guy... Like, LOVE love. I don't want to tell him that, though. Or I don't want to ask him out. That's the guy's job! Any advice on what to do? I've loved him for FIVE STRAIGHT YEARS.
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How to give specific compliments about a man's body?
Posted Thursday April 5 2012, 10:21 pm
So my boyfriend, like most men, enjoys hearing compliments from me, especially about his body. However, I'm not the best at giving compliments..I'm just really bad at saying what I think. Or, for instance I say, "I really like your stomach" or "I really like your chest/arms," he'll then ask, "why?" And that's when I don't know what to say. I know why I like them, and I don't know exactly how to be more specific about why I like his stomach/chest/etc. He gets a little hurt sometimes that I cant say why I like them, which I understand. How would you even describe what you like about them? He's in great shape, but he's not overly muscular, so if I said something along those lines I know he'd think I was ly...
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R u kidding me? I gave him everything!
Posted Thursday April 5 2012, 8:30 pm
I gave everything for this guy and what does he do? He likes my best friend. In september, this guy started talking to me 24/7 about my bestie that he liked. I gave him advice about it. Slowly, me and this guy became really good friends. Then, I got a boyfriend. The guy told me that he liked me and we hung out one time in March. My boyfriend freaked out about me and the guy hanging out. =/ Anyways, when me and the guy hung out, he kissed me. I didnt know what to do because I was stunned. I broke up with my boyfriend because I decided it wasnt fair to him. At the end of March, the guy whom I became good friends with became my boyfriend. We get into fights but always make things better. I got really bored today and hacked his facebook account...
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he danced his way into my heart.
Posted Thursday April 5 2012, 7:45 pm
okay. so i like this kid, and he's a junior in high school and i'm a sophomore. this kid has known i've liked him for 4 years now. but were complete opposites. BUT, we have lunch together and he looks at me all the time. and all his friends know that i like him, oh and btw he's a "tool" so you can just imagine the way he acts around his friends. so yeah. anyways in our school we do a "dancing" unit in gym. and we do couples dancing. and i decided to go dance in his gym class. and i had to dance with him 3 times. OMFG BEST DAY OF MY LIFE. and we looked at each other and of course it was well awkward. so while i was dancing with him all of his friends were giving him thumbs up and doing sexual faces and saying "get i...
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my new boyfriend likes my best friend
Posted Thursday April 5 2012, 7:24 pm
Wow, okay so I have alot to say! Ok so I broke up with my old boyfriend because I felt the relationshup wasnt really going anywhere and so I told him I only wanted to be friends. Now, I have a new boyfriend and he is amazing! I love him so much! We hangout really offen at lunch and inbetween classes. Online, we get into fights though but we always find a way to get through them. I could never live without him and he has told me that without me his life would be incomplete. We recently got into a fight that almost cost our relationship. =/ Worst thing ever! We got through it though but now he says that he likes my best friend a tiny bit. I told him it was okay because I love him more than anything and I know most people would be mad but Im s...
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im lost and need help
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 10:27 pm
Ok so I have a boyfriend but I still hqng out with my baby daddy I wanted ryan (baby daddy) until he started fighting with me like physically fighting I still love him but I don't know if its health and I have michael (boyfriend) who really loves me and I have very strong feeling for him what should I do?
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Guy who always makes sexual innuendos
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 4:31 pm
So one of my coworkers is really witty and funny. I thought he was showing interest in me lately, due to body language, eye contact etc as well as making many lighthearted innuendos towards me. I brushed this off thinking it was just kinda of funny.
But yesterday I found out that he says these things to a lot of other girls at work. my question is, what is the point of it exactly? just keep making sexual jokes and hopefully a girl will actually reciprocate with sex? Or is it a poor flirting tool?
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im so embarassed
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 4:14 pm
so i posted a question here before about whether or not this guy likes me. he works at UPS and was in my geography class. well anyways he wanted me to come see him on the days that he working because i needed to send out my brother's birthday present. Well i went in and he wasn't there. I found out he hadn't come in yet, because i had casually asked. And then another employee was like yeah he'll be here in an hr, and the guy that was helping me started laughing, and I was like uh okay? and the guy that said that was like well he helped you last time you were here. and i was like oh im not going to wait on him that would be weird, since I had already been taken care of. I felt weird and i said oh i m just here to deliver my package. and the ...
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secret Lover
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 3:37 pm
Me and my boyfriend are dating eachother for 11yers now got engaged 3years ago.. Stil dnt have a date to get married... 5 years ago I fell deeply inlove whit a colleag of mine who use to work with me nd we still seeing each other can't have enough of each other we bouth are deeply in love but our relationships are complicated can't seem to brake up wit my boy friend after 11years... Nd nw His Gf is pregnant...my fiance kanda irritates me now nd I'm not enjoying myself having sex with him... Wot do I do? I want to be with the other one bt we can't be together its to complicated... I love hime more than my boyfriend but his expecting a baby soon I can't take him away from that an he won't either... I also got pregnant of him but went for abor...
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