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what would you do if this was you?
i will start right from the beging.:/
i know this girl who i went to primary school, danielle got in contact with me and we decided to meet up as i havnt seen her in ages. well i meet all her friends and that when i meet carlton. he is an amazing wonderful kind boy. well anyone we had such a good time we all meet again. we went to the beach this time tho and we kicking sand at each other just playing around just me and him. but my mum rang and wanted me home blah blah... so i went on facebook and we were talking all the time this went on for about 4-5 weeks we used to stay up till 3 in the morning just talking but then i would fall asleep at 3:L but anyway. i was going to scotland for 3 weeks my dad lives up there and he was getting married so i had to go. so it was the night before i left and it was about 12 and al his mate were asking me to go up to his and spend my last night with him as he wont get to see me but i said no, in mind it was like 1 in the morning anyway it got to 3 and i fell asleep and woke up with about 10 messages from him saying please wake up i want to ask you summin...so i texted him asking what and he wouldnt tell me so i got to the air port and he then text me saying will you be my girlfriend blah blah and i said yes. so i was in scotland texting every second wouldnt put my phone down..so when i got back from there i said hello to my mum and me and my mate went to go see him..and it was really akward and first but we got over it and we went to hes with everyone...and watched a movie..we have our first kiss and mine. so over the next month he came to meet my family came to family things with me and we told each other we not gunna say i love you till we mean it. and we had lucy and hes best mate liam around they were playing fighting on the floor and we were going the same on the bed.. but he whispered i love you in my ear...i could do anything i was in shock but i kissed him and thats when i realised i loved him too. so i said it back..and i lost my v with him he alreaddy lost his to a girl before me but there were two other girl before me one of them is now dating his friend...the other he was with a year. she cheat on him with danielle boyfriend. thats when they broke up and 4 months after he met me. they didnt really talk..but as soon as he got with me nicole started telling him she still loves him and wnats him back so after about 4 months he broke up with me. and got back with nicole after i think wat was 3 weeks after we broken up..i didnt eat:/ sleeep:/ or get out if my bed:/ hardly wents to school:/ but they been going out for aboout 2 months and we started talking again..he been telling me that she doesnt make him happy anymore she treats him like a bit of dust on her shoes..he says he feels invisible, she annoys him and she lies alot to him but he loves her:/ and then he came to my house the other night he seds "he was in the neighbourhood so he thought he pop round to see everyone" he lives on the other side of town:/ so a week after of talking ( he also broke up with her within a week of us talking again) i told him that my feeling never went and that i still love him but he hasnt told me anything nicole has gone away for a week and she is back tonight he told me to see what happens tonight as he doesnt know if there togther or not and he wants to find out so he can sort this mess out but as soon as there are toghter which they will be..i am out of the window again, it feel as if he picking her over me. which he is.. and its annoying he messages my mum and stepdad on facebook to see how everyone is..as he was really close to my family..he says he misses everyone including me..but i just dont know what do to..i cant go a day without thinking about him even when we werent toghter...but i feel like my heart has been ribed out of my body. i know you probly get this all the time but i am 15..16 in may and i feel like this has been the most hardest time in my life i dont know what i have done to get this:/ so if anyone has a comment please do i need all the help i can get right now:( btw alot more has happend than that^^ this is like a really really short toke of it all. all happends like over a year.
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This guy will not make you happy because he will never truly love you, no matter how much you want him to. I'm sorry that you had to go through your first love heart break so early but you wont feel so crappy forever (unless you don't do anything about it and keep trying to be with him).
You need to move on; go to school, be with your friends, and do what you can to keep yourself busy. All this is so that you'll meet someone that will love you and show you how special and amazing you are to them.
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Hey there,
Okay this was really hard to comprehend and very unclear and all over the place but I'll do my best to answer.
It seems like this guy doesn't know what he wants.
He is going back and forward between you and this other girl while toying with your feelings and emotions in the meantime.
As soon as this Nicole girl showed any interest in him he dumped you without a second thought. What's to say he won't do that in the future?
You deserve better than that. Don't set yourself up for a fall.
I know it's hard right now because you have unresolved feelings for him but you have to be strong.
trust me this guy is a player. He tells you all the right things makes you fall hook line and sinker for you then he ditches you.
and the worst thing is he knows you will be there waiting if he ever feels like running back to you.
Don't give him the satisfaction. Don't wait around while he goes from one girl to the next.
You are only 15 I know it may seem like hes the only guy you'll ever love but trust me he's not.
There are plenty more respectable guys out there who won't treat you like this.
Cut yourself off from this guy. Tell him to stop talking to your family if he's gonna treat you that way.
Keep yourself busy surround yourself with friends immerse yourself in hobbies and in time you will soon forget about him.
trust me its best.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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