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how can i ask him an awkward question?
A few months ago I had a 'thing' going on with my ex boyfriend, he text me first every single night and we always used to exchange looks when we saw each other, after weeks of persuasion off him I sent him a picture of myself because I knew I could trust him (if you know what I mean) and shortly after that I became really paranoid. We stopped talking and he was still trustworthy but I don't know if he still has the photo and I don't know how to ask him because it will be really awkward.. any advice? Just so people know I'd never do anything like this normally, I'm not that type of girl.
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okay listen never send nude pictures of yourself. i have done it, to who i thought i could trust and the picture wound up on facebook. everybody saw it. do not send them, i had sent it in about march in 2011, and it got onto facebook in november or 2011. when he told me that the picture was deleted, it wasnt. also, i almost lost someone i really care about over a different nudity picture. just never send one again.
but honestly theres not much you can do. i have been in your position before but worse. you just have to see what happens. if you can hangout with, and try to go through his pictures, if u dont see it he might not have it, if u see it, delete it. or ask him. just say it, "hey..i was wondering if you still had that picture of me that i sent to you."
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As hard as this is going to be you NEED to tell your parents or an adult IMMEDIATELY what you did and how you know you bleeped up by doing it.
One should NEVER send racy photos or ones containing nudity especially to anyone as once they've got it they can spread it.
The other thing is that it's consider child pornography and illegal and can get both of you in trouble for possessing or sending it. You have to tell an adult about this icky situation so they can approach his family and have it destroyed or stop distribution to anyone.
You may not be the type to do this but you did it and have learned from it. You have to let an adult fix this for you so no further problems arise.
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