Me and my boyfriend are dating eachother for 11yers now got engaged 3years ago.. Stil dnt have a date to get married... 5 years ago I fell deeply inlove whit a colleag of mine who use to work with me nd we still seeing each other can't have enough of each other we bouth are deeply in love but our relationships are complicated can't seem to brake up wit my boy friend after 11years... Nd nw His Gf is pregnant...my fiance kanda irritates me now nd I'm not enjoying myself having sex with him... Wot do I do? I want to be with the other one bt we can't be together its to complicated... I love hime more than my boyfriend but his expecting a baby soon I can't take him away from that an he won't either... I also got pregnant of him but went for abortion and he didn't no just told him that I lost the baby...I love this man so much I don't no what to do? Advise please?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mercury answered Wednesday April 4 2012, 8:48 pm: This is a terrible thing that's happening to you,how come you could carry on with someone who you do not love for 11 years?!In my humblest opinion,it's a bit late now,the two of you should've considered what to do a long time ago.Now,this guy,the one you love is expecting a child,but from another woman,so try to sort things out,and try not to brake off a family,bc children suffer a great deal bc of situations of this nature,the same thing happened with my mum and I could never forgive her. [ mercury's advice column | Ask mercury A Question ]
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