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Guy who always makes sexual innuendos
So one of my coworkers is really witty and funny. I thought he was showing interest in me lately, due to body language, eye contact etc as well as making many lighthearted innuendos towards me. I brushed this off thinking it was just kinda of funny.
But yesterday I found out that he says these things to a lot of other girls at work. my question is, what is the point of it exactly? just keep making sexual jokes and hopefully a girl will actually reciprocate with sex? Or is it a poor flirting tool?
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Honestly, this dude just sounds like a creep. Making sexual jokes to girls if off-putting enough, but doing so at the workplace is totally unacceptable. I know you may have appreciated these remarks and seen them as flirting, but it's just a half-assed attempt at trying to seem cool and sexy. Find a guy who can win a girl over with confidence, not with crude humor.
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Sorry to hear that it wasn't just for you. It seems you are affected by that.
I wouldn't say it's a "poor" flirting tool cos it works on some people. Haha. And clearly it has gotten your attention since it's unusual, as it probably has with the other girls.
Does your coworker express the same body language and eye contact with the other girls at work?
Perhaps it is just the way he is, maybe sexual innuendos and jokes are 'his thing'. In my experience, a man usually only does that with female FRIENDS not just girls in general but not everyone is the same. (: I think he's more into making girls laugh than hoping one would reciprocate with sex.
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