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Forever so soon!?
Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 1:25 am
I'm 16/female.
There is this boy who likes me. We've been friends for 3 years and he's liked me for a good chunk of that time. There were times I liked him but it was never a good time to start dating. Recently, I rediscovered my feelings for him and we discussed it and agreed to give a relationship, dating, a try. He's a wonderful person but he's kind of clingy. He's already talking about being together "forever" and he says "don't leave me!" and we aren't even officially dating yet. I've had relationship issues before, being scared of them, and he knows this...and now I'm getting scared again. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him. He's so much more solid in his feelings for me than I am in my feelings for hi...
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Is he mad, jealous, or what?
Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 12:51 am
My ex always wanted me to go to his house. And he was tlakin about his new gf and he was like "oh, ____is coming over today." she never did, and i dont know if hes trying to make me jealous, or mad, or is hes trying to get over me. any suggestions?
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always searching..
Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 12:27 am
17f, i know i had my whole entire life to live, and im still really young, etc.. but i havent been even close to having a relationship in SO long.. im very good looking and smart, and have a great personality and respectful... i feel like every single time i walk out of my house to go anywhere, like the mall, gym, store, just anywhere, i always hope to meet someone.. when im just driving in my car, i always look around me to see if they are any cute guys in their cars next to mine, etc.. I try not to and I hate it because the thought of meeting someone is always in my head, and i DONT want it to be, i want to meet someone when i least expect to.. any tipz on how to get this out of my mind so much? thanks =]
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Boyfriend problems
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:01 pm
Ok..So i am 16 years old and i have never had a serious relationship...I have been sexually active with guys but i am still a virgin....I tend to get attached to guys very easily and when i get them i get scared and i break away letting go a guy that cood possibly be someone who i cood date for awhile....am i scared or and i just doing this whole dating thing wrong? Ne advice?
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Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:43 pm
I dont want to make out with my boyfriend but everytime i want to kiss him he trys to stick his tounge in my mouth. it kinda grosses me out. but lately ive been wanting to kiss him. how can i tell him i just want to kiss him but not make out?
CiArA
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childhood love
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:36 pm
It's those kind of things you only hear about in movies.. I've always been gah gah about my neighbor(who i've known since i was three) named Jared. He gave me my first kiss and he's leaving high school this yr. Which im gonna break down when he's gone! I've told him before i care about him, and he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship, some peole i know think were going to get married after college but the way its going i just can't see it! i mean i would anyday lose my virginity to him, thats how strong my love is for him. (i'm a type a girl who's waiting for marriage usually) Is there ANYTHING i could do to make him see he cares too? Cuz i know he does. Or am i just suppose to let go... plz share your thoughts on my story! Thank you SO much!
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3 boys VERY CONFUSED
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:28 pm
I have a bit of a issue. I have three BEST guy friends and i've come to care about ALL of them A LOT. I've liked them all @ one point or another and we've all kinda had our little "flings". Within these past christmas weeks i hve found out ALL 3 still like me. and like i've said i care about them t0o. I've actually gone out with one of them but it was bad timing so it didn't last long @ all... 1 is also a senior & i dont knw what im gonna do when hes gone cuz hes always there. The 3rd i've known my whole school days life and he FIANLLY likes me. But he broke up with one of my cheerleader pals (im her capt) so i DUNNO... PLZ any advice? thanks for your help!
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Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:22 pm
how do u know if a guy likes you? i need advice cause i'm not sure if this one guy i like...likes me too? please help me!
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Sure but confused
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:18 pm
Okay theres this guy I like that I met at a dance in September. We talk on the phone and I go by his locker at school a lot. He told me he liked me still a couple weeks ago but we havnt talked too much cuz we have both been busy the past week or so. I want to ask him out now. I think I'm ready. But how and when should I?
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new bf?
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:14 pm
last year me and my bf broke up and he spread all these rumors about me making the whole school think im a slut, etc, etc... since then ive never wanted to date a guy from my school because im scared that those rumors are going to come up again and people look at me like im an even bigger slut for going out with someone else.. i KNOW i shouldnt care what people think of me, so please dont say anything like that.. theres this guy that I like and he likes me too and he wants a relationship with me, but i told him how i felt about not wanting to date a guy from school.. I told him this, "i really want to be with you too, but from everything [i told him about what happened last yr] i just dont want the title of being 'boyfriend n girlfrien...
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Scared of BF's
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:12 pm
okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*
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playaz
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:56 pm
omg there is thisguy ryan and hes not hot but hes attractive and all the ladiez love him! and well i have a history with him... and he played me over so i promised my self that i would never fall for him again well his charm got to me and well.... yea i think i might likehim again and i knoe that i shouldn't but IDK!!
help me!
asap
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Should I trust this??
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:46 pm
I am 6 years out of high school and I am still with my high school boyfriend. We are not married but have a child together. He has never cheated on me or anything, but now he is saying we should get our own places so that we can save some money (because this way I would get help from the state). He wants to do this for about a year, and he also says we need a little time apart because we've been together so long and been through so much. I don't agree with it, and I don't really understand it, but we've talked about it and talked about it and I really don't have a choice in the matter. He says he'll be over all the time and that I can keep EVERYTHING at my place, that he just wants to keep his clothes in his place. He's not as affectionate ...
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Questions..
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:25 pm
There's alot of things my boyfriend doesn't know about me, like I have a Psychiatrist and I was abused and stuff. I keep it close between me and my friends because I know I can trust them. I very much trust my boyfriend, but I don't just want to tell him straight up like when we're hanging out or something. I think it's only right if he asks me personal questions and then me respond. Does that seem right? Or should I tell him straight up?
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Boyfriend..
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:20 pm
My boyfriend is absolutely the bestest person in the world. I don't love him yet seen as I'm only 14 and we've only been dating now for about a month and 3 days. But still, he always hangs up on me when we get into stupid arguements. He pranked me the other day with his friend, which I knew was him and I asked him about it and he called me a stupidass bitch!! I hung up on him and left a message on his voicemail saying I didn't want to date anymore. But we're still dating. I dont know whats wrong with me. I told him I hate when he says mean things to me and when he hangs up but he still does it. I can't break up with him either because no matter what I do I always tend to run back to him because I think I need him in my life. He means so muc...
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I love you HOw can I fix it
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:00 pm
I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love yoI love you I love you u I love you I love you I love you
HOw can I fix that
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well im confused about my relationship
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:34 pm
Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help??
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my boyfriend kinda blew me off
Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:22 pm
today me and my boyfriend were surpose to hangout...well his parents came home early from work so i was going to go to his house...but then he called me and he said he was going to go buy a game with his older brother real quick and hell be right back and hell call me when he got back...he left @ 2 30 today.....its now 4:20!! i called at 4 but his mom answered and said he still wasnt here...im giving him till 5 to call me....when he calls me later when he does get home and its past 5...what do i say? how do i handle this? its pretty rude what he did....
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Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:06 pm
well i have a boyfriend i care for and weve been together for 9-10 months now and well we dident kiss until about our 4 month together and well now hes kinda starting to want more, see my boyfriend is usto doing stuff and well honstly i havent ever done anything! he tells me its fine but i know he really wants it and i dont want him to cheat on me or brake up with me because of it! hes actually my first kiss and everything... im scared to do more because i dont think ide be good at it lol as gay as that sounds... should i just try it... any advise?
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Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 6:15 pm
me and my ex went out for almost 9 months...he asked me out at the end of the school year and all summer long we never even saw each other..all we did was talk on the phone and he was always out with his friends partying and stuff and then school came and yeah things were great but it always seemed like i loved him more or i wanted to talk on the phone with him more than he wanted to talk to me...and like sometimes at school he would say we are definately hanging out this weekend..well the weekend would come and most of the time he would never call to say he was coming over so he practically ditched me...well i mean he wasnt that shitty but when we were together everything was so perfect and all our problems went away..and then when the 6th...
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