|
Forever so soon!?
I'm 16/female.
There is this boy who likes me. We've been friends for 3 years and he's liked me for a good chunk of that time. There were times I liked him but it was never a good time to start dating. Recently, I rediscovered my feelings for him and we discussed it and agreed to give a relationship, dating, a try. He's a wonderful person but he's kind of clingy. He's already talking about being together "forever" and he says "don't leave me!" and we aren't even officially dating yet. I've had relationship issues before, being scared of them, and he knows this...and now I'm getting scared again. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him. He's so much more solid in his feelings for me than I am in my feelings for him. I need some help, an outside oppinion. What do I do now? I've kind of talked to him about this but he thinks we should still give it a shot, that I should take the risk. But I just dont know anymore...
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
wow, you sound exactly like me. Therefore you probably always want what you can't have. I'm dealing with the same issue, maybe you should try making his clingyness seem like a joke and play along as if you're joking around.
<3
ems
]
I can't say that he doesn't have problems, but I would say that you aren't going to be able to change him being that way. If it's something that's bothering you already and you not going out, I think you shouldn't try it, because it's going to be even harder. You might lose the friendship completlely. For anything truly good, you have to take risks, but you can't if you aren't somewhat comfortable with the person.
]
well if he wants you to take a risk then i say go for it. but make sure you tell him that if anything goes wrong or something that you guys stay as close as you are now. and if he loves you enough he'll respect that. good luck
]
you are too young only 16!! u have untill you are 21!! think about it! give it a day or 2! see what other guys have to ofer before you give him your full comitment!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
]
More Questions: |