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me and my ex went out for almost 9 months...he asked me out at the end of the school year and all summer long we never even saw each other..all we did was talk on the phone and he was always out with his friends partying and stuff and then school came and yeah things were great but it always seemed like i loved him more or i wanted to talk on the phone with him more than he wanted to talk to me...and like sometimes at school he would say we are definately hanging out this weekend..well the weekend would come and most of the time he would never call to say he was coming over so he practically ditched me...well i mean he wasnt that shitty but when we were together everything was so perfect and all our problems went away..and then when the 6th month came that we were going out is when we first actually started to do things with each other and have sex..and we argued over the stupidest stuff all the time and we would get over it..like it was an every day thing.. we would argue but we would talk about it and everything would be okay..and then all semester i was at home because i was grounded and i couldnt go anywhere but my parents let him come stay the night with me and stuff..yeah he did come over and hang out but it seemed like he liked his friends more than me..well he broke up with me 2 days after my birthday because he didnt want a girlfriend where we had sex everything would be okay and then we would fight again...he told me i could still share his locker with him and he still talks to me and flirts with me and i really like him and want to be with him again..and ill ask him if i get another chance but he always avoids that subject..but i know he still likes me because we talked on the phone one night and he was crying cause he missed me..and he wouldnt still be talking to me if he didnt like me, right? well what i wanna know is if you think he was just using me..cause i have to admit that he didnt give me the attention that i needed so i did throw myself at him and made myself to available..like no matter how shitty he treated me i would always come back to him...do you think he wants to get back together or what? im so confused cause for one i think he broke up with me for another reason and hes just not telling me..or sometimes i think he was just using me...he broke up with me for the stupidest reason..but he still acts like he likes me? i dont understand
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o wow, hmmm..i think he still does like you, but ther emight be another girl thats gettin in te ay, like he likes you and everything but when he tlaks to this other girl then he gets his mind stuck on what he wants and hes gettin confused bout what he reall does want, one thing is ture he dosent want to loose you and he wants you to be there for him, dont give him everything he wants and see how he acts, if he just like dosent talk to you any more uknow he was tottaly just using you and stuff, but if you can try and become goos freinds with him becuase if it is another girl he just might b curious and wanting to try sombody els ei guess you cna sey and then like he prob wants to try sombody else and stll have you there even though thats selfish of him buti think hes just confused on what he wants..
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hey! i have a friend, and she was going out with this guy, and she had the same problem as you. she always felt like she liked him more than he did. and when she actually was with him, which wasnt very often, because like you, he "didnt have time for her". but when she was with him, she always gave him everything she had. and he never showed that much passion for her in return. he ended breaking up with her after almost a year of going out with her. she was really sad, but then she thought back over it and saw that she was never that happy with him. she as only happy when he was with her, which he almost never was. he was never there for her when she needed him. she learned from this that if a guy doesnt pay attention to you, hes not worth it. so, what i'm trying to say is that, if he never payed that much attention, hes not worth it. you deserve a guy who cares about you. if he realizes now that he misses you, i mean, isnt it too late? you guys when out for almost 9 months, couldnt he realize then that you liked him a lot and that you were always there for him? i wouldnt try anything with him, cause if you guys would get back together, what makes you think that he would be any different? i know that it is hard to accept, but maybe hes just not good as a bf. hope this helped, leave me a message if you want to talk more about it. peace and love
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one of my ex best friends went thought this except the difference is her boyfriend beat her and would call her saying sorry and she would try to get back together with him and he wouldnt and blah blah blah anyways, the advice i gave her is the same advice i'm going to give you...he isnt worth it, they would have sex and everything and not be together and i would consider him useing her for sex and thats what i think this guy is doing to you, hes useing you and if you dont get out now and stop letting him use you then you will be used by him over and over and over again and then you will be the one hurt in the end, if i were you i wouldnt give him anymore if you know what i mean and go and find you someone who wont use you and who will care for you, dont take crap from a guy, if a guy can use a girl for any reason at all then hes not worth your time, I hope this helps, *feedback is greatly appreciated*...~Nikki
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