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There's alot of things my boyfriend doesn't know about me, like I have a Psychiatrist and I was abused and stuff. I keep it close between me and my friends because I know I can trust them. I very much trust my boyfriend, but I don't just want to tell him straight up like when we're hanging out or something. I think it's only right if he asks me personal questions and then me respond. Does that seem right? Or should I tell him straight up?
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hun you should tell him..keeping things from that doesnt make a realtionship any stronger. he needs to kno.
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i am sure there are things that he hasen't told you about him. if it happends to come up then explain, but don't feel obligated to tell. but when you do tell him and he seems to not like that part of you then he dosen't need to be with you.
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Sorry 2 har bout your past. But were thinkin bout th future, so if you really want this relationship2 go somewhere then don't you think he should know you. I think you should tell him straight. Hope I helped and good luck xxx
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Well, if you feel that you want to tell him..you could bring up a serious convo..ask him to tell you about his past..when hes done then you talk about yours. But you dont have to tell him if you dont want..it all depends on how you want to handle it. Or if you ever talk about family..etc you could bring it up.
-melissa
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i agree with you. just because you have a boyfriend, and yea u trust him. that doesnt mean you shoudl tell him everything about your personal life. i think you should wait until he asks u..n if your comfterable with it, then tell him....
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The first one. I would wait for him to ask you-trix
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Well, it all depends on how you want it. Do you feel he should know about it? You could write him a letter if that makes it eaiser. I dont think he'd ever ask you like "Have you been abused" so you should just tell him. And sorry about what happened!
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