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He wants the reason


Posted Monday January 10 2005, 1:06 am

Okay, so, I like my best friend, but he has a gf...we dont live in the same state, and hes always calling me hot, and beautiful and precious and cute and everything, and I asked him not to do it, and he got mad at me, and now hes "bugged" by it and told me hes not gonna be the same around him until i tell him the reason....well the reason is that I dont want him saying it because it hurts me hearing it and not being able to HAVE him...but he cant know that. So what do I do??? Hes mad at me :(

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I've fallen, now how do i get up!?!


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 11:48 pm

I'm pretty sure now that I;ve fallen for him. I feel like i could die when i'm not around him and when i am i feel like i could fly. Now, my question is, how do i keep my feelings TAME when i'm around him so i don't look like an idiot in front of him!?!?!?!?!?!?!

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Things he has done...


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 10:44 pm

15/f. I have liked this guy since last year. And he told me last week that he liked me too. I am not allowed to date until I turn 16, which is in a week or so. The thing that worries me about going out with this guy is that he has done things that I have never done. I've never made out wiht a guy and he has made out with all the girls he's gone out with, and he has fingered a girl. I wouldn't mind making out with him, but getting fingered is not what I want to do. What should i do if he tries to finger me. Thanks in advance.

Signed:
Unsure

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tall dark and handsome


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 10:37 pm

ok, say his guy's name is bob. now bob is 13 and in 7th grade and i am 14 and i am in 8th grade. now bob went out with a girl, say her name was "jane". jane is 14 and in 8thgrade and also a friend of mine, not a good friend, but a friend none the less. so bob and jane went out and jane about 2 weeks later dumps him. bob is really pissed and tells her to shove it and is obviously hurt. i haven't talked to bob since then and i really wanna go out with him. how long should i wait for him to get over the breakup. also once that time has come, how can i let him know my feelings that i wanna go out with him but not have things being awkward if he says no. i really don't want to tell him myself. ohh, and will jane think of me as a traito...

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To tell or not to tell the husband


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 9:53 pm

I just found out my husband has been cheating on me. We agreed to separate for a while because we can't live together right now. But he is still sleeping with this woman who is also married with children. He says he is not sure weather or not it is going to work out with her, that he doesn't know her, he is just living a fantasy right now, replacing what was missing in our relationship. He is getting attention he hasn't gotten from me in a while because our lives have been so busy. It doesn't make it okay, but our relationship is way to special to throw away and I want to work it out with him. We are going to couples counseling in a few months. I am having a hard time convincing him to stop sleeping with this woman, and I am thinking about ...

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confusedteensfriend


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 9:42 pm

Ok i am monkeygirls friend and I really like this guy, but he won't talk to me. please dont just tell me to back off away from him cuz its not that easy.... ok and then there is this other guy i like but I think he may just be using me for sex please help!!

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i need help: he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 9:23 pm

my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!

What should i do :/

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Keep Him Or Kick Him to the curb?


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 9:01 pm

Okay, see my boyfriend recently got angry with me. he got mad because i was complaining to my friend about my ex boyfriend and i told him not to call me right then because i needed to talk to my friend. well all of my friends say to dump him because see not only was me pissed at me he was pissed at me on my b-day!! of all times!! well they all said to because he wouldnt talk to me, but see he texted me and said "hey babe wha up happi b-day luv ya" but see my friends still say i should dump him but i love him soo much its just even i realize he treats me like shit but i cant help but love him!! what should i do? ill rate high!!

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hardcore prep


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 8:59 pm

i saw this shirt yesterday that says "hardcore prep" from abercrombie and fitch.. and i really want it.. but its like.. a year old.. so.. does anybody know where i can get last years clothes? like.. any good websites? tHaNkS iN aDvAnCe!!

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Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 8:58 pm

how do u pick cute backgrounds for the picture trail?

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cutting


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 8:53 pm

ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!

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Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 8:32 pm

Okay, im 13. And I know what fingering is. But, is it when the guy just puts his finger up and down the girls vagina? Because, other people are saying it hurts, how can it hurt whenever he just puts his finger up and down? Or does he put his finger up and inside? **Amber**

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hellpp pleaseeeeeeeee


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 8:01 pm

okay last year i went out with this kidd for 3 mouths . . and he stilled like me and kno where are madd good friends he like tell me everything but he likes someone new and he wont tell me who it is. . i wanna kno .. cuz i really like him and i mean the more and more i think of him the more and more i like him . . should i tell him that i like himm or find out who he likes before i say anything . .

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when i was at the movies...


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 7:19 pm

there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about?

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This hurts and i don't know why!


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 7:19 pm

I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!

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I'm confused


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 6:33 pm

I'm 20 (F) and the type of person that usually panics when somebody wants to know about by feelings. I'm not very much leaned into emotional blabberings.

I have been in a relationship where we don't see each other much but agreed to fix our lives (school, family etc) first before we go head-on a serious relationship.

My problem is - How, as girl can I control my feelings of longing to be with that person because I don't want destroy that future plan and disturb his pleasant present because of by my present needs (wherein in all the years of my life, its the first time I've felt this confusion)?

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what the hell!!!!


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 6:26 pm

wheres dat man dat rite 4 me????? iz he hidding> people are always like, dont worry he'll come, but ive been waiting, and he hasnt. ive never even had a bf. wats wrong wit me??? {14}

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confused


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 6:08 pm

I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!

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Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 5:55 pm

OK ive been liking this guy ever since we've been in the same class together and ive told him and he asked me out but then two days later he broke up with me saying he wants to get to know me more and hes been with me everyday since we broke up but still hasnt asked me back out...i want to be with him but i dont wanna wait around very long.. what should i do?

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im not sure


Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 5:23 pm

in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this...

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