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First relationship


Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 9:43 am

ok. well, a couple of weeks ago, i met this guy for the first time. i knew him through a friend, but we'd never met before. i talked to him on msn messenger and texted him and he was really flirty. when i met him, he asked me out, and i said yes, but he seemed really shy. ive just come back from having lunch at his house with his parents, and he still seems kind of shy and akward. i know he hasnt had many girlfriends before, but he always seems embarased and scared to kiss me,and scared that he's going to do something wrong. how can i improve his confidence? and mine? this is my first proper boyfriend and i dont really know what im doing. im 14/f

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Always the "Friend"


Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 8:03 am

Okay so here's my problem...I have a lot of friends, and i would say 50% of them are males. YOu're probably wondering what the problem is right? Well the problem is, i have a tendancy to fall in love with my guy friends because they are so sweet and the perfect boyfriend material type for me. Sometimes i think they like me by how they act around me, but then i find out they only like me as a "friend" I'm sick of being just the "friend" and i want to show guys i can be more...how can i should my guy friends that i can be more then just friends with them? That i want to be seen as girlfriend material? Thanks in Advance!

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it hurts


Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 1:41 am

what do i do when i cant make myself happy ne more... im at a point where i battle myself everyday to see if im goin to do the things i love... the things i love arent even makin me happy... and i just got broken up with by the one i guy i really thought i could trust and found out that all i was to him was some chick he could own... how do i get through... where am i suppose to turn to... how can i make myself happy... when i cry over everything that is goin wrong? what do i do? who can i turn to when my best friends dont know waht im going through?

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14 never kissed


Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 12:35 am

ive never kissed b4 except when i was like 4. whats it like and how exactly do you do it??

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Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 12:29 am

okay so i go out with this guy but like its wierd around him like it used to be easy when we where just friends and i like him like alot but i dont no i get neverouse and stuf help please

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kinda cunfused


Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 12:13 am

okay, i've written before about this kid brendan who i'm still in love with. (really bad) but it doesn't really look like he's interested at all. so i started going out with the kid steve who i've gone out with a million of times before. i don't like him but my best friend lucas said he's really diggin me and i should go out with him kinda to get him off his back. lol.. i know it's mean but i'd do it for him. and as you all know valentine's day is coming up and i don't know if i should break up with him now and get it done with or if i should wait a lil while after valentine's day. or would that look like i was using him. oh ya and steve is planning something really cute for valentine's day along with a couple of my girls boyfriends for all...

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Boii Trouble!!


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 10:51 pm

Ok, im 13 year old female and just broke up with my boiifriend!! the main reason i did this is because i like another boii!! lets just call him "bob"! all of my friends think that i shouldn't go out with bob cuz he is a player!! but one of the security gaurds at skool told me that i can be the one girl to set him straight and that my friends should beleive in me. they should beleive in the fact that i could change him. but they still don't they say it's because they don't want me to get hurt!! sooooo..... wat should i do?

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Posted Friday January 28 2005, 10:44 pm

ok here is the thing i want to have a long relationship but then again i dont. if any one has been in this place b-4 plz help. i just dont kno wat to do thanks.

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Posted Friday January 28 2005, 10:22 pm

okay so im going out with this boy and im kinda the one givng all the giving...he is just taking! its driving me crazy but i really like him what should i do?

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Flirt Advice


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 10:18 pm

I am the worst at reading guys. I probably couldn't detect when a guy was flirting with me if my life depended on it. Does anybody have some basics I should know about?

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Caught in the middle


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 10:01 pm

There's two guys i like very much...one is really sweet and has his heart in the right place and means very well, but he's over protective and though we are going out he barely talks to me and flirts with other girls. The other guy is about 4 years older then me, he's 17 and im only 13, but we like each other very much and he doesn't care about age. He's everything a girl could dream of. what should i do with my boy friend? i don't want to brake up he's just too nice and i don't want to brake up with him. How do i brake up with him?


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Confused about something


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 9:51 pm

Me and my ex have been apart for about a month now and i miss him liks soo much its crazy, i play love songs all the time and its so stressful.. he said we would get back together but i wanna know when but he said he didnt kno he needs some time.. but i havent talked tohim about it n a while and i wanna know if he still feels the same way i do... I juss.. Miss him alot :*( what do i do

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Posted Friday January 28 2005, 9:43 pm

i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..

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Posted Friday January 28 2005, 8:38 pm

I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

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help me out here


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 8:18 pm

I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!

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Movies tomarrow, should I trust him?


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 8:13 pm

I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else?

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How do i tell him?


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 8:03 pm

Well before me n this guy started going out we "talked" durin the summer and it just felt so right.. and after that we started going out and broke up in Dec.. because of dumb reasons, but he said we would get back together after he takes some time to think... its been over a month and i cant express how much i love him, sometimes i cry my self to sleep b/c i want things to be like they use to be i miss him so much... i dont know what to do or how to act around him i wanna tell him but i get so nervous to hear his answer weither its good or bad.. how do i deal with this?

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is it wrong


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 7:56 pm

is it wrong to like someone younger than you?

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help me


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 7:36 pm

ok so there is this boy liked sennce 2003-2005 right and this year its like i really really like him i catch him looking at me and i be looking at him and he catches me and i be rolling my eyes tryin to hide it but he knows that i like him b/c he be askin me if i like him i be saying no but then he be saying that he know that i like him and stuff and i be smiling trying not 2 but it happends and i catch him and its like i just stare @his eyes 4 ever till im late to class or someone bumps into me :) but does he like me, just teasing me, or just trying to be a flirt!!!!!!!

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What should i do or say?


Posted Friday January 28 2005, 7:21 pm

Ok.. well me and my ex broke up about i say a month ago b.c of some rumors going around and so he said that we should break up for a lil bit to let it all pass by then try back again... and its been lke a month now, and I still love,care, and feel for him alot. i try to talk to him about it but i guess u could say hes not the type to express his ways but he did say he felt the same way, but i want to get back with him so bad.. I miss him so much and hes my first love... i guess what im askin is how do i tell him what im tellin you? he means alot to me and idk what to do...

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