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Caught in the middle
There's two guys i like very much...one is really sweet and has his heart in the right place and means very well, but he's over protective and though we are going out he barely talks to me and flirts with other girls. The other guy is about 4 years older then me, he's 17 and im only 13, but we like each other very much and he doesn't care about age. He's everything a girl could dream of. what should i do with my boy friend? i don't want to brake up he's just too nice and i don't want to brake up with him. How do i brake up with him?
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make a list. one for all the things good about one guy, and another about all the good things about the other. it helps! *MuCh lOvE*nazY!
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I would suggest first talking to your boyfriend. Although it's a big thing to you, he may not even realize he's making you feel the way you do. A lot of people find themselves starting to like a new flame while already in another relationship, especially if you've been together a long time and things have started cooling down... Granted that I don't know anything of your relationship with this guy, but take it into consideration. Once you break it off, you may not be able to have him back. Make sure you know what you want BEFORE you act, and I suggest talking to your boyfriend first, before making that decision. Second, take into consideration the age difference...Not trying to get all parenty or anything, but four years can make a big difference in the teenage years--make sure his intentions are...well, you know, innocent.
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ok do you or dont you im confused? honestly you cant like someone else and then have a boyfriend how wrong is that! if you "dont want to break up with him" then you should talk to him about whats bothering you. let him know that you care about him, but make sure you let him know you are tired of it. and the other guy. well if you "like" him too then i suggest you break up with your boyfriend. its not fair to either of them when you play your little games. 17 though is WAY older then you. it may be 4 years but it doesnt even sound right.
best of luck- <3
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well definatly bring it easy on him if u care about the guy. but maybe say that things are getting alittle still and maybe we should move on. just something that wont break his heart.
Good Luck!
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