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what do i do when i cant make myself happy ne more... im at a point where i battle myself everyday to see if im goin to do the things i love... the things i love arent even makin me happy... and i just got broken up with by the one i guy i really thought i could trust and found out that all i was to him was some chick he could own... how do i get through... where am i suppose to turn to... how can i make myself happy... when i cry over everything that is goin wrong? what do i do? who can i turn to when my best friends dont know waht im going through?
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i ate a browny once...it helped..
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Don't worry, eveyone goes through this, unfortunately. Try talking to your mom, you'd be surprised at how much she can help. Try hanging out with your friends, like going to the mall, that should cheer you up. What's better than friends and shopping?! Good luck, feel better!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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first of all i know what its like to go through that stage. and trust me it is a stage. but you might of loved the guy (your bf) but not have known. you just have to try new things to make you happy. mabe get a knew bf
hope you feel better
goodluck
allison
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Seems like we go through the same issues.. Like me, maybe you've just spent too much time worrying about the things that cause you pain. All of this takes away from your mental and physical health. Your looks go down the drain because you allow yourself to rot from the inside out. You're better off knowing how your ex really is so that way you can focus all of your time and energy on taking care of you.
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Hey,
Give yourself some time out to cry and really think over just what's going on in your life and WHY you aren't happy. Once you've figured it out, it might be easier to make it better. As for the things you love not making you happy, well...if you're life's pretty bad at the moment then you probably don't care about them so much any more, or they seem unimportant compared to what you're going through. Take some time out on them, or if you can't, try not to expect too much of them. If you're really down, doing something you love may not always bring you right back up, and if it doesn't you could grow to resent it. Hold out on them and come back to them/come back to trying to enjoy them when you're feeling better in your life :)
And you should tell your friends what's going on...they won't be mean or do anything horrible...if they're your friends, they'll just want to help :)
And how to feel happier...there isn't any kind of magic cure that can make you suddenly sit up one day and think, 'I'm happy!'. But, talking about your problems (even if it is only to a diary), making a list of all the good things that have happened in a day/that you have to look forward to, generally chilling out and listening to some of your favourite movies, and getting lots of sunlight and chocolate (they produce a 'happy hormone') will help :D
I hope things get lots better for you soon!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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