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Trying to get a clingy guy away
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 6:01 pm
This guy I know has told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I STARTED to like him BEFORE he told me. When he told me and continued to confess his love for me, he just got less and less attractive. He got clingy, and obsessive. He calls me 3 or 4 times a day and can't go a day without tlaking to me on the phone, as if we are in a relationship! I suggested we hang out during spring break so I can get to know him, but then I got too busy. Then he made me promise I'd go out with him during the summer when I'm not too busy! OMG! I have tried not talking to him on the phone and avoiding his calls, but nothings working. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I DID tell him I wasn't into a boyfriend right now. Any advice?
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help...
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 5:45 pm
basically to cut a long story short....
i really i mean really like this boy who has gone to the army before i got a chance to tell him how i feel because i only realised after he left.
its been 9 months since i have seen him and ive been trying to get over him but i cant.
he'll never come back.
then i met a boy on msn through my best mate a month ago. since then we've become really close. he has got deep feelings for another girl and he dosent know how i feel.
i'm just so confused right now.
any help would be so helpfull
xx
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am i the only one? ='[
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 5:44 pm
I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Usually it doesn't really bother me but I've seen so many couples who are younger than me and it makes me feel so sad and worthless. I'm ugly and shy and boring so I suppose no boy will ever want to go out with me, and even if a miracle happened and I did get one, I wouldn't really know what to do or what to say =\ People think I'm weird because I've never kissed a boy or even been out with one, I feel so different and frigid =[ I guess I was made to be single but I just want to know what it feels like to be loved.. How am I ever gonna get a boyfriend when I look like I do and I'm as shy as I am? I like this boy at school but he doesn't really like my friends because they're so immature, so he most lik...
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im going out with his best friend ..
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 5:25 pm
i need advice on what to do .. i went out withmy best friend and we went out for like 2 months then i dumped him and went out with his best friend and i like him a lot and like i still kinda love my ex i mean me and him are still best friends and all but he still loves me and hes asked me for like 20 chances and i just turned him down and hes hurt himself over it he still loves me with all his heart and i just went out with his best friend and i really like who im going out with right now but im very confused the guy im going out with now has a really good personality and im comfortable with him and stuff yea but my ex i mean hes knows sooo much about me and stuff and i gave everything to him like my virigity .. yea but im just really conf...
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baseball player
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 5:03 pm
ok so i like this guy thats turning 14 some time... but i was wondering about the flirting. would u call catching his eyes looking at you or looking at the same time flirting? Also at the games i think they usually show up later but they always seem to be parekd right next to us. (his family and mine lol) but then at the end of the game we always tend to stare... does that mean anything?
sry its long
plz help! i rate
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His mother hates me
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 4:42 pm
I'm 15 Okay well my good guy friend and I want to date, but his mother hates my guts. Once his mother said something about me and he was sticking up for me and she said "Don't you start that again or I'll pull you out of school." And believe me she would do it too. So my friends are like just date and dont tell his mother, but his ex girlfriend is one of my good friends and her mother is still really good friends with his mother. So there is no way that we could keep it from her. What do you think I shud do?
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Im asking this question for the sake of my friend.
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 3:49 pm
ok. so my friend likes this guyy named cody. he has a gf tho. it all started when he was constantly flirting with her and all at this party so she got into him. also when she had a dare to go kiss every guyy in the circle. when it came to him he kissed her back! so now shes also flirting with him constantly even tho he still is together with him gf. she found out but thinks its a rumor. So cody and his gf still havnt broken up but he told my friend. (the one who likes him and who likes her also) he told my frined that he really likes her but cant because he has a gf. but sounds to me like he likes her. and supposidly he asked he out while he was still going out with his gf. what should she do? And is it right for her to still be flirting with him?
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He Has A G/f
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 3:06 pm
Ok i didnt really start like this kid until i heard that him and his g/f broke up because she had sex with another guy.. and when i found that out he started to talk to me alot and in gym class he started to come over and play tennis with me and some friends...well after a couple of days of that i told my friends they could tell him after gym soo they did and he said he may possibly like me too ( of course he didnt give them a complete answer cuase i mean he is a guy)..well that day i heard that his ex g/f wanted to go back out with him and she asked him back out(they went out 7 months b4 the break up)well i was hoping they werent going to go back out but then the next day in 5th hour she told me they were dating again after class i told my...
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ok this is hard to explain
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 2:25 pm
well, i used to like this kid, but im slowly growing out of him ( if you know what i mean)
and well i like this other guy that almost everybody in my school likes. Hes realy perverted and everyone knows he is just kidding(most of the time)
but lately he keeps calling me, sitting near me at lunch and he keeps grabbing my ass..and i dont know if he is just kidding or not..what do i do?
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Back To My Ex?
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 2:10 pm
I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much!
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I really need the help... PLEASE
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 1:41 pm
I think I love this guy but I really don't know anymore. I'm confused. I just moved a little while ago and we never see eachother. It seems like he likes other girls to me but I think it is just because I'm so far away and I barely ever get to see him. We live almost half an hour away and I'm scared to get hurt. I don't know what to do... We've been through a lot together and I know I love him but I feel like he's pushing me away. HELP! 14/F
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Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 1:17 pm
ok, see, there's this guy at my school that I like ALOT for a LONG time. I know this is kinda a typical question, sorry, but, how do I find out if he likes me as much as I like him? And what do I do to get us talking? I never talk to him, but I see him in the halls everyday and we always glance at each other, but we're both too shy to say anything. I don't know what to do, because I never talk to him, so I don't wanna make a fool of myself by just all of the sudden talking to him out of the blue, you know what I mean? Anyway, srry so long!!! Please help me though!!!
Thanks a lot=)
XO0OX
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Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 1:15 pm
OKAY i REALLY REALLLLY REALLY LiKE THiS KiD.. AND MY FRiENDS KEEP SAYiN "YOU SHOULD TALK TO HiM" BUT THE THiNG iS THAT i AM SCARED..YOU KNOW! i REALLY LiKE THiS KiD BUT i DONT WANT TO GO UP TO HiM WHEN HE iS WiTH HiS FRiENDS AND BE LiKE "HEY WAS UP??" HiS FRiENDS ARE THE TYPE THAT LiKE TO JOKE AROUND WITH EACH OTHER! ANYWAY i KNOW WHO HE iS AND HE KNOWS WHO i AM (i'VE TALKED TO HiM A COUPLE OF TiMES ON AiM) BUT WHEN i TALK TO HIM ALL i SAY iS HEY SUP? THEN THE CONVERSATION GETS BORING(NOTHiNG TO SAY) SO MY QUESTiON iS WHAT SHOULD i SAY TO HiM ONLINE AND HOW DO YOU THINK i SHOULD APPROACH HiM iN THA HALL??
SORRY iTS SO LONG=/ THANKS* XO0OX
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Please help!
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 1:12 pm
I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?
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What more is there to love?
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 12:50 pm
How do you know if you've found "the one"? What makes them special and different from all the others? If it's a matter of being about to "tackle life together" then why don't young relationships last? I'm 14 and a female. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for only almost 6 months. But we've been through a lot together already. He helped me though the death of my sister, I helped him raise his grades, he helped me stop cutting, I helped him avoid getting kicked out of school... What more can life throw at us? Despite our age, I think we have more of a "love" than some of the people who get married. I'm not saying I'm thinking of marrying the guy, but I'm wondering what it takes to have "true love"...
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im miserable now
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 12:49 pm
ok well im goung out with this guy but his name wont be reavealed and well he went to this party last nite and he told me before he went that he wants me to kno that he loves me and that no matter wat happens to remember that and i told him i would and today i find out from his sister who also was at the party with him that she had walked in on him and another gurl last nite and im not shurr if he was drunk or not and i juss found this out a few minutes ago and well i dont kno wat to do becuz i dont want to dump him becuz i love him so much but at the same time im not shurr if i can trust him as much as i did becuz of wat he did becuz im not always going to be there to prevent these things from happening and i've never loved anyone as much ...
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does he like me?
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 12:37 pm
theres this guy who i used to like. and yesterday he asked if i liked him. i said no and then he ssaid he needs a hug and he picked me up. does he like me?
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Perfect but wasted!
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 12:13 pm
Picture this:
There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my bo...
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hes mean but hes nice
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 11:33 am
ok so theres this guy and i really like him and he says he like me to but we have a song and i think he did this on purpose but he danced with another girl on it knowing i would get upset. so i started crying and he kissed me. and he said he was sorry. but he still has a girlfriend. i dont know if he likes me or not cause he likes my friend to but i can tell you right now i cant let go PLEASE HELP ME!
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i dont wanna loose what ive got...
Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 11:16 am
ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also...
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