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Mixed Feelings
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:19 pm
I really appreciate anyone who decides to read this and help me, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
I've been in a relationship, on and off with a boy for two years now - I'm just about to turn 18, while he's just about to turn twenty. For most of our being together our relationship has been really unstable, him always unsure if he wanted to be with me. I look back at myself and wonder why I spent so many nights worrying and letting myself become so attached.
We had what was supposed to be our 'final breakup' right around New Year's eve. I was hurt, and we were split for a little over a month, and started talking again. Not too long after, we started actually becoming connected in all of the wa...
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More or Less a Friend
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:14 pm
I think that I'm in love with my friend. It sucks really bad because he's all popular at his school and I'm not really all that popular. I have liked him since 6th grade. I try to tell myself that he is just a boy and that life will go on but then....I see him at my neighbor's house. It kinda ticks me off b/c in the sixth and seventh grade he was a geek and now that people started to like him he thinks he's all that. I have known that this guy was great all along and NOW girls are starting to notice what I noticed almost 4 years ago. I hate it and it is making me depressed b/c I know I will never be good enough for him. Is there anything I can do to get my mind off of him? Thank-you! I RATE HIGH!! 15/f
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omg help me plz
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:10 pm
how can i get over this guy that doesnt like me ... espeically since i feel like we belong together ??
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Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:25 pm
okay, well i like this guy hes my neighbor and he just broke up with is girlfriend like a week ago and ifound out that he likes my friend. but she doesnt like him back. he talkes to me sometimes like on the bus mostly and i know he likes me because my friends boyfriend that is his friend saw that in my friends phone i love ryan who is the guy i like and he told him so idk what to do if i should stop liking him because i really like him i have for a couple of years no please help i rate high*
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Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 4:22 pm
My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby!
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Oh no!
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:51 pm
I am a 15 year old dating an almost 16 year old. Ive heard the term once you've loved someone you'll always love them. and its not the guy Im dating now. With the guy Im dating now I dont really feel comfortable with him like I act differently around him and I try my hardest to be myself. It doesnt even seem like were dating because this is how it was before we started dating. I dont feel a connection with him. Should I wait for a month and if I not feel anything break it off? HELP!
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him
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:49 pm
Whats wrong with me? I always fantasize to be with a certain guy that i kno. Or sometimes ill cry becasue I know i cant have him. He is poor and spanish pluss hes ghetto and he stayed back twice for getting into a lot of fights. That not my type at all. but theirs so,ething about him. Hes funny and makes me laugh all the time. Out going and hes hot. Tons of guys are funny outgoing and hot but i dont know what it is about him. I dont know about him though i would never go out with him. i guess its just a little crush. I cant see him my mom doesnt want me to go to my grandmothers house and he lives across from her. I never reall ytalk to him he doesnt have aim and i dont know his number. what is it about him?
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my fault
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:28 pm
First off, sorry for wasting a question on something ridiculous. That’s exactly what it is, though. Every girl likes someone, it happens. I try to keep it from happening to me though, because I believe it will never work. I can't get into a relationship even if I wanted to, like I won't allow myself. I never cared really, I figured it was for the best. But of course, someone I could actually see myself being with has stumbled along. However I'm still having so much trouble with the idea of a relationship. I’m 16, almost all of my friends have had some sort of relationship. I’m not saying based on age I should be right with them, but perhaps a close friend wouldn't hurt. We both like each other, but being close to a person is something...
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needing advice..
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:06 pm
i dont usually do this but ok..im in love with this one guy that i've been with for 11 months, and he claims he is in love with me, but when we get in an arguement he says he doesnt love me right now, which is weird bc i thought that if you was in love with someoen you would love them unconditionally, he makes all the rules and doesnt let me have input on anything.every timei talk to him i end up crying bc he hurts me so bad emotionally..the only time he acts good to me is when he is about to get something(you know what i mean) after that he's back to his normal self.what should i do? i try leaving him but i always get weak and run back to him.i love him alot and i dnt know what i should do.i try telling him how i feel and he gets pissed so...
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Well, theres this boy,
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 2:41 pm
There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other
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boy crazy
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:55 pm
well there is this boy that told me he likes me, but i only liked him as a friend then....and now that i saw him again, he acted totally the same but then somehow i am madly in love with him now...i am pretty sure that he still like me but i am not really sure...how can i know...and also, he doesn't go to the same skool as me so would it be bad or weird if i was his gf?
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Ways to forget someone
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 11:47 am
Could someone please help me? I know it's been long since the last time I'v seen this guy i like so much and I ought to forget this guy. There's no day that I can't think even once about him and the reason why it's because memories will just suddenly crash through after thinking of something that is related but i didn't intentionally think about him. I don't like anymore to think about him even once. I'm tired of hoping and hoping that one day I'll see him but there's nothing left for me to hope. Please tell me ways on how to forget someone. Those that won't cost much. And also another problem of mine is I don't want to date others. It's just him or no one. It's just different if it's him.
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Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 10:26 am
Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;)
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Help
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 8:34 am
I have this friend, and i really like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he feels the same way about me. He talks to me sometimes, but out of school like at sport he usually talks to me. He is kind of rude, he calls me dumass (lol) and tells me to shutup. But he only said that once.
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Don't know what to say help!!
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 1:15 am
Well my boyfriend of six months just broke up with me and we both are totally in love with each other and always have been but this isn't the first time we've broken up. Though the reason we have broken up is because we have both been really hurt in the past and are really scraed to let any one get close to use even though we are really already close to each other. I know I want to go back out with him but how do I tell him that I want to go back out with him but can't break up again because of him being scared to let me get close. I mean this time it really tore me up I haven't got any sleep and been crying all week. Plus the thing is we are already both superclose to each other. I rate high please help!!
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depression
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 1:12 am
just got out of a bad relationship, verbally and sorta physically abused. known him all my life, devestated that hes ruining his life with drugs, going threw bad depression, being forced to see doctors... all the advice is the same from everyone, theres not much else i can do, was hoping to hear some different views... ?
-one sad girl
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my parents
Posted Wednesday May 4 2005, 12:42 am
my parents have been really fucked up lately. i noe i shouldnt say that but it is true. i am 14 and they already telling me i CANT date or marry a black or mexican guy. just because they dont like them. i have called them raciest about it because they shouldnt be saying shit like that. this all started because my friend who is half black and half mexican was calling me and they found out about it. the shit my parents tell is bullshit. they wont let me talk to my friend because of his color. he isnt a bad guy. he was going to come to my house so i can give him something that he asked me for so i went outside to wait for him and my dad deicded that he had to come fallow me because he wasnt going to leave a teenager outside at 7:30 pm by her ...
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just want to kiss him
Posted Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:34 pm
I've been liking this guy at school. He's been giving me many compliments & flattering me lately. He's been asking to hook up in school several times and I really do want to, but when it comes down to it and we're finally alone in school, I freak out and stop myself. I've waited so long for that kind of moment with him too. We'd be perfect together but I'm just scared someone will see us, I'll look slutty and he won't respect me because we don't go out. Should I just finally do it or forget the kiss? (16/F)
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He doesn't like me anymore?
Posted Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:28 pm
I've spent the past 7 months recooperating from my last break up, my boyfriend really meant a lot to me.
Now I finally decided I'm back up for dating, and just when I decide that, I meet the most amazing boy. We spent the night together. He was so sweet, and he had all the qualities I've been looking for. When I was around him, I felt like I could just live in the moment forever, he actually made me feel like I was worth something.
He gave me his number and asked me to call him, and so I did. But he didn't pick up, three times I left messages, and he hasn't responded. I've sent him text messages, and it will take him hours to respond, mainly with only one word answers like "Cool", "Ok", ...
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i just dont know if i should even try....
Posted Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:18 pm
there is this one boy on the bus i ride..and he is sooo hot!! he is shy and only talks to the people that he knows...so he dosent talk to me cause i am new and just started riding the bus like 2 weeks ago...we dont have any classes together but ALWAYS see each other in the halls...do u think that i should even try to get to know him...and eventually ask him out if everything goes well..cause i REALLY like him..he's like contintally on my mine!!! or should i just forget about it and not risk anything...??? thanks! i'll rate high for good answers!!!
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