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my fault
First off, sorry for wasting a question on something ridiculous. That’s exactly what it is, though. Every girl likes someone, it happens. I try to keep it from happening to me though, because I believe it will never work. I can't get into a relationship even if I wanted to, like I won't allow myself. I never cared really, I figured it was for the best. But of course, someone I could actually see myself being with has stumbled along. However I'm still having so much trouble with the idea of a relationship. I’m 16, almost all of my friends have had some sort of relationship. I’m not saying based on age I should be right with them, but perhaps a close friend wouldn't hurt. We both like each other, but being close to a person is something I don’t do. He is an open kid, I don't think the two of us would be comfortable with how I am. I should also mention I’m moving several states away in the near future. Which was also my decision, that I can no longer change. So its my fault I like him.. I shouldn't have let myself get into this.. and I also can't stay here to try it out. Some talk of a long distance thing has been mentioned. He could do much better girlfriend wise, me leaving the state would totally be perfect for the entire world to tell him that. I know I shouldn't even be interested in a guy that will let other's opinions alter his, but if people are constantly nagging you for something that’s not even that rewarding, why would you continue with it? I guess i have a few questions. Should I give a shot anyway? How can I go about facing him everyday without him mentioning it? [we have the same friends, we all hang out everyday.] Also, if we were to try it, how could I not be so freaking uptight? Sorry again, and thanks.
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Hope I'm not too late to answer your question. I think once people have an interest on someone, they usually do the same thing. They get uptight. I'm telling this base on my personal experience. I think, whenever he's around, just do the normal actions you do with your other friends. Try. I know it's hard because in my part last time it's also hard but the results would be rewarding. Ofcourse you can't stop your heart beating fast and all that stuff :) but at least you can control your mind. I think you should give it a shot. I mean nothing's wrong with giving it a chance, is it? and also I think you should let him know too your feelings, because i'm sure when you're away from him, that's the time you'll always think if what you did was right and what if you told him your feelings?
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Everybody starts to like someone at some point but it varies with age. You have just started to like this guy but unfortunately it has come at a time when you are about to move. You can give it a go if you like but then it is up to you whether you can be strong enough to either let things go when you move or to carry things on after you have moved. It depends on how strong you think you can be. It might be difficult carrying things on after you move as you won't really be able to see him that much and things might get tricky. If you don't think you will become too attached too quickly then by all means go for it. If you think you will become really attached to him then don't do it. Will you be coming back or moving permanently? If it's only semi-permanent then it's always something you can look forward to when you come back
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