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Giving head
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:11 pm
I recently just started giving my boyfriend head. I know what im doing for the most part, but what are some things that will really spice it up? I don't want to bore him but i'm not so sure what to do besides the normal sucking and that stuff. HELP!
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Should I?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:24 pm
Okay so heres the deal, im 17, female, and my boyfriend of 5 months is 18. I'm a virgin and he's not. I get so happy when we're togeher, and I mean happy, like I have mini orgasms and I get very wet. He makes my stomach lurch so much, like butterflies. He said that he would wait for me until I was 18 but he doesn't know if he can wait much longer then that. We don't see eachother much, it's a long distance relationship, and I actually haven't seen him since November. We talk about sex all the time, mostly teasing eachother. I wanna do it so bad, but I'm so self-concious, he doesn't know that though. Like I said, we don't see eachother much and when we do, its like heaven. Last time I saw him, we made out for 7 hours straight and I let him f...
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im kind of really grossed out =/
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 6:32 pm
15/f
okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).
now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do?
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how long
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 4:19 pm
Male AND Female opinions wanted.
How long do you think [if the people are comfortable in doing so] if your dating someone is a good enough time to wait before giving them a HandJob ? A blowjob? Fingering? Sex?
And the people dating are 16.
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valentinessss
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 4:09 pm
i want to foreplay with my boyfriend for vday but where would do 16 year olds go to do that stuff? i love him with all my heart and i dont want to be interupted by parents or siblings.
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guys talk about...
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 3:47 pm
do guys talk about like how far they've gone with a girl alot? and brag about it to their guy friends?
if you're in a year long relationship with a guy and you give them a bj or something do you think they would probably still go and tell their friends?
preferably 16/17 year old guys
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uhm moaning?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 3:39 pm
This guy really wants me to moan when we do stuff togethor soon, he keeps on telling me to moan litterally with everything im going to do. why does he want me to moan so badly..whats so great about moaning. also i dont really see myself as a moaner..haha what if he gets mad that i dont moan..i dont want to make it too fake sounding? eh. i dont even know how to moan haha. i just dont see why he wants me to so badly.
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hickeys
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 2:24 pm
how do you give a hickey? like just a small one? ive tried before but nothing showed up on his neck and i dont want to suck too hard cause im afraid it will hurt him and i dont wanna make those embarrasing sucking noises...any advice?
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The Pill
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 2:03 pm
Over a week ago I began taking the pill. The one called Dianette because i suffer from bad skin aswell. After a couple of days of taking it i noticed my moods dramatically changing. I get mardy and upset at the slightest things. I snap and get angry a lot too and its beginning to affect my relationship. I was taking the same pills for 3 months starting in about august and had the same effects. Has anybody else had this experience with these pills? Will I adjust to them if i take them for more than 3 months or would you advise going back to the doctor and asking to change pills?
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First time
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 12:48 pm
18/f, planning on having sex soon with my boyfriend of a long time. I'm really nervous about it hurting, though...I have a really low pain tolerance and cry like nothing and I would die if that happened. He's been fingering me for a couple of months and I've been using tampons for a year or so (super, if it matters). How badly is it gonna hurt?
Also, is there a birth control pill that won't make me gain weight?
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Shaving
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 12:12 am
So when you shave down there, it's never entirely smooth right? because you shave with the hair so you don't get razor burn? So there's always a little stubble? lol
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birth control
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 9:05 pm
Hi I just turned 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We are sexually active and I really want to finally get on birth control. I was wondering what type is the best and that most people use and also which is also average priced. My sister-in-law is on Yaz and likes it. What other brands are popular? Thank you!
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handjob
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 8:05 pm
iif a girls jacking a guy off
what gets hiim turned on
and how long should iit take
hiim to cummm
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the sex hurts
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 4:43 pm
i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. we've been having sex since october 2007. we haven't done it like a lot but i think it shouldn't still hurt by now. he's not doing anything wrong really. i've tried being on top and it wasn't too bad but it still doesn't really feel good. it still hurts a lot when he's on top too. anything i can do?
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fingered
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 3:33 pm
well my boyfriend was fingering me he has done it more thatn onece but this time i started bleeding he said he had 3 fingers his nails were short. it was not a little bit of blood but it was not alot an hour later i stoped bleeding. Why did i bleed and is it possible he popped my cherry??
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vaginal tears?
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 12:02 pm
i'm 15, female, and sexually active. i've had 15 partners so far and get tested for stds every three months. so far its all been negative.
i am very tiny my current boyfriend however is about nine inches and thick as a can of silly string just about...when we first started it would always hurt at first but only when we first put it in but not too long ago he tried going in really deep and it hurt like i was losing my virginity all over again...the next day i went to pee and it stung and there was blood spots so i got a mirror and theres a tear right below my vagina...the skin around it is very irritated and ive been getting frequent yeast infections [which i am alergic to yeast so yay for me] like once a week...it burns and ...
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after "having fun"
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 11:15 am
what do people usually do after their done like getting fingered or giving a hand or blow job? lets say if it was just a boy you were hooking up with, but are good friends with tooo. like if your hanging out and then in the spur of the moment something happens, what should you do after so its not all awkward and be like welll okay....
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How do i tell
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 12:48 am
Hi i'm 16 and i have had sex almost a year ago and i have lied to my mother she has no clue when i go to the doctor i lie about it ya i know its bad but just recently i had sex with a guy who was 18 he then got a gf the next day and told me that he was just using me because he was lonley and wanted someone and since he is 18 and he kind of tricked me into doing it with him because that day i had no intention in doing it with him is it rape should i tell my mom he doesn't speak to me at all anymore he ignores me what should i do
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pill
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 7:47 pm
i been on the pill for a couple months now.. i miss my pill on saturday its now sunday i took saturdays pill and sundays pill today (sunday) tomorrow im going to have sex (unprotected) what are the chances of me getting pregnant
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hot and heavy?
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 7:42 pm
hi! i've read alot of your answers to things and i reallly love your advice :)
im 18/female
so there is this boy i've been good friends with for about four years, maybe even longer. i've always been REALLY attracted to him and i know hes attracted to me. within the past year though he's been trying to get with me and the only thing that stopped me was his girlfriend of two years. well since they recently broke up he knows id do anything with him in a second because he turns me on like no other, hahaaaa. the thing is im still a virgin, never had a boyfriend, farthest ive gone with a guy is making out and the last time i did that was like seriously 3 years ago. i'm so self conscious of myself but the thing is i t...
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